aleksandr
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Over the past year or so I've done this dating app experiment which has culminated in (a lot more) success than otherwise.
If you're a looksmax user, no doubt you've frauded your dating app photos. Lets be honest, the women have too. But you're a new level of fraud (at least as far as males are concerned) and you've gone on some dates with chicks better looking than you.
You're nervous as hell, but you seem to get through it okay.
So the day after (because you're busy after the date no doubt, not rotting on looksmax) you message them "Hey, had a good time yesterday. Are you keen for another?"
...
...
at which point you'll either be ghosted or they'll respond along the lines of "you're a great guy but i just wasn't feeling it, sorry".
...
Previously at this point I'd have just left it, and kept swiping.
HOWEVER i decided to try something new for a whole year.
After being ghosted for 24hrs or receiving a rejection message, I responded with "All good, do you want to just fuck instead?".
I thought, why not? you've got nothing to lose. You're being transparent - you're being honest, you're not sending dick pics or being rude. Its a compliment for them.
No one would say yes though, right?
THE EXPERIMENT
The experiment spanned 1 year. With some weird lockdowns etc it wasn't easy to go on as many dates as I'd liked, but I gave it a shot anyway.
The rules:
- I would not date, as that would ruin the experiment. If a girl liked me, I'd turn her down. This was the hardest part
- I'd go on as many dates as possible with women (dating app pics) looked objectively better looking than me
- If they rejected me, either with ghosting or with a rejection message, i'd ask them the question
- I'd note down the results and continue swiping
The results:
I encountered 7 scenarios where I was able to ask this question in this context. Best thing is that its over a messenger, so all you're doing is sending a text and you don't require insane courage.
4/7 of this girls said yes. Can you believe this? Feminism, sexual revolution, idk but not what I was expecting.
1/4 we fucked once and she vanished
2/4 wanted to be a continuous fuck buddy
1/4 developed feelings
If you're a looksmax user, no doubt you've frauded your dating app photos. Lets be honest, the women have too. But you're a new level of fraud (at least as far as males are concerned) and you've gone on some dates with chicks better looking than you.
You're nervous as hell, but you seem to get through it okay.
So the day after (because you're busy after the date no doubt, not rotting on looksmax) you message them "Hey, had a good time yesterday. Are you keen for another?"
...
...
at which point you'll either be ghosted or they'll respond along the lines of "you're a great guy but i just wasn't feeling it, sorry".
...
Previously at this point I'd have just left it, and kept swiping.
HOWEVER i decided to try something new for a whole year.
After being ghosted for 24hrs or receiving a rejection message, I responded with "All good, do you want to just fuck instead?".
I thought, why not? you've got nothing to lose. You're being transparent - you're being honest, you're not sending dick pics or being rude. Its a compliment for them.
No one would say yes though, right?
THE EXPERIMENT
The experiment spanned 1 year. With some weird lockdowns etc it wasn't easy to go on as many dates as I'd liked, but I gave it a shot anyway.
The rules:
- I would not date, as that would ruin the experiment. If a girl liked me, I'd turn her down. This was the hardest part
- I'd go on as many dates as possible with women (dating app pics) looked objectively better looking than me
- If they rejected me, either with ghosting or with a rejection message, i'd ask them the question
- I'd note down the results and continue swiping
The results:
I encountered 7 scenarios where I was able to ask this question in this context. Best thing is that its over a messenger, so all you're doing is sending a text and you don't require insane courage.
4/7 of this girls said yes. Can you believe this? Feminism, sexual revolution, idk but not what I was expecting.
1/4 we fucked once and she vanished
2/4 wanted to be a continuous fuck buddy
1/4 developed feelings
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