Having no social life is so bad. I don't get how you guys do it

[Deleted member 31457]

I've never truly had real friends but from a kid to 11yro a I had friends and then from 11-13 I had almost no friends and then 14-16 I had a strong group and then from 16-21 absolutely no social life whatsoever

I don't get how u guys are okay with having no social life it's rlly damaged my brain and made me weak

It's not like I have a choice, cuz of how deformed I am I can't have friends, but biochemically I am designed to have a social life and I don't have one and it's biochemically damaging me

 

[cytoplasm]

Nobody's ok with that. It's a nightmare

 

[turkproducer]

nothing like having a few real dudes you can rely on

shame so many snakes and low value rats about as potential “friends”

 

[Deleted member 31457]

Nobody's ok with that. It's a nightmare

I don't see enough ppl complaint/venting about it

 

[future slavic chad]

you cope by realizing that once you pass the age of 14 social interaction is mostly power tripping aka mogging. you either mog in looks or NT'ness so if youre sub the people youre interacting with then its gonna be just as shit if youre alone.

 

[Sprinkles]

.org is my social life

 

[exo]

you get used to it. all that matters is your health and roof over your head at the end of day

 

[PLA1092]

Nothing I can do it about. Permanent friendlessness!

 

[Deleted member 31457]

you cope by realizing that once you pass the age of 14 social interaction is mostly power tripping aka mogging. you either mog in looks or NT'ness so if youre sub the people youre interacting with then its gonna be just as shit if youre alone.

99.9% of people mog me in looks

I agree with u aswell, u may be exagerating a bit but I wouldn't know cuz I don't socialise enough but ur probably right

 

[cytoplasm]

I don't see enough ppl complaint/venting about it

Cause even on this rothole there's very few truly friendless ppl

 

[Deleted member 31457]

you get used to it. all that matters is your health and roof over your head at the end of day

It's been 5 years and I'm not used to it

Ye being a loser has made me appreciate the basic things in life I won't lie. Was gonna make a thread about this topic. Ugly people in general are easily pleased because they're lucky to be alive because they aren't supposed to naturally exist in the first place

 

[Deleted member 31457]

Cause even on this rothole there's very few truly friendless ppl

Dayum

 

[TUSSELEIF]

I’m used to it and I prefer it like this I think. Whenever I am with people I just want to be alone. It’s like a paradox; I feel lonely but when I am with people I hate it and want to be alone and do my own stuff. I also get my social needs fulfilled online

 

[future slavic chad]

99.9% of people mog me in looks

I agree with u aswell, u may be exagerating a bit but I wouldn't know cuz I don't socialise enough but ur probably right

yea i am exagerating a bit it aint all doom and gloom, but your social hierarchy status will be exposed sooner or later. so just hang out with truecels.

 

[Deleted member 31457]

Cause even on this rothole there's very few truly friendless ppl

Ye irl recently i was filling out a form at this place and two of the questions was what is your social life/friends out of 5 and relationships out of 5 and it weirded me out how they were shocked that I put 0 for both looking the way I do

Like not only is no one as ugly as me no one even looks like me or as old as I do for my age

 

[exo]

It's been 5 years and I'm not used to it

Ye being a loser has made me appreciate the basic things in life I won't lie. Was gonna make a thread about this topic. Ugly people in general are easily pleased because they're lucky to be alive because they aren't supposed to naturally exist in the first place

its not really about being ugly since even ugly and fat people can have friends. it's about being a social outcast because of high inhib and neurodivergence. still genetically screwed, but its your brain instead of looks. environment such as dysfunctional family also contributes to this

 

[Deleted member 31457]

yea i am exagerating a bit it aint all doom and gloom, but your social hierarchy status will be exposed sooner or later. so just hang out with truecels.

It was exposed ages ago

It happened in 2 stages

First at the start of secondary school when heigharchys really form. In primary school and before there is kinda a heiarchy still but everyone can be friends with everyone mostly. And then halfway through secondary school at around 14 is when most boys start hanging out with girls and that's when every friendgroup does a sweep of all the subhumans

And it probably happens again like at the start of uni the friendgroup will sweep out any subhumans but I got sweeped out very early on

 

[cytoplasm]

Ye irl recently i was filling out a form at this place and two of the questions was what is your social life/friends out of 5 and relationships out of 5 and it weirded me out how they were shocked that I put 0 for both looking the way I do

Like not only is no one as ugly as me no one even looks like me or as old as I do for my age

Being a friendless incel is unfathomable to normies. To me it's the only thing i know

 

