Ghosted by both Tinder dates

[Ken]

I had two landwhales on Tinder agree to go out on a date with me. One ghosted me the day we were supposed to meet. The other ghosted me after I suggested a time. I had 3 other females ghost me after I asked to meet up.

Getting laid in 2022 is impossible. I consider myself average looking and im 6'1". I see guys who I would consider worse looking than me with girlfriends. Im starting to think I might be deformed but my brain is coping so hard that I cant see it. Looks like I will be a kissless virgin for life.

If cold approaching doesnt work, paying will be my only option. Ive lowered my standards to landwhale party girls. I cant lower them further.

Is it this bad for anyone else?

 

[Deleted member 9801]

Numbers game, keep trying till one bites

 

[ReadBooksEveryday]

Numbers game, keep trying till one bites

 

[Amnesia]

Numbers game, keep trying till one bites

basically this, same thing happens to me dude. I'll set up multiple tinder dates on the same day knowing one or all will ghost

rinse repeat till one actually comes thru

 

[ReadBooksEveryday]

basically this, same thing happens to me dude. I'll set up multiple tinder dates on the same day knowing one or all will ghost

rinse repeat till one actually comes thru

Boyo why is you not settle with femoid?

Is your triple digit slay count a way of saying your penis size makes them all fear any real commitment

 

[Blackgymmax]

basically this, same thing happens to me dude. I'll set up multiple tinder dates on the same day knowing one or all will ghost

rinse repeat till one actually comes thru

we really live in a reality where chads are getting ghosted by "ok" looking women. AHHHH

 

[Deleted member 9801]

we really live in a reality where chads are getting ghosted by "ok" looking women. AHHHH

We’ve all been there bro. It do be like that with online dating. Even with thousands of matches a lot will flake if it comes to hook up or date. Many girls are on tinder and such just for some validation through texting a hot guy

 

[Blackgymmax]

We’ve all been there bro. It do be like that with online dating. Even with thousands of matches a lot will flake if it comes to hook up or date. Many girls are on tinder and such just for some validation through texting a hot guy

yeh kek, fuck foids

 

[rand anon]

I consider myself average looking and im 6'1

NTpill is brootal

 

[cvzvvc]

This happens to everyone regardless of looks level but the better looking you are, the more unlikely it is. Anyone who says this hasn't happened to them multiple times on OLD is full of shit

 

[Deleted member 19551]

You faggots are getting matches?

 

[DoctorLooksmax]

This happens to everyone regardless of looks level but the better looking you are, the more unlikely it is. Anyone who says this hasn't happened to them multiple times on OLD is full of shit

I’ve actually not noticed any difference in the rate of ghosting/flaking after looksmaxxing

The difference is beforehand I’d maybe get like 4 girls to meet me and only 1 will go through

Now I’ll get like 12 girls to agree ans only 3 will go through with it

The fact amnesia says this regularly happens to him suggests that it’s just part of 2022 datint regardless of looks

 

[Virgin at 29 😔]

Dont give up bro some girl will meet you

 

[Deleted member 3828]

I've seen a ghost once

 

[Deleted member 20056]

Dont give up bro some girl will meet you

what if he is ethnic

 

[Virgin at 29 😔]

what if he is ethnic

Yea then he shouldn’t even start trying

 

[Prince88]

go hit the clubs

 

[Deleted member 18840]

I’ve actually not noticed any difference in the rate of ghosting/flaking after looksmaxxing

The difference is beforehand I’d maybe get like 4 girls to meet me and only 1 will go through

Now I’ll get like 12 girls to agree ans only 3 will go through with it

The fact amnesia says this regularly happens to him suggests that it’s just part of 2022 datint regardless of looks

Dating app is for deranged ppl, me included tbh ofc. Ideally you should have a social circle and so, risk of flake will be around 0

 

[DoctorLooksmax]

Dating app is for deranged ppl, me included tbh ofc. Ideally you should have a social circle and so, risk of flake will be around 0

