can you become nd through socialization ?

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feel like there is ALWAYS a biological reason

ik people who were bullied who are NT just a little scared but so is everyone
 
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From my experience no but if you are good looking enough and can mimic basic socialization it wont matter too much
 
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I think only when you’re young, because your brain is still developing and can be rewired, past like 18 nah
 
i used to think i was nd but i just never had friends they still think im weird but i think ur just hardwired nd or not
 
i used to think i was nd but i just never had friends they still think im weird but i think ur just hardwired nd or not
I socialmaxxed a bit and got a small group then I went full nd again and now it's over

they were just temporary m8 anyway for practice
 
We're all NT, ND is used too often on this website to describe someone who is slightly socially withdrawn and it's extremely inaccurate.
 
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I socialmaxxed a bit and got a small group then I went full nd again and now it's over

they were just temporary m8 anyway for practice
my friends say im almost normal and idk how to feel about it
 
We're all NT, ND is used too often on this website to describe someone who is slightly socially withdrawn and it's extremely inaccurate.
no matter my efforts I have always been a outsider in every regard I relate to noone on a personal level

it's not looks or anything superficial like that either apart from a short period at the of puberty I have always been GL
 
no matter my efforts I have always been a outsider in every regard I relate to noone on a personal level

it's not looks or anything superficial like that either apart from a short period at the of puberty I have always been GL
If you were real ND you'd not even have the personal nor situational awareness to draw this conclusion
 
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I’ve got adhd and I feel like ur social skills have more to do with how people respond to you growing up. I still feel more socially aware and skilled than a lot of NT people I know.
 
If you were real ND you'd not even have the personal nor situational awareness to draw this conclusion
there are obv levels to it and it comes in many forms

people call it a spectrum do they not ?

most people ik lack that detached point of view
 
I’ve got adhd and I feel like ur social skills have more to do with how people respond to you growing up. I still feel more socially aware and skilled than a lot of NT people I know.
you made that conscious effort and adhd allows you to focus on the things you truly care about
 
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feel like there is ALWAYS a biological reason

ik people who were bullied who are NT just a little scared but so is everyone
If you're born or already ND/NT at a young age It probably won't change, but If you're ND and go through things like bullying, you might have a harder time living life like a normie and not making It super noticeable that you're different :feelskek:
 
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We're all NT, ND is used too often on this website to describe someone who is slightly socially withdrawn and it's extremely inaccurate.
Many users here are clearly ND
 
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you made that conscious effort and adhd allows you to focus on the things you truly care about
It doesn’t feel “conscious” nor does it feel like masking. It just feels natural most times
 
there are obv levels to it and it comes in many forms

people call it a spectrum do they not ?

most people ik lack that detached point of view
Trust me, I went to a technical high school years back, so it was legit 99% autists. I can tell you from personal experience that even those who are lower on the autism/ND spectrum still do not have the capacity to understand what makes them different from others. Not sure what a "detached POV" is but you're not ND.
 
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nigga ur not special bro:feelskek: why do u wanna be nd so bad
why tf would I larp this shit ?

what's cool is being a naturally happy charismatic dude that people want to be around and who commands respect and admiration not some "edgy mc who sits at the back of the class next to the window" trope

I aspire to be that guy and I am becoming him
 
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Trust me, I went to a technical high school years back, so it was legit 99% autists. I can tell you from personal experience that even those who are lower on the autism/ND spectrum still do not have the capacity to understand what makes them different from others. Not sure what a "detached POV" is but you're not ND.
glad to hear it doctor you know me so well

get mogged inkwell
 
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Not really because how would that create ND structure? If anything more socialization should produce more average neurology overall assuming that the brain's cognitive mapping was even sufficiently placid to do such.


IMO even people with things like BPD are not ND.
 
Trust me, I went to a technical high school years back, so it was legit 99% autists. I can tell you from personal experience that even those who are lower on the autism/ND spectrum still do not have the capacity to understand what makes them different from others. Not sure what a "detached POV" is but you're not ND.
Most people who think they’re “nd” are just high inhib people with poor social awareness.
 
Not really because how would that create ND structure? If anything more socialization should produce more average neurology overall assuming that the brain's cognitive mapping was even sufficiently placid to do such.
no I mean as in nature vs nurture

can you become nd
 
there are obv levels to it and it comes in many forms

people call it a spectrum do they not ?

most people ik lack that detached point of view
If u have no diagnosis you can’t just walk around calling urself ND. Self diagnosis is known for being inaccurate bruh you could have anything
 
Most people who think they’re “nd” are just high inhib people with poor social awareness.
I used to be this way but slowly understood the world around me

Well you have an autistic sense of humor that's for sure.
what does this mean ? I feel like that for sure is something that is learnt
 
no I mean as in nature vs nurture

can you become nd
Nigger i said it was biological and not social. Which is why even some psychiatric disorders don't qualify IMO. Since they are outcroppings of what is otherwise normal neurology.
 
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If u have no diagnosis you can’t just walk around calling urself ND. Self diagnosis is known for being inaccurate bruh you could have anything
I don't diagnose bc I don't care about putting myself in a box

I don't walk around proudly saying "I am nd", it's just a buzzword for me that I am trying to understand through this post

I would never diagnose bc I don't want the government to know that much about me, same reason why I would nevr take political compass or personality tests
 
Not really because how would that create ND structure? If anything more socialization should produce more average neurology overall assuming that the brain's cognitive mapping was even sufficiently placid to do such.


