Guys who managed to get a girlfriend, how?

MegamindCel

MegamindCel

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Like cmon, there has to be some secret. Am I the only one that’s no I’m on this?
 
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she asked me out:cool:
 
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Like cmon, there has to be some secret. Am I the only one that’s no I’m on this?

They accepted that she has been a whore in the past, and also accept that they are just providing her for now like a cuck.
 
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Like cmon, there has to be some secret. Am I the only one that’s no I’m on this?
Well, even though I approached, chatted and flirted with hundreds of girl, I only had 3 girlfriends; they pretty much chose you, you don't chose them, so it actually makes little difference on what you say or do, they just have to like how you look and not act completely autistic...
My first girlfriend was just pure chance - a girl I randomly met on the street in a group of girls, I started talking to them, went together to a club, and one of them dragged me in a corner and said her friend likes me and wants us to be together.
The second was a girl from college that I orbited for like two years, we had everything in common, spent almost every day from morning to evening together at courses, in the library, with the other classmates, going out - to movies, walks, in bars, clubs, trips, having fun, etc.; our conversations were amazing, everything was perfect, but she had a boyfriend and only when she got bored with him and eventually dumped him, my time finally came and we actually became a couple.
The third was a girl I've met online, although our first date was pretty bland and boring, and I thought it won't lead to anything, she kept clinging to me, messaged me, called me and finally there was some sort shift and we became very close and affectionate to each other.
.............
However, in the vast majority of all the other girls that I approached and talked to, no amount of "game", talking, flirting, keeping "frame" and all that other stuff PUAs and redpillers preach ever worked, even though sometimes it seemed to work temporarily and a date would go great - lots of laughing, touching, kissing, etc., the next day I would find myself ghosted, or put in the friendzone, or the girl would claim she's busy, doesn't have time for a relationship, etc...
It looks like it's basically just a number game, and simply approaching more girls would increase your chances regardless of what you do or say.
 
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Slapped her ass and said “hey pretty mama, how bout you hop in my ride?” Then did a 360 and walked away. Just as expected she followed me.
 
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Indeed this sounds like a reddit post
nah i think he's serious. He's one of the first guys I tried to help out on this forum. But all he seems to do is complain, never seen him post anything looksmax-related.

Here is his rate me thread btw, it may very well be over tbh 😬

 
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nah i think he's serious. He's one of the first guys I tried to help out on this forum. But all he seems to do is complain, never seen him post anything looksmax-related.

Here is his rate me thread btw, it may very well be over tbh 😬

bbc
 
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but for real op: Just hang out frecently with a girl and when it matches you can ask her to be your gf it is easy to do that only thing is she needs to be into you
 
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Not into you, into you, not into you, into you, not into you, into you....
Jjjjjjjj

but for real op: Just hang out frecently with a girl and when it matches you can ask her to be your gf it is easy to do that only thing is she needs to be into you
 
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Pretty much they are the chooser, you can express your interest to them but it doesn’t even matter. They have more options than you so you need to take what you can get. If you dont get any girls liking you ever, then you know wassup... you ugly.
 
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nah i think he's serious. He's one of the first guys I tried to help out on this forum. But all he seems to do is complain, never seen him post anything looksmax-related.

Here is his rate me thread btw, it may very well be over tbh 😬

bro what even is the point of linking that? And also bold of you to assume I’m always truly complaining, i only do that so I can blend into this autistic community
 
bro what even is the point of linking that? And also bold of you to assume I’m always truly complaining, i only do that so I can blend into this autistic community
lol sorry wanted to show that it wasn't larp. I'll delete it tho, I have a good heart

But I'm not really assuming tbh. Every post that I've seen of yours is either about your lack of success with girls or about crypto. I've never seen you post anything about looksmaxxing. If you have actually looksmaxxed, I'm genuinely happy for you, cuz I been tried to help you from way back.
 
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lol sorry wanted to show that it wasn't larp. I'll delete it tho, I have a good heart

But I'm not really assuming tbh. Every post that I've seen of your is either about your lack of success with girls or about crypto. I've never seen you post anything about looksmaxxing. If you have actually looksmaxxed, I'm genuinely happy for you, cuz I been tried to help you from way back.
jfl nvm, I can't delete it G. The time limit has passed. Sorry 😬
 
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Well, even though I approached, chatted and flirted with hundreds of girl, I only had 3 girlfriends; they pretty much chose you, you don't chose them, so it actually makes little difference on what you say or do, they just have to like how you look and not act completely autistic...
My first girlfriend was just pure chance - a girl I randomly met on the street in a group of girls, I started talking to them, went together to a club, and one of them dragged me in a corner and said her friend likes me and wants us to be together.
The second was a girl from college that I orbited for like two years, we had everything in common, spent almost every day from morning to evening together at courses, in the library, with the other classmates, going out - to movies, walks, in bars, clubs, trips, having fun, etc.; our conversations were amazing, everything was perfect, but she had a boyfriend and only when she got bored with him and eventually dumped him, my time finally came and we actually became a couple.
The third was a girl I've met online, although our first date was pretty bland and boring, and I thought it won't lead to anything, she kept clinging to me, messaged me, called me and finally there was some sort shift and we became very close and affectionate to each other.
.............
However, in the vast majority of all the other girls that I approached and talked to, no amount of "game", talking, flirting, keeping "frame" and all that other stuff PUAs and redpillers preach ever worked, even though sometimes it seemed to work temporarily and a date would go great - lots of laughing, touching, kissing, etc., the next day I would find myself ghosted, or put in the friendzone, or the girl would claim she's busy, doesn't have time for a relationship, etc...
It looks like it's basically just a number game, and simply approaching more girls would increase your chances regardless of what you do or say.
Orbiting for 2 years. Doing a lot of shit together. A lot I common. Has a bf. sounds familiar to me.
 
