Arrogance is the reason why am still struggle with long term relationship

[colton myers]

This

 

[pentamogged9000]

Drop the ego pal

 

[Deleted member 30552]

same. i can turn off girls with my immense cockiness and self absortion and then to try and make up for it i become extremely self deprecating. not a good combo

chad just exists and is humble

 

[Zenis]

same. i can turn off girls with my immense cockiness and self absortion and then to try and make up for it i become extremely self deprecating. not a good combo

chad just exists and is humble

because chad is blue pilled and thinks life is disney world where being the “nice guy” wins you the girl not the fact your 6’4 and 6 psl

 

[Deleted member 30552]

because chad is blue pilled and thinks life is disney world where being the “nice guy” wins you the girl not the fact your 6’4 and 6 psl

yea i used to be so humble and chill before blackpill. now i cant help at certain times be like "thats cause im so handsome" etc and i think girls like it but u have to do it very sparingly. imagine a girl talking about herself being so pretty, its not a cute trait. girls dont want u to be aware of looks too much

 

[Zenis]

yea i used to be so humble and chill before blackpill. now i cant help at certain times be like "thats cause im so handsome" etc and i think girls like it but u have to do it very sparingly. imagine a girl talking about herself being so pretty, its not a cute trait. girls dont want u to be aware of looks too much

and you have to be attractive as well yourself, if your ugly and do all that women will be repulsed and will think your a schizophrenic narcissist.

 

[Deleted member 30552]

and you have to be attractive as well yourself, if your ugly and do all that women will be repulsed and will think your a schizophrenic narcissist.

i dont think its ever a good idea in general to acknowlege your looks very much, just best to seem oblivious of them.

 

[Zenis]

i dont think its ever a good idea in general to acknowlege your looks very much, just best to seem oblivious of them.

not too much though, people will think your fishing and even if your chadlite women hate that

 

[Deleted member 30552]

not too much though, people will think your fishing and even if your chadlite women hate that

wdym

just dont talk about the way u look and people will think youre fishing?

 

[Zenis]

wdym

just dont talk about the way u look and people will think youre fishing?

i meant dont insult yourself or come off as insecure women are replused by thst. mb for not clarifying

 

[Deleted member 30552]

i meant dont insult yourself or come off as insecure women are replused by thst. mb for not clarifying

ye had to learn that the hard way. then something really bad happened between us after i did shit like that during and it was hard for us to even talk and we couldnt see each other so she just ghosted me. hard to explain but thats the short story

 

[Zenis]

ye had to learn that the hard way. then something really bad happened between us after i did shit like that during and it was hard for us to even talk and we couldnt see each other so she just ghosted me

i dont get why women are like that? i think reassurence is super important and both parties in the relationship need it not everyone is gonns fell attrative everydsy. Guys always make sure their women feels attrsctive while women thr 2nd their guy feels unattr get the “ick”

 

[colton myers]

same. i can turn off girls with my immense cockiness and self absortion and then to try and make up for it i become extremely self deprecating. not a good combo

chad just exists and is humble

It annoys m coz most of the time the guy in a relationship always looks like a betacuck with zero value to himself , while giving all the attention to his partner, hopefully this works and it keeps the longevity in a relationship, unfortunately I can't do that coz I hate to be controlled and look like a betacuck

 

[Deleted member 30552]

i dont get why women are like that? i think reassurence is super important and both parties in the relationship need it not everyone is gonns fell attrative everydsy. Guys always make sure their women feels attrsctive while women thr 2nd their guy feels unattr get the “ick”

women want someone as non neurotic as possible because their minds are a chaotic battlefield of insecurity of emotions. they need a dude to be their "rock"

i say just be like her dad in a way. treat her like a kid, are u gonna whine and cry about your looks to your daughter? women hate feminine behavior just like masculine behavior is kinda a turn off for men as well but men have more responsibilites as usual, as. they have for all of time. cant show weak emotions to women esp if you dont have other shit going for you, even if you lack in one category (rich, looks, penis) you cant show weakness. if u have literally everything set - model looks, money, dick, height, u can pretty much get away with acting however tf u want but that's about the only time

