2 weeks of online dating. Already 7 flakes

[Ken]

Just had another girl flake today. I have another girl im supposed to meet in a few days. I cant imagine her actually showing up.

I got all these girls phone numbers and confirmed the date with them either the day before or the day of the date. Half completley ghosted, the other half apoligized and offered to reschedule but claim they are never free.

If this girl flakes I will try cold approaching next.

 

[Deleted member 14774]

If you can’t get girls from dating apps then you definitely can’t get them by cold approaching

 

[BoneDensity]

What is your social media like? Are you instagrammaxxed? What is your snapscore? They flake on you probably because they think you're a low status, low value male.

 

[Deleted member 18840]

If you can’t get girls from dating apps then you definitely can’t get them by cold approaching

Cold approach is easier. Well warm approach at least

 

[Pendejo]

What is your social media like? Are you instagrammaxxed? What is your snapscore? They flake on you probably because they think you're a low status, low value male.

Man I fucking hate women, why tf they gotta care so much about this bs?

 

[Pendejo]

Cold approach is easier. Well warm approach at least

Ok Chad.

 

[Deleted member 18840]

Ok Chad.

I mean it makes sense. It has nothing to do with me.

 

[BoneDensity]

Man I fucking hate women, why tf they gotta care so much about this bs?

Because it's an excellent indicator of social status and NT.

 

[Deleted member 9801]

I feel for subchads ngl

Clearly you’re not subhuman enough ig they are planning dates but also not gl enough if they all flake

You’re in limbo son

 

[Pendejo]

You’re in limbo son

Looks purgatory @6ft4

 

[Deleted member 18840]

I feel for subchads ngl

Clearly you’re not subhuman enough ig they are planning dates but also not gl enough if they all flake

You’re in limbo son

I mean if he is asian, he should be thankful to be considered as an option

 

[Deleted member 9801]

I mean if he is asian, he should be thankful to be considered as an option

Probs gl for an asian before subtracting ethnic tax. He’s doing better than a lot of guys

 

[crosshold]

If you can’t get girls from dating apps then you definitely can’t get them by cold approaching

wrong, cold approach would definitely be better for OP. women just use dating apps for validation and are afraid to meet up with someone theyve never even seen irl

 

[Pendejo]

wrong, cold approach would definitely be better for OP. women just use dating apps for validation and are afraid to meet up with someone theyve never even seen irl

Cold approach is not viable on this day and age bro.

 

[crosshold]

Cold approach is not viable on this day and age bro.

100% disagree. in fact its probably one of the only few ways to be successful. dating apps suck and if you have no social circle you cant do that either. there arent many options. at the end of the day what stands out to a woman is a man having the balls to come up and approach

 

[Pendejo]

100% disagree. in fact its probably one of the only few ways to be successful. dating apps suck and if you have no social circle you cant do that either. there arent many options. at the end of the day what stands out to a woman is a man having the balls to come up and approach

It won’t work if you aren’t giga NT, but if you were you wouldn’t have to resort to it anyway since you most likely would have a social circle.

 

[Deleted member 9670]

100% disagree. in fact its probably one of the only few ways to be successful. dating apps suck and if you have no social circle you cant do that either. there arent many options. at the end of the day what stands out to a woman is a man having the balls to come up and approach

have you cold approached?

 

[john2]

Just had another girl flake today. I have another girl im supposed to meet in a few days. I cant imagine her actually showing up.

I got all these girls phone numbers and confirmed the date with them either the day before or the day of the date. Half completley ghosted, the other half apoligized and offered to reschedule but claim they are never free.

If this girl flakes I will try cold approaching next.

Bro you need to improve your texting game, you don't sound NT enough.

 

[thereallegend]

98% of women are chasing the top 2% of men on dating apps.

They're looking for something better than what they can get in real life.

 

[smvmaxxertilllate]

Dating apps and cold approaching is a waste of time for sub-chads. Since you are able to schedule dates you are most likely average to above average looks so you will find the best success with social circle maxxing and warm approaching

 

[Deleted member 12002]

Just had another girl flake today. I have another girl im supposed to meet in a few days. I cant imagine her actually showing up.

I got all these girls phone numbers and confirmed the date with them either the day before or the day of the date. Half completley ghosted, the other half apoligized and offered to reschedule but claim they are never free.

If this girl flakes I will try cold approaching next.

Don't ever ask a girl if you're still on for the date right before it's about to happen. Let her be the one to text you. She always will. And if she texts you asking to reschedule simply reply with "Who is this?", and let her go.

 

[crosshold]

have you cold approached?

i have not, im too insecure

so technically im only going by theory but im still fairly confident its a lot better than dating apps

 

[traveler]

 

[Afrikancel]

Just had another girl flake today. I have another girl im supposed to meet in a few days. I cant imagine her actually showing up.

I got all these girls phone numbers and confirmed the date with them either the day before or the day of the date. Half completley ghosted, the other half apoligized and offered to reschedule but claim they are never free.

If this girl flakes I will try cold approaching next.