Ideally yes - I think dating apps are better than trying to get laid in a club at least though- but obviously social circle mogs overall for quality

 

[Deleted member 18840]

Ideally yes - I think dating apps are better than trying to get laid in a club at least though- but obviously social circle mogs overall for quality

Clubs are dogshit environment idek why its pushed forward here ngl. Even old mogs that.
If it was wasnt for old ego crusher i don’t think i would be trying so hard to ascend while i’m already good enough.
It’s a viscious circle because it’s like 50/50 not linked to looks, but to elo, to the girls weird brain, or whatever.
But it’s somehow so easier to say hey my looks missing so if i was more gl such failure wouldn’t have happened.

 

[Deleted member 18840]

And mind you, amnesia is in usa where its super easy to get laid, and where people are way uglier by general consensus of females, on average, and mogs us, and yet jfl.
@DoctorLooksmax

 

[Wallenberg]

PM your pic.

 

[HerpDerpson]

I consider myself average looking

"Consider?"

 

[Foreverbrad]

You weren't the only guy or the hottest guy dumpster diving that day, simple as that.

 

[Ken]

"Consider?"

Lookism users rated me from 3.5-6.5. Most rated me a 5, calling me dead average.

 

[MoggerGaston]

I have no idea how you guys are getting ghosted for actual dates so often tbh.

For me, girls are flakey till you set a date/time/place, at that point like 80-90% goes through.
When a girl doesn't seem somewhat eager to meet, I don't setup a date in the first place and don't bother.

 

[traveler]

 

[Deleted member 18840]

I have no idea how you guys are getting ghosted for actual dates so often tbh.

For me, girls are flakey till you set a date/time/place, at that point like 80-90% goes through.
When a girl doesn't seem somewhat eager to meet, I don't setup a date in the first place and don't bother.

Yes actually i never remember being date cancelled or smth despite me always arriving late
By a decent amount. But its more the before and after

 

[Ken]

PM your pic.

I will never share my pics again. I got rated an average of 5 by lookism legends, around 7 years ago.

 

[Ken]

And mind you, amnesia is in usa where its super easy to get laid, and where people are way uglier by general consensus of females, on average, and mogs us, and yet jfl.
@DoctorLooksmax

COPE. Its one of the hardest countries to get laid. Maybe only UK is harder.

 

[HerpDerpson]

I will never share my pics again. I got rated an average of 5 by lookism legends, around 7 years ago.

The consensus is that average isn't good enough.

 

[Wallenberg]

I will never share my pics again. I got rated an average of 5 by lookism legends, around 7 years ago.

Average isn't good enough. Also, that was 7 years ago.

 

[Wallenberg]

What's your race OP?

 

[Ken]

.

 

[Deleted member 18840]

COPE. Its one of the hardest countries to get laid. Maybe only UK is harder.

No. Trust me nigga. I went there. Maybe foreigner halo whatever. But good luck where i live.

 

[DoctorLooksmax]

I have no idea how you guys are getting ghosted for actual dates so often tbh.

For me, girls are flakey till you set a date/time/place, at that point like 80-90% goes through.
When a girl doesn't seem somewhat eager to meet, I don't setup a date in the first place and don't bother.

Yeah that’s wha I mean by flaking tbh- if you have a time ad place set they’ll normally go through with it- but what happens a lot is girls will be like oh yeah I’ll get a drink with you next week, and whe pushed for a time and place t either stop replying, give evasive responses or just say their busy etc

 

[Wallenberg]

COPE. Its one of the hardest countries to get laid. Maybe only UK is harder.

Stop the cope.

 

[Deleted member 16221]

It’s ur own fault for taking these whales on a date. Am I the only one that just invites them round to my place or goes to theirs straight away?

Unless ur looking for LTR this shit is just braindead

 

[Cigarette]

bar hopping or clubbing is way easier than rotting on tinder like a retard try that instead. women usually approach you could probably fuck every time you went out clubbing

 

[11gaijin]

What's your race OP?