IMO even people with things like BPD are not ND.
I think he was referring to bad experiences with socialisation.
Yes they absolutely are
 
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I would never diagnose bc I don't want the government to know that much about me
You know it’s private and what is the government gonna do with your diagnosis lol. All I’m saying is that you shouldn’t even be using the term if you don’t have any professional experience or a diagnosis. Its like girls calling any asshole a “narcissist” you can’t just throw around clinical terms like that
 
Your response made no sense and it was retarded, that's all I was saying.
let me break it down

"glad to hear it doctor you know me so well" : irony to jest about the fact you make broad claims about me while lacking the necessary knowledge about me or I assume physiology

"get mogged inkwell" : bringing up the fact it's a positive thing
saying something typical of this forum
use of the term "inkwell" as to show I am joking
slight power move bc you were dominating the conversation to much


on a side note : are you actually a psycho ?
 
Being neurodivergent I assume is that your brain diverge from the masses. It is usually used for autists though, and autism means that the brain is wired differently. This could be something external influencing developmental stages, but usually it's from genetics.

Modern people having adhd (lowered attention span due to baseline dopamine levels being too low) is probably mainly from society though...

So in short: Usually not, sometimes yes (kinda depends on the severity)

You know it’s private and what is the government gonna do with your diagnosis lol. All I’m saying is that you shouldn’t even be using the term if you don’t have any professional experience or a diagnosis. Its like girls calling any asshole a “narcissist” you can’t just throw around clinical terms like that
A positive aspect is also that you could get some good medication, getting ADHD meds (emphetamines) make you work very hard
 
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You know it’s private and what is the government gonna do with your diagnosis lol. All I’m saying is that you shouldn’t even be using the term if you don’t have any professional experience or a diagnosis. Its like girls calling any asshole a “narcissist” you can’t just throw around clinical terms like that
nd isn't scientific it's a internet umbrella term we use to say we lack personality without saying personality
 
Being neurodivergent I assume is that your brain diverge from the masses. It is usually used for autists though, and autism means that the brain is wired differently. This could be something external influencing developmental stages, but usually it's from genetics.

Modern people having adhd (lowered attention span due to baseline dopamine levels being too low) is probably mainly from society though...

So in short: Usually not, sometimes yes (kinda depends on the severity)


A positive aspect is also that you could get some good medication, getting ADHD meds (emphetamines) make you work very hard
very nt response good job

for sure anhedonia is a mess
 
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ik people who were bullied who are NT just a little scared but so is everyone
What you are comparing is behaviour synonymous with autists but also people who are traumatised by bullying, say avoiding eye contact for example (autistic trait and also trait of an abused dog)

But the difference is that if you're ND its all biological, such as different sensory processing. For the bullied it's a physiological and neurological response caused by fear.

If we take the social friction that you are referring to, an ND person behaves strangely because of natural variance in communication styles and an inability to instinctively read neurotypical social cues. Whereas for the bullied, it is driven by hypervigilance, fear of rejection, self-protection, and a loss of trust in others

@ICL @buccalfatremoval @captain steve @Jason Voorhees @Hurly saint
 
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nd isn't scientific it's a internet umbrella term we use to say we lack personality without saying personality
It literally is scientific, Neurodivergent disorders are ASD,ADHD,OCD,Dyslexia,Dyscacula and Personality disorders and so on. Pop psychology just casualised the term like “narcissist”
 
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The most terrifying, malevolent, and downright evil psycho you'll ever meet...
has it been a debuff or nah

what do you think about people worshiping psychos ?
 
Still am. I have a proclivity to do that.

The most terrifying, malevolent, and downright evil psycho you'll ever meet...
1781046284955
 
I think he was referring to bad experiences with socialisation.
Yes they absolutely are
Almost all brain scans of people with BPD show near no neurlogical abnormalities. They are almost always totally unresponsive to medications(exception obvi if they have comorbidity). Their recovery rate via therapy is the highest of any psychiatric disorder.

There is simply nothing neurologically wrong. Instead BPD is the outcropping of bad childhood + exploitation of how learning normally functions in the brain. It may be undesirable, serious and maladaptive. That does not make it inherently neurologically divergent.
 
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has it been a debuff or nah

what do you think about people worshiping psychos ?
I can't tell if you're being serious right now but no I am not a psychopath considering that's not even a clinically recognized term in the DSM. I don't know about people who worship "psychos", they're just women with hybristophilia.
 
Almost all brain scans of people with BPD show near no neurlogical abnormalities. They are almost always totally unresponsive to medications(exception obvi if they have comorbidity). Their recovery rate via therapy is the highest of any psychiatric disorder.

There is simply nothing neurologically wrong. Instead BPD is the outcropping of bad childhood + exploitation of how learning normally functions in the brain. It may be undesirable, serious and maladaptive. That does not make it inherently neurologically divergent.
maybe technically but in the context of the forum or life in general it's the same
 
I can't tell if you're being serious right now but no I am not a psychopath considering that's not even a clinically recognized term in the DSM. I don't know about people who worship "psychos", they're just women with hybristophilia.
men do it, they worship the condition not the people

they say it's cool and free



I wouldn't say I am serious or not, I am just making conversation
 

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