Ascended but can’t beat performance anxiety

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How does one get over performance anxiety, I looksmaxed pretty hard these past years. (Gym,surgery,skin, hair etc) and I’ve been going out a lot more often and have multiple chances to fuck girls but for some reason I always get anxious and can’t get hard when it’s time to fuck. I don’t have any good sex experience but these girls think I’m going fuck them like Johnny sins jfl so its kind of makes my anxiety even worse.

I know its all mental because I got blood work done and everything is fine and I even have morning wood everyday. Also I know it’s not the girls because I found them all to be very attractive.

This is getting incredibly depressing because I’ve lost girls like this before and now everytime I have another chance to fuck, I keep thinking about my bad experiences I had in the past. It’s to the point where I stop talking to women because I don’t feel confident that I could perform. It’s like a never ending cycle.

I thought about taking some viagra but I don’t want to only be able to fuck on the pill. What should I do?!
 
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Calming drugs. People report fucking better while high on weed
 
face down ass up dick in
 
this is one of the challenges of losing virginity at an advanced age.
 
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You been watching porn? These fake diseases such as “performance anxiety” didn’t exist until everyone started watching porn
death grip syndrome too tbh
 
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Adderall or meth, and l-theanine.
 
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You been watching porn? These fake diseases such as “performance anxiety” didn’t exist until everyone started watching porn
maybe like 2-3 a week. I’ll try to stop and see if that helps I guess
 
Try to get with girls that are 18-19. Less expectations
 
this is one of the challenges of losing virginity at an advanced age.
Teenage sex is vital to development
if you dont have sex before the age of 20 you're stunted
 
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have multiple chances to fuck girls but for some reason I always get anxious and can’t get hard when it’s time to fuck
You sound like a huge loser ngl.
 
That’s why i asked for help bro.
Stop being a cunt and just fuck them. Drink a little bit first or something, but don't overdo it so you can still get hard.
 
22 male

How does one get over performance anxiety, I looksmaxed pretty hard these past years. (Gym,surgery,skin, hair etc) and I’ve been going out a lot more often and have multiple chances to fuck girls but for some reason I always get anxious and can’t get hard when it’s time to fuck. I don’t have any good sex experience but these girls think I’m going fuck them like Johnny sins jfl so its kind of makes my anxiety even worse.

I know its all mental because I got blood work done and everything is fine and I even have morning wood everyday. Also I know it’s not the girls because I found them all to be very attractive.

This is getting incredibly depressing because I’ve lost girls like this before and now everytime I have another chance to fuck, I keep thinking about my bad experiences I had in the past. It’s to the point where I stop talking to women because I don’t feel confident that I could perform. It’s like a never ending cycle.

I thought about taking some viagra but I don’t want to only be able to fuck on the pill. What should I do?!
are you sure your not gay:lul::lul::lul:
 
I thought about taking some viagra but I don’t want to only be able to fuck on the pill. What should I do?!
Cuddle with them watching a movie or something relaxed, then only after you are hard let her put it out.
Nofap noporn also.
 
Stop being a cunt and just fuck them. Drink a little bit first or something, but don't overdo it so you can still get hard.
Mirin. What’s your max bench
Cuddle with them watching a movie or something relaxed, then only after you are hard let her put it out.
Nofap noporn also.
I think I do need to relax honestly. One time I was with a girl and I couldn’t do it in the moment but for some reason she stil wanted to cuddle and I got hard af lol.
 
Omg, my advice is so good it even already worked for you :)
 
viagra. dont take more than 100 mgs tho
 
22 male

How does one get over performance anxiety, I looksmaxed pretty hard these past years. (Gym,surgery,skin, hair etc) and I’ve been going out a lot more often and have multiple chances to fuck girls but for some reason I always get anxious and can’t get hard when it’s time to fuck. I don’t have any good sex experience but these girls think I’m going fuck them like Johnny sins jfl so its kind of makes my anxiety even worse.

I know its all mental because I got blood work done and everything is fine and I even have morning wood everyday. Also I know it’s not the girls because I found them all to be very attractive.

This is getting incredibly depressing because I’ve lost girls like this before and now everytime I have another chance to fuck, I keep thinking about my bad experiences I had in the past. It’s to the point where I stop talking to women because I don’t feel confident that I could perform. It’s like a never ending cycle.

