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Its in german i translated it below
Hey,
I've been with my boyfriend for a very long time (since I was 17, now I'm 27) and sometimes the desire for something new, exciting grabs me.
It's difficult to talk about it because then people think we have some kind of problems. This is not the case at all. I think that's such a misconception that exists. I love my boyfriend very much, I don't want to miss him in life. We rarely argue, have similar goals. But I feel like I've missed my life. I often look around for other men, but never with the intention of a relationship. What I also get to hear is "I think if you are happy you don't look for other men" or "What could he do differently?". Honestly, he couldn't do anything else. He is also not responsible for giving everything for me. He does everything well and right. But I've never had another sexual partner and I think those feelings are total primitive biological feelings. I just want to flirt again or go home with someone, experience a first kiss. I miss all that. But giving up a relationship for that would be totally stupid?
P.S.: I touched on the topic of open relationships for fun, also FOR him. It would be difficult for me, but I would do it experimentally. I just think that I would definitely be the first person to get a chance elsewhere, simply because I am a woman who is still studying and he is working permanently. And we also have a lot of couples in our circle of friends, some with children, so he won't get carried away. I have even more contacts to the outside world, which is why an open relationship would be very unbalanced.... And he always thinks he doesn't need another one, which I also appreciate somehow and I think he means it that way, why should he lie if I also say before that I am not evil.
I think this is something that many will not understand. I can only say I never thought that I would be someone who thinks of an open relationship.
Just be first pillers on suicide watch
This is your virgin gf in 10 years
Hey,
I've been with my boyfriend for a very long time (since I was 17, now I'm 27) and sometimes the desire for something new, exciting grabs me.
It's difficult to talk about it because then people think we have some kind of problems. This is not the case at all. I think that's such a misconception that exists. I love my boyfriend very much, I don't want to miss him in life. We rarely argue, have similar goals. But I feel like I've missed my life. I often look around for other men, but never with the intention of a relationship. What I also get to hear is "I think if you are happy you don't look for other men" or "What could he do differently?". Honestly, he couldn't do anything else. He is also not responsible for giving everything for me. He does everything well and right. But I've never had another sexual partner and I think those feelings are total primitive biological feelings. I just want to flirt again or go home with someone, experience a first kiss. I miss all that. But giving up a relationship for that would be totally stupid?
P.S.: I touched on the topic of open relationships for fun, also FOR him. It would be difficult for me, but I would do it experimentally. I just think that I would definitely be the first person to get a chance elsewhere, simply because I am a woman who is still studying and he is working permanently. And we also have a lot of couples in our circle of friends, some with children, so he won't get carried away. I have even more contacts to the outside world, which is why an open relationship would be very unbalanced.... And he always thinks he doesn't need another one, which I also appreciate somehow and I think he means it that way, why should he lie if I also say before that I am not evil.
I think this is something that many will not understand. I can only say I never thought that I would be someone who thinks of an open relationship.
Just be first pillers on suicide watch
This is your virgin gf in 10 years
". Studies again and again show that the chances of cheating and divorce are 3-6 fold higher in women that had more then 1 partner in the past. There is a reason why 10% of divorced couples in the west are where the girl was a virgin in the beginning, vs 40-60% for women with 8+ past partners. Those 10% still exist you know, which means 1 out of 10 virgin women will whore you out, but 1 out of 2 women with many previous partners will do the same, this is a significant difference, its like basing your life on a russian roulette with 10 bullets vs basing it on a coin flip
