Alcohol free. Porn remains my strongest and only addiction

[CupOfCoffee]

Yup I surprisingly stopped getting the anxiety and tremors I was having from withdrawals. My only serious vice is porn, and it's the one I've had longest and that is very embedded in my brain's reward system. I cannot do nofap and I'm not interested in it, porn is my issue. I still spend many hours on porn every week, and I'm into serious hardcore shit and weird fetishes that I'd rather not even bring up here. Every week I hop from one porn genre to another, and when I fap I probably go through 15 videos before I find one I wanna cum to. It's literally like a circus in my brain seeking to find novelty that I haven't seen in a while. I've had instances where I went soft during sex because I legit wanted to watch porn, tbh I think that's happened like 10 times or more. I know a lot of people have the same issue and it's much much more prevalent than people realize, so I'm looking for any suggestions on cutting it out for real, even if it takes a whole year to train my brain not to need it. Any suggestions, plans, tips or whatever bros, I might join NoFap forum to engage in a community of people struggling with similar issues but I know many dudes here are in the same boat

 

[potentialhabit1]

masterbating w/o porn helps me reassociate fapping with sex

 

[CupOfCoffee]

masterbating w/o porn helps me reassociate fapping with sex

I actually struggle to masturbate without porn, I've done it but I still imagine crazy and deviant sexual things, I legit can't come thinking of vanilla sex, even when I'm having sex I need to think of really extreme stuff

 

[KrissKross]

As soon as I realised fapmaxxing limited my gym gains, i knew it was not an option to not do Nofap

 

[lexett]

Yup I surprisingly stopped getting the anxiety and tremors I was having from withdrawals. My only serious vice is porn, and it's the one I've had longest and that is very embedded in my brain's reward system. I cannot do nofap and I'm not interested in it, porn is my issue. I still spend many hours on porn every week, and I'm into serious hardcore shit and weird fetishes that I'd rather not even bring up here. Every week I hop from one porn genre to another, and when I fap I probably go through 15 videos before I find one I wanna cum to. It's literally like a circus in my brain seeking to find novelty that I haven't seen in a while. I've had instances where I went soft during sex because I legit wanted to watch porn, tbh I think that's happened like 10 times or more. I know a lot of people have the same issue and it's much much more prevalent than people realize, so I'm looking for any suggestions on cutting it out for real, even if it takes a whole year to train my brain not to need it. Any suggestions, plans, tips or whatever bros, I might join NoFap forum to engage in a community of people struggling with similar issues but I know many dudes here are in the same boat

Good on you for quitting the booze my man, you got this one too. Remember that its not how fast you quit that matters, you seem to be on the right track

 

[Deleted member 10524]

Fight it a battle at a time if you masturbate every day try doing it only 4 times in a week and see if you can do one of them without watching porn, keep on eeking it out and if you fail pick it up again the next day

the rest is up to willpower tbh

 

[CupOfCoffee]

Good on you for quitting the booze my man, you got this one too. Remember that its not how fast you quit that matters, you seem to be on the right track

Fight it a battle at a time if you masturbate every day try doing it only 4 times in a week and see if you can do one of them without watching porn, keep on eeking it out and if you fail pick it up again the next day

the rest is up to willpower tbh

Do you think making a log of when I fap and how I did it is good or is it overkill? My initial thought was to first switch away from extreme porn to something a little more normal and fapping to that, then 2 weeks later maybe only doing it 3-4 times a week, then later downgrading to vanilla porn or normal amateur porn, then reducing to 2-3 times per week etc

 

[Favela_cake]

As soon as I realised fapmaxxing limited my gym gains, i knew it was not an option to not do Nofap

How is that ?

 

[CupOfCoffee]

At the rate I'm at now I literally fap to porn 20 times a week. That's like 5 hours a week or more (some times i go on a fapathon and coom over 30 times in a week even, especially if gf is out of town). All that time I could have used productively or at least maintaining healthy brain chemistry, and that sexual energy I could have used on my gf and dug her guts out till she busts 10x on my dick, but instead my brain prefers to watch orgies and bdsm and "rape" porn and lezdom and femdom and bukkake and reverse gang bang and other shit

 

[KrissKross]

Best way to Nofap is to probably horse maxx I would say

 

[KrissKross]

At the rate I'm at now I literally fap to porn 20 times a week. That's like 5 hours a week or more (some times i go on a fapathon and coom over 30 times in a week even, especially if gf is out of town). All that time I could have used productively or at least maintaining healthy brain chemistry, and that sexual energy I could have used on my gf and dug her guts out till she busts 10x on my dick, but instead my brain prefers to watch orgies and bdsm and "rape" porn and lezdom and femdom and bukkake and reverse gang bang and other shit

Holy shit it’s probably over if you can even do it that many times. Fucking hell i thought fapping anymore than 5 times a week was over tier. THIRTY!? Fucking 30!?:

You unironically need to chastity cage maxx and give the key to your girlfriend ded srs. 30 is beyond addiction level. How is your hair density? Do you gym maxx?