I thought about taking some viagra but I don’t want to only be able to fuck on the pill. What should I do?!
Viagra / Cialis to get hard and Priligy to last long.
 
try phenibut
 
Would this be Temporarily thing? I don’t mind taking drugs As long I don’t need it later on
yea im 20, had the same issue as u, found a local dealer, got a packet of 5 blue pills for $30, then when i got some experience i stopped being nervous and now i dont use them at all anymore. its not an instant erection but it helps a ton. buy sildenafil tho thats the active componenet its much cheaper.
 
yea im 20, had the same issue as u, found a local dealer, got a packet of 5 blue pills for $30, then when i got some experience i stopped being nervous and now i dont use them at all anymore. its not an instant erection but it helps a ton. buy sildenafil tho thats the active componenet its much cheaper.
Ok thanks bro. Also was this something you would take everyday or something you take right before you are about to fuck. Because not all the time I’m 100% sure she will let me hit depending on the situation. Sometimes it’s random af.
 
Ok thanks bro. Also was this something you would take everyday or something you take right before you are about to fuck. Because not all the time I’m 100% sure she will let me hit depending on the situation. Sometimes it’s random af.
Take generic Cialis, it works for 2 days. I had the same problem as you, but generic Viagra and Cialis totally got rid of the problem. In a relationship I don't need it anymore, but the first few times with a girl I would always take Cialis 20mg again. If you can get away with less take less of course. Vidalista is a cheap generic brand, I buy the 60mg pills and break them in 3. Indiamart.com has good prices:

Vidalista 80 mg mg is euro 0.19 per tab
Kamagra 100 mg is euro 0.24 per tab


another brand of sildenafil cenforce 100 mg available @ euro 0.09 per tab
 
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Take generic Cialis, it works for 2 days. I had the same problem as you, but generic Viagra and Cialis totally got rid of the problem. In a relationship I don't need it anymore, but the first few times with a girl I would always take Cialis 20mg again. If you can get away with less take less of course. Vidalista is a cheap generic brand, I buy the 60mg pills and break them in 3. Indiamart.com has good prices:

Vidalista 80 mg mg is euro 0.19 per tab
Kamagra 100 mg is euro 0.24 per tab


another brand of sildenafil cenforce 100 mg available @ euro 0.09 per tab
I bought generic Cialis (made by Deus Medical), I took 20 mg and felt no effect. I could get hard as usual, but the erection didn't last longer. I thought it was fake but ExpressPCT is a reliable source.
 
Take generic Cialis, it works for 2 days. I had the same problem as you, but generic Viagra and Cialis totally got rid of the problem. In a relationship I don't need it anymore, but the first few times with a girl I would always take Cialis 20mg again. If you can get away with less take less of course. Vidalista is a cheap generic brand, I buy the 60mg pills and break them in 3. Indiamart.com has good prices:

Vidalista 80 mg mg is euro 0.19 per tab
Kamagra 100 mg is euro 0.24 per tab


another brand of sildenafil cenforce 100 mg available @ euro 0.09 per tab
I live in the US, can they deliver to a P.O. Box?
 
I live in the US, can they deliver to a P.O. Box?
Don't know. They send with EMS (India speed post) or RMS. Maybe check with India Post
 
I keep thinking
I thought about taking some viagra but I don’t want to only be able to fuck on the pill. What should I do?!
Best, good sex happens. When there is no thinking. One switches the brain off, from thinking. And just doing, without thinking.

I guess I'm low iq enough, to be able to stop thinking and just get into a thoughtless groove.
 
maybe like 2-3 a week. I’ll try to stop and see if that helps I guess
I've read from many many sources that it really does desensitize you. I rarely watch it now and I think it's helped me quite a bit. I've had similar experiences to you and it feels so shitty. Holy shit, the anxiety. :(
 
I've read from many many sources that it really does desensitize you. I rarely watch it now and I think it's helped me quite a bit. I've had similar experiences to you and it feels so shitty. Holy shit, the anxiety. :(
How long of Nofap/noporn did it take for you to have a normal sex like again
 
Best, good sex happens. When there is no thinking. One switches the brain off, from thinking. And just doing, without thinking.

I guess I'm low iq enough, to be able to stop thinking and just get into a thoughtless groove.
I understand. I just can’t switch the brain off. too much thinking.
 

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