 

[Deleted member 30552]

women want someone as non neurotic as possible because their minds are a chaotic battlefield of insecurity of emotions. they need a dude to be their "rock"

i say just be like her dad in a way. treat her like a kid, are u gonna whine and cry about your looks to your daughter? women hate feminine behavior just like masculine behavior is kinda a turn off for men as well but men have more responsibilites as usual, as. they have for all of time. cant show weak emotions to women esp if you dont have other shit going for you, even if you lack in one category (rich, looks, penis) you cant show weakness. if u have literally everything set - model looks, money, dick, height, u can pretty much get away with acting however tf u want but that's about the only time

@LiterallyNightwing any thoughts

 

[Zenis]

women want someone as non neurotic as possible because their minds are a chaotic battlefield of insecurity of emotions. they need a dude to be their "rock"

i say just be like her dad in a way. treat her like a kid, are u gonna whine and cry about your looks to your daughter? women hate feminine behavior just like masculine behavior is kinda a turn off for men as well but men have more responsibilites as usual, as. they have for all of time. cant show weak emotions to women esp if you dont have other shit going for you, even if you lack in one category (rich, looks, penis) you cant show weakness. if u have literally everything set - model looks, money, dick, height, u can pretty much get away with acting however tf u want but that's about the only time

about one in every 1000 men have all those 5 its super rare. And yes i agree you cant act femaine with women as much as they lie and say “oh we want a guy who can show his emotions” they dont because its a auto turn off to them when a guy starts to act like them, all insecure and shit which they hate about themselves and they dont want the dude acting the same way. In these days women want to get treated like a queen while giving almost nothing in return and i csnt say i blame them with the amount of simps out their alrrady doing this

 

[Deleted member 30552]

about one in every 1000 men have all those 5 its super rare. And yes i agree you cant act femaine with women as much as they lie and say “oh we want a guy who can show his emotions” they dont because its a auto turn off to them when a guy starts to act like them, all insecure and shit which they hate about themselves and they dont want the dude acting the same way. In these days women want to get treated like a queen while giving almost nothing in return and i csnt say i blame them with the amount of simps out their alrrady doing this

way worse odds than 1 in 1000 thats like 1 in 50,000 at the very minimum. like 1 in 100,000 to be completely realistic

 

[Zenis]

way worse odds than 1 in 1000 thats like 1 in 50,000 at the very minimum

probably right, i dont think ive ever seen more then 5 6’3+ chads ever lol.

 

[Blackgymmax]

girls are intimidated by men who look like Tom cruise

 

[Deleted member 30552]

probably right, i dont think ive ever seen more then 5 6’3+ chads ever lol.

on top of that having dick, and money. its proably more like 1 in a million tbh

 

[Zenis]

on top of that having dick, and money. its proably more like 1 in a million tbh

chance of being 6’3: 3%
chance of being chad: prolly like 0.1%
chance of big dick(7+): 2%
chance of millanore: 3%

brutallll

 

[Deleted member 30552]

chance of being 6’3: 3%
chance of being chad: prolly like 0.1%
chance of big dick(7+): 2%
chance of millanore: 3%

brutallll

i think a bit below this is enough to still get away with shit, if u have top 3 dick face and height you could get away with making 100k a year or something or vice verse. but having all those ye its surefire

but even then dudes like brad pitt even get divorced, arvid may say he's a htn/chadlite but his halo is so strong around movies and SMV that no girl will care and will see him as a chad regardless of PSL autism. u know how many girls he probably had to ward off while with angelina? she knows girls are lusting for him at insane level, thats all it takes

 

[colton myers]

Drop the ego pal

Impossible bhai, everytime I see how girls act it annoys me, so I wanted to feel superior to all of them

 

[try2beme]

Im a egotistical jealous hypocrite