If this is no larp I am legitimately astounded. When you say thirty do you mean actually thirty or do you really mean “just a lot”

Holy shit tbh if this is no exaggeration I don’t know what to say

 

[CupOfCoffee]

Holy shit it’s probably over if you can even do it that many times. Fucking hell i thought fapping anymore than 5 times a week was over tier. THIRTY!? Fucking 30!?:

You unironically need to chastity cage maxx and give the key to your girlfriend ded srs. 30 is beyond addiction level. How is your hair density? Do you gym maxx?

If this is no larp I am legitimately astounded. When you say thirty do you mean actually thirty or do you really mean “just a lot”

Holy shit tbh if this is no exaggeration I don’t know what to say

I'm on 250 mg TRT weekly so first step might be to bring it down JFL. 30 probably only happened when i was a teenager tbh but I wouldn't be surprised by 20 times a week, i usually fap 3x per day so thats 7x3=21. Some days I don't fap at all though, it varies with how busy and motivated i am.

 

[Deleted member 10524]

At the rate I'm at now I literally fap to porn 20 times a week. That's like 5 hours a week or more (some times i go on a fapathon and coom over 30 times in a week even, especially if gf is out of town). All that time I could have used productively or at least maintaining healthy brain chemistry, and that sexual energy I could have used on my gf and dug her guts out till she busts 10x on my dick, but instead my brain prefers to watch orgies and bdsm and "rape" porn and lezdom and femdom and bukkake and reverse gang bang and other shit

I can't help you tbh I've never had it that bad, my friend though was in a situation like yours where he was sometimes masturbating 5-6 times and usually 4 times a day watching all sorts of fucked up shit just to be able to cum, one day though he just stopped and never went back, it's been a year and a half and he hasn't watched porn once. So there is hope for you tbh

 

[CupOfCoffee]

I can't help you tbh I've never had it that bad, my friend though was in a situation like yours where he was sometimes masturbating 5-6 times and usually 4 times a day watching all sorts of fucked up shit just to be able to cum, one day though he just stopped and never went back, it's been a year and a half and he hasn't watched porn once. So there is hope for you tbh

I honestly think it might be best to aggressively quit cold turkey and have my girl know about it too cuz it might induce sexual hysteria of some type

 

[KrissKross]

I'm on 250 mg TRT weekly so first step might be to bring it down JFL. 30 probably only happened when i was a teenager tbh but I wouldn't be surprised by 20 times a week, i usually fap 3x per day so thats 7x3=21. Some days I don't fap at all though, it varies with how busy and motivated i am.

Are you balding?
You need to fucking stop man srs. Go do other stuff like sports or horsemaxx or studying

 

[Deleted member 10524]

I honestly think it might be best to aggressively quit cold turkey and have my girl know about it too cuz it might induce sexual hysteria of some type

worth a shot

 

[Vitruvian]

the first step is realizing the problem. you are already halfway there, be positive.

we all have had problems with it, or still do

 

[CupOfCoffee]

Are you balding?
You need to fucking stop man srs. Go do other stuff like sports or horsemaxx or studying

I started balding then i stopped it with magic hair loss prevention stack. And dude i know lol, I recently started crossfit (doing it for the cardio and its kinda fun ngl) and i might go back to boxing again. Still lifting, still studying, still working 40 hours per week, I just couldn't overcome this disease

 

[CupOfCoffee]

worth a shot

Now i need to find a way to convince her to do weird shit and let me fap to her a ton, cuz normal sex ain't enough for me yet. Legit my goal for 2021 is to find vanilla sex extremely arousing. I wanna see boobs or panties or an ass in jeans and get hard from that, i want it so that when im having sex im so into it that i don't even remember porn exists and i can focus on her without my mind going a million other places

 

[Deleted member 7580]

No fap won’t raise your t levels or turn you into a social butterfly
No need to torture yourself

 

[Gengar]

i also have a porn addiction but its just vanilla stuff so idc about trying to quit even if i could. which i cant. jfl.

 

[Deleted member 7580]

I'm on 250 mg TRT weekly so first step might be to bring it down JFL. 30 probably only happened when i was a teenager tbh but I wouldn't be surprised by 20 times a week, i usually fap 3x per day so thats 7x3=21. Some days I don't fap at all though, it varies with how busy and motivated i am.

