Giving up without going full depressed mode?

[CupOfCoffee]

There's no chance for me with women right now, have any of you guys been able to accept that fact and still go on normally while being motivated to do shit and improve. It's like my mind is reading it as a contradiction.

 

[Wincel]

Fix your shit mentallity. I had the redpill/incel blues for about a month and that was the worst month of my life. (the anxiety gave me actual erectile dysfunction, but it went away) You have to shut out all redpills/forums of this nature for a while and focus on what you like doing, then you come back when you are done being depressed. I completely blocked myself using a web application and random generated password from all the sites that made me think negatively. 4chan was a big one, incels.me NOT EVEN ONCE. just hold the fuckin black pills for a while and go back to the blue pill bliss. If you are too fucked up to improve then:

Maybe don't for a while.

Legit same shit happened to me. You'll get through it.

 

[lasthope]

same problem I have not much to looksmax because my base is just bad

 

[Deltoid]

You shouldn’t be improving solely for outside validation ie females. Become the best version of yourself for you and you alone. Making progress at bettering your life will give you motivation, sitting around thinking negatively and thinking woe is me wont do shit man. So get off your depressed ass and get to work, you got this.

same problem I have not much to looksmax because my base is just bad

You can always improve yourself regardless of what your “base” is.

 

[lasthope]

You shouldn’t be improving solely for outside validation ie females. Become the best version of yourself for you and you alone. Making progress at bettering your life will give you motivation, sitting around thinking negatively and thinking woe is me wont do shit man. So get off your depressed ass and get to work, you got this.

You can always improve yourself regardless of what your “base” is.

yeah but whats the point in improving 0.05 psl rating? My head is to fucking big for my body even my sister mention it lol but I have a lot of facial bloat so I need to cut more weight for facial gains but this mean I get a more smaller frame ( and ye I gym cell)

 

[Swagwaffle]

There's no chance for me with women right now, have any of you guys been able to accept that fact and still go on normally while being motivated to do shit and improve. It's like my mind is reading it as a contradiction.

Its hard especially once you have learned about

What i noticed is my Incel friends who i know its over with that don't know about think to themselves its not over and its about confidence (ROFL)

So they are coping with lies ...I can't hate I guess. I tried to tell them its over but they keep defending it. Maybe once they dig in more about the knowledge they would finally agree...

Anyways my current cope is going out to social places (bars clubs casinos anywhere). Focusing on social circle. Meeting new friends (doesn't have to be girls). Also nights of drinking / drugs occasionally just to let the stress off.

I don't expect girls to like me anymore when I go out. So i just keep it casual I don't go for their phone numbers or anything anymore.

 

[Wincel]

Its hard especially once you have learned about

What i noticed is my Incel friends who i know its over with that don't know about think to themselves its not over and its about confidence (ROFL)

So they are coping with lies ...I can't hate I guess. I tried to tell them its over but they keep defending it. Maybe once they dig in more about the knowledge they would finally agree...

Anyways my current cope is going out to social places (bars clubs casinos anywhere). Focusing on social circle. Meeting new friends (doesn't have to be girls). Also nights of drinking / drugs occasionally just to let the stress off.

I don't expect girls to like me anymore when I go out. So i just keep it casual I don't go for their phone numbers or anything anymore.

Oh yeah and don't give up dating you pieces of shit.

 

[Swagwaffle]

Oh yeah and don't give up dating you pieces of shit.

rofl creepy PUA.

Most of these are fake. Especially since this dude is a fucken manlet!

dude im a manlet i find tall girls extremely unattractive just because i already slayed tall girls before. I can imagine how bad the sex would be.

Social Circles >

 

[VST]

Oh yeah and don't give up dating you pieces of shit.

He sounds a lot like FACEandLMS ngl.

Also JFL @ you telling us not to give up dating when females don't even acknowledge our existence.

 

[Wincel]

I've seen a lot of these low SMV guys lock down their game and succeed. I personally knew a guy who's shorter, uglier, ethnic and more of a framcel than me and he slays mad poon with his approaches. I know another guy who is 6'3 and has a model face but he walks like a total virgin and has never had a date. The problem with blackpill mentality is you shut out all possibility based on a few examples or the general trend of things.

Obviously looks matter. But saying they're everything is kinda silly.

PUA:
2 ugly I quit (still gonna spend the rest of my life on forums like these dedicated to improving yourself to attract women though!):

 

[Swagwaffle]

I've seen a lot of these low SMV guys lock down their game and succeed.

on youtube or inrl?

if youtube most are fake / staged

if inrl do u know the person? or did u just see them in public. (could be sister / cousin)

 

[Wincel]

on youtube or inrl?

if youtube most are fake / staged

if inrl do u know the person? or did u just see them in public. (could be sister / cousin)

I *knew* a guy online and we used to talk a little. He had social anxiety disorder and was just trying to shittalk people in CSGO to build confidence when he askes me to friend him on steam. When I went to his profile I found his youtube channel (deleted now/can't find it) and realized he was a PUA. He got me into it and described his success. All of the vids of his that I've seen looked totally real when you apply the same rules used to idenfity fake pranks.