lol sorry wanted to show that it wasn't larp. I'll delete it tho, I have a good heart

But I'm not really assuming tbh. Every post that I've seen of your is either about your lack of success with girls or about crypto. I've never seen you post anything about looksmaxxing. If you have actually looksmaxxed, I'm genuinely happy for you, cuz I been tried to help you from way back.
Nah I still remember you. I looksmaxxed to hell and back, my skin has improved and also my face is getting more masculine due to exercising everyday. I get IOI’s occasionally. Feel like I’m gonna ascend very soon
 
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Your avatar: Guns me. XD
 
Disappointed in you :feelswhy:
Real talk tho, is there any way to delete my account plus the pictures I’ve posted? I’ve come a long way since then, I’m way less insecure now so I’d love to delete those horrible pictures
 
@Alexanderr @Gargantuan @Kingkellz

spare my friend and delete the rate me thread i linked in this post
 
Real talk tho, is there any way to delete my account plus the pictures I’ve posted? I’ve come a long way since then, I’m way less insecure now so I’d love to delete those horrible pictures
I'm not sure tbh. I think you gotta pay for VIP and then you can delete
 
Orbiting for 2 years. Doing a lot of shit together. A lot I common. Has a bf. sounds familiar to me.
Yes, I mean we fooled before, but only after 2 years our relationship became "official", she said she couldn't just leave her bf because he was suicidal and will kill himself if she would dump him.
But we spent more time together than she spent with her bf or family - from morning to evening we were together at the courses, between or after courses we stayed in a nearby dorm with some classmates, or we went with them for walks, in bars, restaurants, at the cinema, etc...it was just the college way of life, the mere exposure effects is also very real - hang around a long time enough near someone, and your looks become less relevant, your personality can shine and you can eventually make a girlfriend from just a friend if you have enough things in common...
That's why high-school and college are the easiest places to get a gf even for unattractive guys - teens are there forced to spend a lot of time together and eventually they hook up, even the ugly ones can get lucky that in other circumstance would have absolutely no chance...
 
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Yes, I mean we fooled before, but only after 2 years our relationship became "official", she said she couldn't just leave her bf because he was suicidal and will kill himself if she would dump him.
But we spent more time together than she spent with her bf or family - from morning to evening we were together at the courses, between or after courses we stayed in a nearby dorm with some classmates, or we went with them for walks, in bars, restaurants, at the cinema, etc...it was just the college way of life, the mere exposure effects is also very real - hang around a long time enough near someone, and your looks become less relevant, your personality can shine and you can eventually make a girlfriend from just a friend if you have enough things in common...
That's why high-school and college are the easiest places to get a gf even for unattractive guys - teens are there forced to spend a lot of time together and eventually they hook up, even the ugly ones can get lucky that in other circumstance would have absolutely no chance...
Yeah mere exposure is so true. I would prefer oneitis 100% over any super model since I love the person. Sadly that ain’t my choice. Which I could get rid of that disease.
 
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saw your rate me it's not easy for you bro.

try going on dates and see how far it goes from there:Comfy:
 
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but for real op: Just hang out frecently with a girl and when it matches you can ask her to be your gf it is easy to do that only thing is she needs to be into you
It’s the “hanging out” part that’s my roadblock. I actually haven’t hung out with a girl for a long time. The last time I did was 2 years ago. I don’t know how to create those situations where I’m alone with a girl
 
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Yes, I mean we fooled before, but only after 2 years our relationship became "official", she said she couldn't just leave her bf because he was suicidal and will kill himself if she would dump him.
But we spent more time together than she spent with her bf or family - from morning to evening we were together at the courses, between or after courses we stayed in a nearby dorm with some classmates, or we went with them for walks, in bars, restaurants, at the cinema, etc...it was just the college way of life, the mere exposure effects is also very real - hang around a long time enough near someone, and your looks become less relevant, your personality can shine and you can eventually make a girlfriend from just a friend if you have enough things in common...
That's why high-school and college are the easiest places to get a gf even for unattractive guys - teens are there forced to spend a lot of time together and eventually they hook up, even the ugly ones can get lucky that in other circumstance would have absolutely no chance...
Damn, even in high school I wasn’t able to do anything with a girl. I’m beginning to think something was fundamentally wrong with me in high school. Well, the past is the past
 
It’s the “hanging out” part that’s my roadblock. I actually haven’t hung out with a girl for a long time. The last time I did was 2 years ago. I don’t know how to create those situations where I’m alone with a girl
Just ask her what type of movies do you like and she says like: horror, romance and then you say lets watch a horror soon togheter ;)
 
They are nt and have a social life
 

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