Lol you’re on test, no need to quit
Just get a gf/fwb that you can fuck everyday

 

[Deleted member 6305]

Porn is boring
Imagination >

 

[tyronelite]

You'll get bored of it after a while trust me

 

[FastBananaCEO]

It’s hard man. I coomed today and it felt pretty shitty. Also caused me to eat junk and I feel nauseous. I’m kinda in the same boat as you since I’ve been trying to quit for two years, and although I made huge progress going from 3x a day to 2-3 times a week, it’s hard.


The problem is getting to the end. Have you tried the EasyPeasy Method? It claims to work really well but I’m still struggling even after reading the whole ass thing a few weeks ago.

 

[CupOfCoffee]

No fap won’t raise your t levels or turn you into a social butterfly
No need to torture yourself

Did you even read the post? Fapping is the least of my concerns atm.

 

[Deleted member 4014]

Would highly recommend you read this e-book called The Easy Peasy Method OP

EasyPeasy

Painlessly quit pornography immediately, without willpower or any sense of deprivation or sacrifice.

easypeasymethod.org

remember that you don’t have to stop watching porn while you read through the book, in fact the book advises against restraining from it while you read. The only thing it asks you to do is to not skip chapters and read the entire thing start to finish. Believe me, this shit works

I still fap and am trying to get over that side but as for porn? Haven’t watched it since reading it and have absolutely no desire to. And this comes from someone who was as addicted as you were. Srsly give it a try

 

[TsarTsar444]

I can quit porn, but not fapping

 

[CupOfCoffee]

Would highly recommend you read this e-book called The Easy Peasy Method OP

EasyPeasy

Painlessly quit pornography immediately, without willpower or any sense of deprivation or sacrifice.

easypeasymethod.org

remember that you don’t have to stop watching porn while you read through the book, in fact the book advises against restraining from it while you read. The only thing it asks you to do is to not skip chapters and read the entire thing start to finish. Believe me, this shit works

I still fap and am trying to get over that side but as for porn? Haven’t watched it since reading it and have absolutely no desire to. And this comes from someone who was as addicted as you were. Srsly give it a try

I'll give anything a try at this point

 

[Rabbi]

Remember the fact that you don’t need to fap and can P in V anytime because you have hair

 

[Deleted member 10536]

Yup I surprisingly stopped getting the anxiety and tremors I was having from withdrawals. My only serious vice is porn, and it's the one I've had longest and that is very embedded in my brain's reward system. I cannot do nofap and I'm not interested in it, porn is my issue. I still spend many hours on porn every week, and I'm into serious hardcore shit and weird fetishes that I'd rather not even bring up here. Every week I hop from one porn genre to another, and when I fap I probably go through 15 videos before I find one I wanna cum to. It's literally like a circus in my brain seeking to find novelty that I haven't seen in a while. I've had instances where I went soft during sex because I legit wanted to watch porn, tbh I think that's happened like 10 times or more. I know a lot of people have the same issue and it's much much more prevalent than people realize, so I'm looking for any suggestions on cutting it out for real, even if it takes a whole year to train my brain not to need it. Any suggestions, plans, tips or whatever bros, I might join NoFap forum to engage in a community of people struggling with similar issues but I know many dudes here are in the same boat

My only vice I have is lack of motivation to do anything at all anymore, after an endless barrage of failures.

 

[Deleted member 4014]

I'll give anything a try at this point

Seriously give it a go and report back here to let me know how it goes. While reading, you’ll understand a lot of things about yourself and your rationalisations/beliefs in a non confronting/non shocking way. It’s a really smart read tbh I’d even go as far as it’s the be all end all cure for porn addiction.

 

[turbocuckcel_7000000]

i don't see how you can lose this addiction unless you're in love or can have free sex with many women, i.e a happy man

 

[StressShady]

magic hair loss prevention stack.

What is the stack? Link me bro

 

[futuregigamogger]

Yup I surprisingly stopped getting the anxiety and tremors I was having from withdrawals. My only serious vice is porn, and it's the one I've had longest and that is very embedded in my brain's reward system. I cannot do nofap and I'm not interested in it, porn is my issue. I still spend many hours on porn every week, and I'm into serious hardcore shit and weird fetishes that I'd rather not even bring up here. Every week I hop from one porn genre to another, and when I fap I probably go through 15 videos before I find one I wanna cum to. It's literally like a circus in my brain seeking to find novelty that I haven't seen in a while. I've had instances where I went soft during sex because I legit wanted to watch porn, tbh I think that's happened like 10 times or more. I know a lot of people have the same issue and it's much much more prevalent than people realize, so I'm looking for any suggestions on cutting it out for real, even if it takes a whole year to train my brain not to need it. Any suggestions, plans, tips or whatever bros, I might join NoFap forum to engage in a community of people struggling with similar issues but I know many dudes here are in the same boat

read easypeasymethod