 

[Mewcel]

He sounds a lot like FACEandLMS ngl.

Also JFL @ you telling us not to give up dating when females don't even acknowledge our existence.

Wouldn't be surprised if it was him tbh, they sound very similar. Not gonna watch the vid though, too cringy for me.

 

[Wincel]

JFL @ you telling us not to give up dating when females don't even acknowledge our existence.

You're not gonna make it.

 

[Deleted member 56]

There's no chance for me with women right now, have any of you guys been able to accept that fact and still go on normally while being motivated to do shit and improve. It's like my mind is reading it as a contradiction.

While looksmaxing if u get women, great! It means you didn't have much work to do in the first place, but most of us will get nothing/scraps/disinterest from women while looksmaxing. Wait until you're above average before pursuing them.

This also gives you more time to explore your own interests and such. Gives you more time to figure your shit out career wise, looksmaxing wise, etc

 

[CupOfCoffee]

While looksmaxing if u get women, great! It means you didn't have much work to do in the first place, but most of us will get nothing/scraps/disinterest from women while looksmaxing. Wait until you're above average before pursuing them.

This also gives you more time to explore your own interests and such. Gives you more time to figure your shit out career wise, looksmaxing wise, etc

Fear of rejection stops me from pursuing women anyway. 99% inhib, on some days I feel more idgaf so I might approach a girl as an experiment.

 

[Deleted member 56]

might approach a girl as an experiment.

I do this too

 

[Afrikancel]

There's no chance for me with women right now, have any of you guys been able to accept that fact and still go on normally while being motivated to do shit and improve. It's like my mind is reading it as a contradiction.

Truth is the blackpill has consumed you. It takes weeks if not months to recover and you will come out stronger after it.


If you don't recover you will eventually rope

I do this too

Explain nibba

 

[badromance]

Im not chasing girls until im totally looksmaxed and happy with myself,there is no point

 

[Zesto]

Pursue 2D women.

 

[Deleted member 13787]

ah

 

[Gaia262]

There's no chance for me with women right now, have any of you guys been able to accept that fact and still go on normally while being motivated to do shit and improve. It's like my mind is reading it as a contradiction.

So a roided body hasn't helped you either?

Being on roids hasnt done anything for my SMV.

Its literally just face, height, skin colour, being NT

None of which can really be changed.

 

[.👽.]

So a roided body hasn't helped you either?

Being on roids hasnt done anything for my SMV.

Its literally just face, height, skin colour, being NT

None of which can really be changed.

he has a gf now

 

[koalendo]

wow how times have changed

 

[Deleted member 4301]

what changed for you

 

[TsarTsar444]

So a roided body hasn't helped you either?

Being on roids hasnt done anything for my SMV.

Its literally just face, height, skin colour, being NT

None of which can really be changed.

Look at post date

 

[Deleted member 14274]

There's no chance for me with women right now, have any of you guys been able to accept that fact and still go on normally while being motivated to do shit and improve. It's like my mind is reading it as a contradiction.

What are you talking about dude? You have a sick physique...

 

[Deleted member 14274]

So a roided body hasn't helped you either?

Being on roids hasnt done anything for my SMV.

Its literally just face, height, skin colour, being NT

None of which can really be changed.

Something is wrong if a roided body isn’t helping you slay. It’s one of the best ascension strategies out there. Do 1-2 steroid cycles instead of spending thousands on obscure random surgeries.

 

[Deleted member 14274]

Fear of rejection stops me from pursuing women anyway. 99% inhib, on some days I feel more idgaf so I might approach a girl as an experiment.

Bro what is this mindset? You need to approach atleast 10 girls a night when going to a bar or club to have a chance at getting laid. Even if your looks are good not every girl will be looking to sleep with a guy that night. Approaching one girl doesn’t mean anything it sounds like your have a personality problem and not a looks problem. How can you be high inhib when you are injecting test and literally physique mog 99% of guys?

 

[Deleted member 2729]

jfl at this thread necromancy

but always nice to see when a brother has made it ngl mirin @CupOfCoffee

 

[Deleted member 14274]

no, i see normies getting approached

Not by attractive girls

 

[Mouthbreath]

What are you talking about dude? You have a sick physique...

->

Look at post date

 

[CupOfCoffee]

same bro, i feel I will never get laid, im 20 and still a virgin, i know its over. im only 5 psl which is not enough for women

Motherfucker this is an old post 3 years ago. Please read the dates jfl

 

[Deleted member 1476]

Motherfucker this is an old post 3 years ago. Please read the dates jfl

sweet cup you are an inspiration to digusting incels like me

 

[CupOfCoffee]

What are you talking about dude? You have a sick physique...

This was 3 years ago. Completely different animal now lol