Fellow lonercels did you ever put actual effort investing into potential friendships?

[Pikabro]

Or did you just say 'hey, how's life' then radio silence? Did you establish yourself in social circles, befriend all the people there and regularly contribute or did you just chill on the sidelines? Do you get people's contact details and maintain contact or did you just keep meeting cool interesting people then never see them again? Did you struggle to differentiate from banter and bullying (this is more for pussycels like me)? Have you done anything nice for somebody WITHOUT them asking? Ever tried to set up plans yourself?

 

[Abhorrence]

i didnt do shit i ran away from people
ghosted people without them doing anything

 

[Pikabro]

i didnt do shit i ran away from people
ghosted people without them doing anything

I'm just lazy and passive. It's not complicated.

 

[Deleted member 39140]

differentiate from banter and bullying (this is more for pussycels like me)

Banter is a form of bullying. People disrespect you because they don’t respect you

 

[Deleted member 33514]

I tried to make friends but became tired and now I’ve accepted my isolation

 

[Gengar]

I socialize a little bit but I don’t try to carry a conversation. Ask a few questions here and there. That’s it. I’m mostly quiet.

 

[Deleted member 26642]

Did you struggle to differentiate from banter and bullying

Same

 

[Pikabro]

Banter is a form of bullying. People disrespect you because they don’t respect you

Not really

I socialize a little bit but I don’t try to carry a conversation. Ask a few questions here and there. That’s it. I’m mostly quiet.

How do you not rope? I’m 20 and already the shame is immense