[Deleted member 31457]

its not really about being ugly since even ugly and fat people can have friends. it's about being a social outcast because of high inhib and neurodivergence. still genetically screwed, but its your brain instead of looks. environment such as dysfunctional family also contributes to this

I know it's a very typical thing to say and it's probably said a lot on here but I genuinely believe I'm too ugly to have friends based on my experiences. If I wasn't then I would have friends. I'm on the same looks level as @sudanguy for reference

 

[Deleted member 31457]

I’m used to it and I prefer it like this I think. Whenever I am with people I just want to be alone. It’s like a paradox; I feel lonely but when I am with people I hate it and want to be alone and do my own stuff. I also get my social needs fulfilled online

Thats just cuz ur ugly

Even tho if I were to socialise I would be treated like shit and feel worse than I do I still yearn for a social life

 

[Deleted member 31457]

@Sprinkles?

 

[TUSSELEIF]

Thats just cuz ur ugly

Even tho if I were to socialise I would be treated like shit and feel worse than I do I still yearn for a social life

I don’t think I’m that ugly, I get rated well here and get many matches on tinder. It’s just that going on dates with women (my only social outlet outside family) has made me realize how much I actually dislike being with others, even if they are interested in me. I’m not sure what it is, maybe I desire full control or some shit

 

[Deleted member 31457]

I don’t think I’m that ugly, I get rated well here and get many matches on tinder. It’s just that going on dates with women (my only social outlet outside family) has made me realize how much I actually dislike being with others, even if they are interested in me. I’m not sure what it is, maybe I desire full control or some shit

Ye I get that many ppl desire full control and it's quite natural

Going on dates is very unnatural. In nature if two ppl fall in love with eachother they just fuck eachother there and then

 

[cytoplasm]

It’s just that going on dates with women

This is why you can live with it. Most other social outcasts are incel to boot. If you arent you can handle being friendless

 

[Sprinkles]

@Sprinkles?

.org is my social life

 

[wollet2]

you get used to it. all that matters is your health and roof over your head at the end of day

its over

 

[moggathon]

me too dude im htn+ so its not about looks

 

[Arcturus]

14-16 I had a strong group and then from 16-21 absolutely no social life whatsoever

same. I wish i could go back in time and preserve the group tbh, life sucks now

 

[Deleted member 4397]

nothing like having a few real dudes you can rely on

shame so many snakes and low value rats about as potential “friends”

dont get caught up in the trap of appeasing the 'few real dudes'. sometimes all these niggas are snakes, ur autism, empathy and abused path keep u from seeing it.

 

[Deleted member 16970]

No one really cares about anyone but themselves. Watching my father and mother die has taught me that individualism is truly the only reality and lookism is the motivator

 

[rand anon]

.org is my social life

 

[plukee]

I've never truly had real friends but from a kid to 11yro a I had friends and then from 11-13 I had almost no friends and then 14-16 I had a strong group and then from 16-21 absolutely no social life whatsoever

I don't get how u guys are okay with having no social life it's rlly damaged my brain and made me weak

It's not like I have a choice, cuz of how deformed I am I can't have friends, but biochemically I am designed to have a social life and I don't have one and it's biochemically damaging me

I had a best friend from when i was 4 years old all the way up to 14 and just stopped talking to him cause he never defended me in any serious situations and i thought for knowing him that long he would of been a true friend and also he just became less social and more introverted. Hence why he’s friends with my cousin of low testosterone levels and now there great friends even though they don’t talk to eachother unless they meet up and they don’t lmao.

I always encourage my cousin to do shit but he never wants too. He has so much potential in the gym it’s unreal aswell


Dnr okay idc if you read or not

 

[plukee]

Cause even on this rothole there's very few truly friendless ppl

Yeah .org doesn’t have many friendless people. .is does tho and can guarantee you if any of our irl friends knew we used this forum we would go friendless

 

[Deleted member 14693]

Cause you can easily get friends if you would want to just get into some nerd hobby full of fat subhumans they will accept you with open arms.

 

[plukee]

Cause you can easily get friends if you would want to just get into some nerd hobby full of fat subhumans they will accept you with open arms.

Those nerdy fat subhumans most likely won’t be social themselves tbh

 

[cytoplasm]

if any of our irl friends knew we used this forum we would go friendless

 

[Deleted member 14693]

Those nerdy fat subhumans most likely won’t be social themselves tbh

idk get a hobby like these DnD mfers in Stranger Things, social hobby full of complete subhumans. Yes you need to become a nerd to socialize as a subhuman, but if you have a problem with being lonely you could always change that.

 

[Graham]

Bad social life is the symptom not the problem.

