Got an attractive girls number at a bar last night

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Went out with a few uni mates, met some girls from our course (who aren't very attractive tbh), but this one girl had brought some of her friends along with her who she lived with who were pretty fit. Got chatting to this one girl for a bit, so bar is closing and her friends are like okay were going now, and shes like 'so do you wanna get my number or something' obviously I say yes and feel pretty good about myself getting her number tbh. So guessing I should wairt while to text her, not sure what my next move should be but tbh feeling pretty good about this whole situation
 
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You should wait for her to message you first, make sure she wasn't under the influence.
Usually, if a girl approaches you it will end pretty well, but you don't want to be chasing her, she gets enough dopamine from her orbiters.
 
You should wait for her to message you first, make sure she wasn't under the influence.
Usually, if a girl approaches you it will end pretty well, but you don't want to be chasing her, she gets enough dopamine from her orbiters.

I mean considering she made the move I think it would be okay for me to message first, maybe ill wait a bit and see if she messages but if not ill defo message her first
You should wait for her to message you first, make sure she wasn't under the influence.
Usually, if a girl approaches you it will end pretty well, but you don't want to be chasing her, she gets enough dopamine from her orbiters.
and we were both obviously drinking neither of us were particularly drunk though, I was on my 3rd drink of the night so just a little buzzed she seemed about the same, I expect she was a little tipsy to lower he inhibitions to make a move like that
 
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Message her first, chat a bit but you have to come to the point quick, ask her out on a date, grab a coffee and talk a bit, if she looks and smiles a lot to you, it’s a good sign.
you can ask her to chill at your place for the second Date, then you can smash
 
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Message her first, chat a bit but you have to come to the point quick, ask her out on a date, grab a coffee and talk a bit, if she looks and smiles a lot to you, it’s a good sign.
you can ask her to chill at your place for the second Date, then you can smash
coffee seems a bit gay. She actually lives with a girl im doing a group project with atm, I mean I think its safe to say her interest is pretty high given she mader a move on me
 
coffee seems a bit gay. She actually lives with a girl im doing a group project with atm, I mean I think its safe to say her interest is pretty high given she mader a move on me
Doesn’t need to be a coffee, just chill at a place outside of your home.
but don’t meet at her place, maybe it becomes awkward if the girl from your group project is there
 
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Doesn’t need to be a coffee, just chill at a place outside of your home.
but don’t meet at her place, maybe it becomes awkward if the girl from your group project is there
literally scrolling through her Instagram with a boner rn looking at her sexy body tbh tbh
 
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literally scrolling through her Instagram with a boner rn looking at her sexy body tbh tbh
Go for it, make sure to fap a few hours before meeting her
 
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Oh no..she's on Instagram showing her body off?
 
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Pussy move, always escalte if girl shows interest

After bar closes you should have asked her to get something to eat with you, and then go eat at Waffle House or somethin and try to feel her out if you can bring her home or go home with her

Also dont wait to text girl, if you sit around and wait for her to text you she will forget you in 3 days

Text her next day and feel out her interest, push to go out on a date, it a girl likes you she will be interested if shes doesnt she wont, waiting around does NOT BUILD ATTRACTION nowadays they get constant validation every single day from thirsty betas
 
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Oh no..she's on Instagram showing her body off?
just the same as every other young attractive girl tbh, if I manage to pull this off shell defo have the best body of any girl ive slayed
 
just texted her ill let you know if/when she replies, literally spent almost every waking moment today fantasising abiout fucking her
 
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what's your psl bro?
 
what's your psl bro?
face is somewhere in the PSL 4-5 range. 5ft11.5'' tall. Pretty good physique
Update: She just replied, gonna wait a while before texting again though
 
face is somewhere in the PSL 4-5 range. 5ft11.5'' tall. Pretty good physique
Update: She just replied, gonna wait a while before texting again though
wow life fuel
good luck bro. keep us updated
 
face is somewhere in the PSL 4-5 range. 5ft11.5'' tall. Pretty good physique
Update: She just replied, gonna wait a while before texting again though
You clearly got this in the bag bro.
 
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wow life fuel
good luck bro. keep us updated
You clearly got this in the bag bro.
dunno about that tbh long way to go yet, gonna small talk her for a couple of days, then either ill try and get on the same night out as her, or ask her out for a drink, which do you think is a better strategy?
 
im so sick of hearing peoples success stories on here

i am so alone and jealous
 
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dunno about that tbh long way to go yet, gonna small talk her for a couple of days, then either ill try and get on the same night out as her, or ask her out for a drink, which do you think is a better strategy?
bro texting online imo is a turn off. ask her out for a drink only you two, stay mysterious.
 
bro texting online imo is a turn off. ask her out for a drink only you two, stay mysterious.
straight away you reckon? or text for a few days beforehand?
 
if she's a total stranger chat for a bit then ask her imo. if ur gl she'll go for it.
been chatting to her a couple days now, I reckon im gonna try and meet her at some point this week
 
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Went out with a few uni mates, met some girls from our course (who aren't very attractive tbh), but this one girl had brought some of her friends along with her who she lived with who were pretty fit. Got chatting to this one girl for a bit, so bar is closing and her friends are like okay were going now, and shes like 'so do you wanna get my number or something' obviously I say yes and feel pretty good about myself getting her number tbh. So guessing I should wairt while to text her, not sure what my next move should be but tbh feeling pretty good about this whole situation
Be careful not to get too emotionally attached to her.
Some guys immediately forget the blackpill and turn into beta cuck providers
 
she hasn't replied to my message for a while, now im regretting not tryna ask her out sooner, hopefully she replies soon then within a few days ill ask her out
 
she hasn't replied to my message for a while, now im regretting not tryna ask her out sooner, hopefully she replies soon then within a few days ill ask her out
okay so update on this she replied then I asked her if she wanted to go for a drink together and she says 'sorry i think we should just leave it im only looking for friends rn sorry for making you think something else'. Females are legit so confusing like, I dont get how they can be so hot and cold like that guess i turned her off being beta/needy over text or whatever
 
she hasn't replied to my message for a while, now im regretting not tryna ask her out sooner, hopefully she replies soon then within a few days ill ask her out
lol that's enough to know it's not happening
 
lol that's enough to know it's not happening
tbf her interest was initially very high, guess i just gave off some beta vibes and turned her off
 

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