This is the nature of the game. You need to invite these girls to your place bro. Give them specific times and invite more than one girl to your place and that way youre not changing your routine and if 2 girls flake then the third girl may come through

 

[Ken]

What is your social media like? Are you instagrammaxxed? What is your snapscore? They flake on you probably because they think you're a low status, low value male.

For most of them I asked for their phone number straight away. No social media.

 

[Afrikancel]

For most of them I asked for their phone number straight away. No social media.

Not all girls text much bro. Snappchat is better for younger women because you can send pics. Good if you have good hair/face

 

[Ken]

Not all girls text much bro. Snappchat is better for younger women because you can send pics. Good if you have good hair/face

I would use snap but my snapscore is only 5000

 

[Afrikancel]

I would use snap but my snapscore is only 5000

Thats fine. Say you deleted it and made a new one. Women dont care bro

 

[Deleted member 16944]

I have news for you if you think cold approaching is going to be any easier.

It's not.

 

[Tenshi]

on tinder you have an algorithm that won't show you to most women on top of having an absurd competition since the app is 90% males.

irl you can talk to any girl, even the hottest one and competition is basically inexistent since most guys are pussies.

 

[Thinking_Machine]

What is your social media like? Are you instagrammaxxed? What is your snapscore? They flake on you probably because they think you're a low status, low value male.

good points, though i will add that you don't need insta or snap if you have enough social validation already on your tinder profile, e.g., soical pics with both guys and girls

i don't have insta or snap and would average 1000 matches every 1–2 months back when i used to use tinder, simply by demonstrating social proof / NT attributes in the profile pictures

rather than waste time on insta and snap, op can just use that approach + a few flattering photos if social photos aren't good enough

 

[Deleted member 16944]

on tinder you have an algorithm that won't show you to most women on top of having an absurd competition since the app is 90% males.

irl you can talk to any girl, even the hottest one and competition is basically inexistent since most guys are pussies.

Life does not work like that

 

[DoctorLooksmax]

on tinder you have an algorithm that won't show you to most women on top of having an absurd competition since the app is 90% males.

irl you can talk to any girl, even the hottest one and competition is basically inexistent since most guys are pussies.

The competition isn’t non existent cos hot girls are in social circles full of good looking guys. Girls who are 4+/10 get approached loads in nightlife environments and occasionally in daytime environments.
Every single girl and I really do mean every single one has infinite options online.

Remember that if you approach a girl irl you are still in some ways competing with her online options as well as the other guys who had the balls to approach. Although she probably will lower her looks threshold slightly vs online

 

[BigJimsWornOutTires]

Its over if you're using dating apps. Srs. I like to play with that idea and use past experiences, but without the fiction, I wouldn't touch a dating app. It's heavily plagued with garbage. From the larping catfish to the validation whores. And you'll be surprised how many Chads have received a reply in the following likeness. "Soooo. I'm in a complicating relationship with no sex." Or, "Sooo. I have a husband that won't divorce me." Or, "Sooo, this ex still lives with me and rapes me every night. I'm trying to escape that nightmare, but ugh, right? Ugh. Bills aren't gonna pay themselves."

 

[Tenshi]

The competition isn’t non existent cos hot girls are in social circles full of good looking guys. Girls who are 4+/10 get approached loads in nightlife environments and occasionally in daytime environments.
Every single girl and I really do mean every single one has infinite options online.

Remember that if you approach a girl irl you are still in some ways competing with her online options as well as the other guys who had the balls to approach. Although she probably will lower her looks threshold slightly vs online

not all girls are in these crazy social circles full of gl guys, they surely wish they did but that's not reality.

Most girls are just like guys, they don't have that of an exciting social life as you might expect, they work/study and go home watch netflix and rot (and potentially waste someone's time on tinder playing hot or not). Not all girls are out there partying.

Girls may have options, but it doesn't mean those options are desirable. There's a hierarchy too, and some fucker she doesn't even know if he's catfish or not is way behind in that line.

And trust me, it's really rare for a girl to be approached, at least during the day, god even in clubs most guys won't do shit even when drunk.

 

[Deleted member 19994]

not all girls are in these crazy social circles full of gl guys, they surely wish they did but that's not reality.

Most girls are just like guys, they don't have that of an exciting social life as you might expect, they work/study and go home watch netflix and rot (and potentially waste someone's time on tinder playing hot or not). Not all girls are out there partying.

Girls may have options, but it doesn't mean those options are desirable. There's a hierarchy too, and some fucker she doesn't even know if he's catfish or not is way behind in that line.

And trust me, it's really rare for a girl to be approached, at least during the day, god even in clubs most guys won't do shit even when drunk.

harem theory

 

[traveler]

 

[nobodyspecial369]

Just had another girl flake today. I have another girl im supposed to meet in a few days. I cant imagine her actually showing up.

I got all these girls phone numbers and confirmed the date with them either the day before or the day of the date. Half completley ghosted, the other half apoligized and offered to reschedule but claim they are never free.

If this girl flakes I will try cold approaching next.

happens to me for years too, quit the apps bro

 

[HerpDerpson]

No likes, no flakes.