Having no male friends is worse than being incel

[7zyzz7]

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[Deleted member 24278]

I need jb

 

[7zyzz7]

I need jb

Just use your hand and make the grip really tight

 

[Deleted member 11126]

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Depends if they are good or not. Only had a solid group in HS now my friends are scattered online weirdos like me or one off friends I see like every month or so.

Will be moving states permantly soon so it will be more like once a year now. Its just not the same when you have friends you eat lunch with lift with hang out every friday versus just people you see so infrequently its more like catching up then it is a daily friendship. Maybe I will make new social circles but its hard to see the point beyond status or money these days I know in 2 years or so they will go away. Even really good friends things happen we move towns.

Humans clearly weren't meant to live like this moving around multiple time periods in their lives in the past we lived in one area forever. These days it seems family is the closest thing we have to a community it used to be much more interconnected I also wonder if its even possible past 22 to have a real genuine friendship outside of extreme mutual interests or work. You are never just going to make a friend at a coffee shop it would only be an acquaintance.

Having a solid 4 friends who were all in a group mogged a gf but nowadays I'd take the gf if she would move with me since friends come and go you aren't going to take your friends with you when you get a new job somewhere my friends live in different countries or 20 hours away the odds we will talk again in person are very low

 

[7zyzz7]

Depends if they are good or not. Only had a solid group in HS now my friends are scattered online weirdos like me or one off friends I see like every month or so.

Will be moving states permantly soon so it will be more like once a year now. Its just not the same when you have friends you eat lunch with lift with hang out every friday versus just people you see so infrequently its more like catching up then it is a daily friendship. Maybe I will make new social circles but its hard to see the point beyond status or money these days I know in 2 years or so they will go away. Even really good friends things happen we move towns.

Humans clearly weren't meant to live like this moving around multiple time periods in their lives in the past we lived in one area forever. These days it seems family is the closest thing we have to a community it used to be much more interconnected I also wonder if its even possible past 22 to have a real genuine friendship outside of extreme mutual interests or work. You are never just going to make a friend at a coffee shop it would only be an acquaintance

So true brah. ovER for your drifting social circle doe. i hope you make close male friends in the future

 

[Deleted member 11126]

So true brah. ovER for your drifting social circle doe. i hope you make close male friends in the future

Its just very hard the only friends I make are online and sometimes have met up. But like irl I can't justify it beyond like mutual goals I know in 2-4 years they will just be another bitter memory that makes me feel sad its almost as if they never existed or like they died.

Just the pain of knowing slowly everyone will drift away from you is worse then just an abrupt ending because you are fully aware but cannot stop like a car crash in slow motion. My solution is to be cold and distant and seek friendships based on only mutual goals

 

[Deleted member 26642]

I only have female friends and we get fucked by chad together

 

[7zyzz7]

I only have female friends and we get fucked by chad together

fuck i need this

 

[Deleted member 27511]

I only have female friends and we get fucked by chad together

thats cuz ur a foid lurker

 

[Deleted member 20399]

Depends if they are good or not. Only had a solid group in HS now my friends are scattered online weirdos like me or one off friends I see like every month or so.

Will be moving states permantly soon so it will be more like once a year now. Its just not the same when you have friends you eat lunch with lift with hang out every friday versus just people you see so infrequently its more like catching up then it is a daily friendship. Maybe I will make new social circles but its hard to see the point beyond status or money these days I know in 2 years or so they will go away. Even really good friends things happen we move towns.

Humans clearly weren't meant to live like this moving around multiple time periods in their lives in the past we lived in one area forever. These days it seems family is the closest thing we have to a community it used to be much more interconnected I also wonder if its even possible past 22 to have a real genuine friendship outside of extreme mutual interests or work. You are never just going to make a friend at a coffee shop it would only be an acquaintance.

Having a solid 4 friends who were all in a group mogged a gf but nowadays I'd take the gf if she would move with me since friends come and go you aren't going to take your friends with you when you get a new job somewhere my friends live in different countries or 20 hours away the odds we will talk again in person are very low

tbh i dont like hanging out with people that often. once every week or two is good

 

[bloomercel]

 

[Deleted member 18582]

gay cope!

 

[7zyzz7]

gay cope!

Yeah im gay so what, its 2023 mate

 

[Deleted member 18582]

Yeah im gay so what, its 2023 mate

Based

 

[7zyzz7]

Based

 

[Hairlinelowering]

Somewhat

 

[Latinus]

And girls will, even if unconsciously, judge men that don't have friends, since it implies he lacks a vibrant social life.