I'm weird, autistic and ugly, I do things that I think are normal but are actually rude. When no-one wants you around, if you fuck up / do something rude its considered a bigger issue than if they like you already (to some degree this is the dynamics with banter).

I find it really hard to know where the line is, I typically go to far and upset people, but if I don't do anything people see me as boring and a pushover.

At least if I looked like @Xangsane or someone good looking, I'd just be seen as mysterious and introverted, rather than a pathetic, rude and useless individual.

 

[plukee]

idk get a hobby like these DnD mfers in Stranger Things, social hobby full of complete subhumans. Yes you need to become a nerd to socialize as a subhuman, but if you have a problem with being lonely you could always change that.

Tbh if you’re friends with a nerdy guy chances are he’s introverted af and won’t want to do anything with you. When i was friendless for a bit back in last year id force myself to hangout with my cousin and he would just sit in a dark room playing single player games and talk to this one guy when playing multiplayer games. I don’t really understand how he still finds gaming fun anyways cause there’s no fun games out there anymore so it must be a giga cope for him or something

 

[Lebgfinal]

you cope by realizing that once you pass the age of 14 social interaction is mostly power tripping aka mogging. you either mog in looks or NT'ness so if youre sub the people youre interacting with then its gonna be just as shit if youre alone.

You are a retard

 

[Deleted member 21345]

I've tried to build a social life with normies several times, always ends up being a chore. Online gigaautists are the only people who get

 

[Deleted member 31457]

Bad social life is the symptom not the problem.

I'm weird, autistic and ugly, I do things that I think are normal but are actually rude. When no-one wants you around, if you fuck up / do something rude its considered a bigger issue than if they like you already (to some degree this is the dynamics with banter).

I find it really hard to know where the line is, I typically go to far and upset people, but if I don't do anything people see me as boring and a pushover.

At least if I looked like @Xangsane or someone good looking, I'd just be seen as mysterious and introverted, rather than a pathetic, rude and useless individual.

there is no line for gl ppl

 

[Deleted member 31457]

.org is my social life

nice sig

 

[Latinus]

You are a retard

Respect your forum friend.

 

[Slayer]

I have bottom decile platonic social needs and I even get sick of most women very quickly especially if I never had to chase or flirt with them to get them interested.

The only time things like this bothered me is in the broader abstract context of “appearing weird”, not to anyone in particular but in a general sense, and I got over that at like 20.

 

[Tabula Rasa]

I’m used to it and I prefer it like this I think. Whenever I am with people I just want to be alone. It’s like a paradox; I feel lonely but when I am with people I hate it and want to be alone and do my own stuff. I also get my social needs fulfilled online

yeah tbh.. fucked up neurotransmitters from being an abused dog

 

[Deleted member 23391]

I've tried to build a social life with normies several times, always ends up being a chore. Online gigaautists are the only people who get

I can relate

 

[BoredPrince]

.org is my social life

 

[Lookologist003]

you cope by realizing that once you pass the age of 14 social interaction is mostly power tripping aka mogging. you either mog in looks or NT'ness so if youre sub the people youre interacting with then its gonna be just as shit if youre alone.

Ah, you read my mind. I have not really enjoyed anytime I spend with normies after I turned 15. These mfs started going to the gym at thirteen!!!!! What?? I remember one of my friends told me that he wants a good body because he knows his face isn't very good when I was walking away from school with him some summers ago. I look back on his sentiment with a blackpilled lens. What he said was unknowingly truthful. The last time I met with him, he was roided out and, youch!, how do you let yourself lose your soul like that?
Maybe I'm autistic, but I don't particularly mind having no social life. You're going to be alone at some point in your life before you die; better make peace with it. And I have my imagination.

First at the start of secondary school when heigharchys really form

I remember the day I got a taster. I think it was my induction day from primary school. I was with my childhood friend group and me and them were mingling with the students from other schools coming to this secondary school. Out of nowhere I'm shoved into a wall purposefully. The kid that pushed me was a tall blonde guy with the most advanced puberty from our new year. I asked him why holding back my tears because it really hurt, and he said that it was funny or something. From that day I knew it marked the end of my childhood.

Going on dates is very unnatural. In nature if two ppl fall in love with eachother they just fuck eachother there

While in youth, yeah. Life post youth is so boring and you'll never be her first love she was smitten with, Chad.

You are a retard

No dude come on it's so true. Hormones program you to want power, money, sex, status. You didn't want any of that when you could sing in a choir.

 

[Deleted member 31457]

While in youth, yeah. Life post youth is so boring and you'll never be her first love she was smitten with, Chad.

Life post youth is boring elab