anyone else have extreme difficulty making friends?

[sigeonpex]

my whole life, from when i started school at 6 years old to now, at 15, i feel like ive never had a real friend. every single one of these "friends" always talked behiund my back and probably all didn't like me bc of fake rumors despite me barely doing anything to them. they were always being such a dick, like sending pictures of me on the whole group chat and constantly bullying me for no reason. they then decided to kick me out of their friend group (for no reason), and i realised they were the only "friends" i had. any place i go its so awkward i cant talk to anyone bc they already have their own friends and idk what to say. any recommendations on how to fix? like drugs etc to lower inhib and fix social anxiety and confidence?

 

[L13]

my whole life, from when i started school at 6 years old to now, at 15, i feel like ive never had a real friend. every single one of these "friends" always talked behiund my back and probably all didn't like me bc of fake rumors despite me barely doing anything to them. they were always being such a dick, like sending pictures of me on the whole group chat and constantly bullying me for no reason. they then decided to kick me out of their friend group (for no reason), and i realised they were the only "friends" i had. any place i go its so awkward i cant talk to anyone bc they already have their own friends and idk what to say. any recommendations on how to fix? like drugs etc?

what "fake rumors"
male friends were never espeically difficult for me to make, despite having significant autism

 

[sigeonpex]

what "fake rumors"
male friends were never espeically difficult for me to make, despite having significant autism

i dunno, but every time i talk to someone its lke i have a negative effect around me

 

[whitecelcoper]

Just go up to someone and ask them for something
I usually just say some shit like "hey I think I've seen you before, but I didn't talk to you. You look cool"
Seems scary but if you don't do it you won't find friends
When you find one friend it becomes easier to find more because they can introduce you to people

 

[iamnotyourfailure]

im in ur situation bro
i need the advice aswell

 

[L13]

i dunno, but every time i talk to someone its lke i have a negative effect around me

r u hygenic, r u interesting what

 

[prolarper]

i dunno, but every time i talk to someone its lke i have a negative effect around me

It’s that green aura bru

 

[filthycurrycel]

me2

 

[sigeonpex]

Just go up to someone and ask them for something
I usually just say some shit like "hey I think I've seen you before, but I didn't talk to you. You look cool"
Seems scary but if you don't do it you won't find friends
When you find one friend it becomes easier to find more because they can introduce you to people

wjhat do i say after its just gonna be awkward af slience

 

[iamnotyourfailure]

me2

we all misreable as shit

 

[filthycurrycel]

we all misreable as shit

we're roping next week

 

[moliuny]

We are friends now, hop on minecraft lil nga

 

[dipenhydramine]

same I've never had a friend

 

[iamnotyourfailure]

we're roping next week

on every soul in this universe we are doing that while writing down an 1000 page manifesto about our struggling social life

 

[sigeonpex]

on every soul in this universe we are doing that while writing down an 1000 page manifesto about our struggling social life

just go ER

 

[whitecelcoper]

wjhat do i say after its just gonna be awkward af slience

Just walk away who cares
A lot of people are pretty friendly if you approach them unexpectedly

 

[sigeonpex]

Just walk away who cares
A lot of people are pretty friendly if you approach them unexpectedly

said by an nt person

 

[justinAnomaly]

when i was young my friends would beat me up and ditch me. I dont have any friends now but at least the bullying has stopped since i'm 6'1

 

[sigeonpex]

when i was young my friends would beat me up and ditch me. I dont have any friends now but at least the bullying has stopped since i'm 6'1

were you short when they did that?

 

[justinAnomaly]

were you short when they did that?

ofc bro i was like 10 yrs old, but boneshmashing my shins got me rly long lmao

 

[whitecelcoper]

said by an nt person

I'm the last nigger you should call nt
I'm just low inhib and don't have autism
My psychiatrist said I probably have a personality disorder but he can't diagnose me because I'm under 18
I'm also diagnosed with adhd
Not every low inhib person is nt faggot

 

[justinAnomaly]

were you short when they did that?

i js have imaginary friends who i talk to, one of them looks like evelyn

 

[ozi]

my whole life, from when i started school at 6 years old to now, at 15, i feel like ive never had a real friend. every single one of these "friends" always talked behiund my back and probably all didn't like me bc of fake rumors despite me barely doing anything to them. they were always being such a dick, like sending pictures of me on the whole group chat and constantly bullying me for no reason. they then decided to kick me out of their friend group (for no reason), and i realised they were the only "friends" i had. any place i go its so awkward i cant talk to anyone bc they already have their own friends and idk what to say. any recommendations on how to fix? like drugs etc to lower inhib and fix social anxiety and confidence?

what’s your hygiene lIke? If you stink nobody will wanna talk to you, in nd and I have a lot of friends even tho I struggle with social stuff

 

[sigeonpex]

what’s your hygiene lIke? If you stink nobody will wanna talk to you, in nd and I have a lot of friends even tho I struggle with social stuff

im pretty sure im clean its js i have a pretty bad reputation and peple think i dont wannt talk to them and shit

 

[justinAnomaly]

It’s that green aura bru

brutal avi

 

[sigeonpex]

It’s that green aura bru

wdym

 

[justinAnomaly]

im pretty sure im clean its js i have a pretty bad reputation and peple think i dont wannt talk to them and shit

wyou might look ugly imo

 

[sigeonpex]

wyou might look ugly imo

yea thats probably why

 

[justinAnomaly]

yea thats probably why

u must be subhuman then

 

[Regular Doomer]

Quite the contrary, I always made friends easily

it has a lot to do with being genuine and kind I guess and fun of course

 

[sigeonpex]

u must be subhuman then

i think i look average maybe a bit below, but i think my subhuman social skills are the main reaso

 

[justinAnomaly]

i think i look average maybe a bit below, but i think my subhuman social skills are the main reaso

true social skills are the main reason you cant make friends. Looks dont matter in male friendships(most of the time)

 

[ozi]

im pretty sure im clean its js i have a pretty bad reputation and peple think i dont wannt talk to them and shit

How often do you shower? Do you use deodorant? Cologne? Why do you have a bad rep

 

[sigeonpex]

How often do you shower? Do you use deodorant? Cologne? Why do you have a bad rep

uh i mighve told one my my fake friends i do looksmaxxing and he spread it but the issues were also before this

 

[ozi]

uh i mighve told one my my fake friends i do looksmaxxing and he spread it but the issues were also before this

You could always js tell people it was a joke lol but look just make sure you showever and use deodorant every day you gotta be social and be able to talk to people if you go to parties make sure you drink but not too much and you’ll make friends

 

[buddhistking]

I was never able to make good friends in a friend group, they would also start bullying me

I was always able to make friends with like 1 nigga at a time just me and him chilling