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The more of these you have the more you will suffer. This is typical modern guy in his late teens, twenties and even thirties:
- I should be very nice and careful not to make her think that I want to have sex with her or she will reject me.
- I will follow her around on social media.
- I will message her daily.
- I will beat around the bush instead of going out on a date.
- I will cry and feel sad when I get rejected by a girl who isn't even my girl.
- I will do the same stuff with her because I'm worried that new stuff will turn her off and make her reject me.
- I will not speak what is really on my mind. Instead I will tell her what I think she wants to hear.
- I will ask her what she wants to do instead of making plans and deciding for myself.
- I will constantly ask where I stand with her and if she likes me, and are we boyfriend and girlfriend.
- I will treat her better than she treats me. I must be better than her right
- I will put up with her cursing in public, disrespecting me, not showing up on time or breaking promises.
- I will not make moves or try to drive the relationship any further. If she wants it she will do it herself
- I will not let her know what I dislike when she does it, instead I expect her to read my mind.