Are you supposed to see dates as a chore you want to be over ASAP?

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Maybe I’m legit schizoid and should just give up on looking for gf and escortcel
I don’t enjoy dates at all
I hate talking to foids
Is this the same for you boyos?
 
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if she doesn’t fuck you on first night then she’ll always see you as betabux first
 
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if she doesn’t fuck you on first night then she’ll always see you as betabux first
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I never got past hug on first date
I don't know how to be playful or flirty or escalate
Maybe it would help if I actually liked any of these foids
Guess I can't settle for sub Stacy for better or worse
 
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Most dates are enjoyable.
 
I'm on the verge of popping MDMA before dates
@MoggerGaston
 
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I like talking to foids, they make me calm
 
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I'm on the verge of popping MDMA before dates
@MoggerGaston
yeah its the same for me.

i use ketamine before dates, and a lot of alcohol. But I am thinking of using mdma/mephedrone aswell.
 
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I feel the same atleast in a relationship personality matter alot
 
yeah its the same for me.

i use ketamine before dates, and a lot of alcohol. But I am thinking of using mdma/mephedrone aswell.
@apocalypse

mdma is overkill, if your serotonin is too high, you won't be able to have sex (plus you will look aspie with a fucked up jaw).

Just take small dose of tramadol, it's ideal for these kinds of situations.
 
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mdma is overkill, if your serotonin is too high, you won't be able to have sex (plus you will look aspie with a fucked up jaw).

Just take small dose of tramadol, it's ideal for these kinds of situations.
maybe use mdma a few hours before so you are already coming down from the high while u go on your date?

i dont even enjoy life without being on drugs anymore, let alone dating JFL. Dating is pure torture.
 
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maybe use mdma a few hours before so you are already coming down from the high while u go on your date?

i dont even enjoy life without being on drugs anymore, let alone dating JFL. Dating is pure torture.
same tbh, my pupils are dilated 24/7 from drugs lol can't function without them anymore
 
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I need to go raving on first-dates tbh. But finding a girl like that is impossible when u have little/no options anyways.
 
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same tbh, my pupils are dilated 24/7 from drugs lol can't function without them anymore
My pupils barely dilate from drugs ngl. It's weird.

I can function fine without drugs, but I just find life incredibly boring and dull without them so why bother.
 
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I hate going to dates too and the process before that (texting etc...) but everytime I force myself telling myself I have nothing to loose and it's kinda of more xp to farm. So I actually go and don't give a fuck either it works or not. No need to put pressure on yourself for such a shitty thing in life.
 
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I only enjoyed dates when I first started dating a couple years ago. After being rejected so many times though, and every date being this same 'having to proof your worth, escalate, act NT, etc.' bullshit it's become completely fucked and boring to me.

I can't just chill and go with the flow, because then the dates always fail. Always need to have this drive to push the date to go somewhere which just sucks mentally.
 
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@apocalypse

mdma is overkill, if your serotonin is too high, you won't be able to have sex (plus you will look aspie with a fucked up jaw).

Just take small dose of tramadol, it's ideal for these kinds of situations.
I've taken alprazolam as my chosen downer to kill anxiety but just killing anxiety is not enough
I need something to make me enjoy talking mundane shit with foids instead of it being pure torture
 
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I've taken alprazolam as my chosen downer to kill anxiety but just killing anxiety is not enough
I need something to make me enjoy talking mundane shit with foids instead of it being pure torture
that's exactly what tramadol does, it makes you more sociable and motivated, while killing anxiety. It raises your serotonin levels
 
Fucking at first date is gigalifuel, if you do this she definetly thinks you have good genes
 
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that's exactly what tramadol does, it makes you more sociable and motivated, while killing anxiety. It raises your serotonin levels
idk I tried it once and just ended up puking, no opiate like effects at all
Might try again in lower dose
 
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I hate talking to foids
You're probably thinking about it too hard. You can practically say anything on a date, and, if she finds you hot, she'll fuck you or try to keep dating you.

Just talk to them about things you enjoy talking about, use common sense not to offend them, and fuck them or end the date after the conversation gets boring.
 
You're probably thinking about it too hard. You can practically say anything on a date, and, if she finds you hot, she'll fuck you or try to keep dating you.

Just talk to them about things you enjoy talking about, use common sense not to offend them, and fuck them or end the date after the conversation gets boring.
Me talking to foids always comes down to this

What is the FORD-method?​

The FORD-method is an acronym that stands for family, occupation, recreation, dreams. By asking questions related to these subjects, you can master small talk in many social settings. It’s an easy-to-remember system of questions that helps with rapport building and small talk.
which I find excruciating. It's not me that autistically forces these topics, they just come up naturally for normies.
 
I never got past hug on first date
I don't know how to be playful or flirty or escalate
Maybe it would help if I actually liked any of these foids
Guess I can't settle for sub Stacy for better or worse
Over if you don’t make out passionately with her under a tree in a park while she sits on top of you and feels your abs under your shirt while you grope her ass @Cutecel2001

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Over if you don’t make out passionately with her under a tree in a park while she sits on top of you and feels your abs under your shirt while you grope her ass @Cutecel2001

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Did u do it
 
Me talking to foids always comes down to this

which I find excruciating. It's not me that autistically forces these topics, they just come up naturally for normies.
Just change the subject lol
 
Wtf i thought u were high inhib
And I am, this didn’t happen till towards the end of the date and she was the one that told me to go to a more private place :lul:
 
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Maybe I’m legit schizoid and should just give up on looking for gf and escortcel
I don’t enjoy dates at all
I hate talking to foids
Is this the same for you boyos?
Where do you find your dates and what your stats
 
Maybe I’m legit schizoid and should just give up on looking for gf and escortcel
I don’t enjoy dates at all
I hate talking to foids
Is this the same for you boyos?
yeah I'm the same way they are just annoying to deal with when they're not sucking your cock or letting you fuck them. I think NT niggas genuinely like spending time with women, I legit can't imagine
 
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Where do you find your dates and what your stats
6'4 MTN on Hinge
tbh I settle too easily
I will only go on dates with HTB+ from now on
 
“dating” comes from the gay community
Hahahhaha
 
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6'4 MTN on Hinge
tbh I settle too easily
I will only go on dates with HTB+ from now on
Can I see your face in dms. Wanna see how I stand facially.
 
Dating is exhausting and pointless for me
 
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Maybe I’m legit schizoid and should just give up on looking for gf and escortcel
I don’t enjoy dates at all
I hate talking to foids
Is this the same for you boyos?
Only with Dutch foids. With EE foids I actually enjoy their company and they give me energy
 
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