 

[BugeyeBigNoseCurry]

Nt pill is looksmax version of bluepill

NTpill is brootal

 

[Deleted member 7725]

Why lower your standards or pay a whore? News flash. You've been given the gift of avoiding fornication, which is a sin. I think you should take the time to raise your standards and find a quality Christian woman who has the same values as you and is mature enough to wait until after marriage to have sex.

 

[Gaygymmaxx]

Why lower your standards or pay a whore? News flash. You've been given the gift of avoiding fornication, which is a sin. I think you should take the time to raise your standards and find a quality Christian woman who has the same values as you and is mature enough to wait until after marriage to have sex.

skyuncletheory

 

[Deleted member 7725]

skyuncletheory

Sure, just call him a "sky uncle" and thinking you're intellectually superior while believing that the universe came about through unguided natural random processes.

 

[Gaygymmaxx]

Sure, just call him a "sky uncle" and thinking you're intellectually superior while believing that the universe came about through unguided natural random processes.

believing in a higher power is somewhat reasonable, but accepting a set of beliefs from a book made thousands of years with no evidence whatsoever is undeniably retarded

god isnt inherently stupid, but christianity is

 

[Deleted member 7725]

believing in a higher power is somewhat reasonable, but accepting a set of beliefs from a book made thousands of years with no evidence whatsoever is undeniably retarded

god isnt inherently stupid, but christianity is

A book with no evidence that contains morals which directly lead to healthy civilizations and relationships was written by some primitive men in a straw hut? Sure .

There's tons of evidence such as different societies having similar if not exact accounts of events, despite having no means of communication.

 

[Gaygymmaxx]

A book with no evidence that contains morals which directly lead to healthy civilizations and relationships was written by some primitive men in a straw hut? Sure .

There's tons of evidence such as different societies having similar if not exact accounts of events, despite having no means of communication.

yeah the bible was integral for our current society, which is why it makes more sense that some genius people made up bullshit and proved it with magic tricks to establish these morals and stop people from killing and stealing from eachother

and feel free to give some examples of these similar accounts of events, im sure none of it is even close to evidence

 

[Deleted member 7725]

yeah the bible was integral for our current society, which is why it makes more sense that some genius people made up bullshit and proved it with magic tricks to establish these morals and stop people from killing and stealing from eachother

and feel free to give some examples of these similar accounts of events, im sure none of it is even close to evidence

Sure, "genius" primitive people tens of thousands of years ago who were somehow able to predict correct moral values that are still infallible today, while modern leaders can barely decide basic laws without fighting and basing everything off the constitution (which was based on the bible).

 

[Gaygymmaxx]

Sure, "genius" primitive people tens of thousands of years ago who were somehow able to predict correct moral values that are still infallible today, while modern leaders can barely decide basic laws without fighting and basing everything off the constitution (which was based on the bible).

you ever think that we accept those values today because we've spent thousands of years adhering to them? or is that too much thinking for you? just wanna read a book and follow blindly.

still waiting for those examples of similar recounts of events

 

[Ken]

Why lower your standards or pay a whore? News flash. You've been given the gift of avoiding fornication, which is a sin. I think you should take the time to raise your standards and find a quality Christian woman who has the same values as you and is mature enough to wait until after marriage to have sex.

I wish I could. Since I was a child I had always dreamed of my future wife and I losing our virginites to each other on our wedding night. I as ive gotten older ive realized that will never happen. Every year my chances of finding a young virgin wife decrease. When my oneitis told me she lost her virginity to some random on tinder, after I had already met her, it ruined me. The rare girls who do want to wait until marriage get married at 18-19 to their high school sweatheart or a guy in their social circle.

I had a chance with a girl who was 18 and probably a virgin just 1 month ago. She rejected me after I got nervous when going for a kiss. If I do get lucky and find a virgin they will still expect me to have experience and be able to escalate. No girl wants an akward unexperienced guy.