Anyone have problems with idolizing friends?

[mug]

I have problems where I become too attached to people, even users here in the past and I think they are infallible. This happens a lot irl too… it’s ironic because the beginning of that friendship I see myself as equal or even above and it’s much healthier than towards the end of a relationship where I almost idealize people and see traits of that person in others… it’s really self deprecating and makes me put a filter on myself when that makes me become a different person then the people who befriended me….


When I get too attached / start treating people as higher they treat me as lesser…

Any advice?


I think I have bpd too but advice for idolizing people would be a big help… thanks

 

[Deleted member 14693]

I never think about retarted shit like this

 

[mug]

I never think about retarted shit like this

That’s because you don’t know how to think

 

[Deleted member 17735]

I don't think about shit like this, road to becoming a mentalcel

 

[Deleted member 14693]

That’s because you don’t know how to think

brutal tbh

 

[ChristianChad]

You want their dick in your mouth

 

[mug]

I don't think about shit like this, road to becoming a mentalcel

Idolize people overtime and don’t realize I’m doing it… ironically thinking about this and being self aware has helped me treat people normally and reguard them as normal

 

[mug]

You want their dick in your mouth

Not like that… it’s more people with traits I would want to see in myself and I make that person very idolized not in a weird way and it’s disconnects me from them

 

[Deleted member 9801]

So u admire them? Nothing wrong with that, but yeh it’s good you are aware and treat them normal

It’s much better than being envious of others. At least your friends motivate u to improve yourself