How do men who date cope with this?

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How do they cope with the fact that the foid is "talking to" antoher 15 guys?
That they are just another option, just a number in the phone. In her mind you are not special in any way whatsoever, your just an another horny dog

Maybe its because I've never dated, but I if i started talking to someone, it would be pretty fucking special to me - I can imagine if to that person I was a nobody.

Can you imagine dating a foid, and still having to compete for her attention? You cant even relax for a second, if you do, some guy who didnt will immidiately take over.

Should you not feel comfortable around yout partner? How can you feel comfortable when youre being tested 24/7?
 
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Foids will cheat i promise you can never trust a girl
 
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Foids will cheat i promise you can never trust a girl
I feel like a foid will emotionally cheat on you every single day of the relationship, and then finalize the cheating with actualy real phyiscal cheating once she wants the relationsjip to end
 
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Getting a girl's number or Social Media is basically just you entering the Invisible Tournament in her phone.
 
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at some point you just accept it, women's nature is very cruel and unfair. Always be 3 steps ahead and be prepared for the inevitable, the average foid is inundated with male options that blow most men out the water
 
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she'd stop talking to them if you're chad
 
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at some point you just accept it, women's nature is very cruel and unfair. Always be 3 steps ahead and be prepared for the inevitable, the average foid is inundated with male options that blow most men out the water
Ocf I'm talking about a situation where youre already a chad - impossible to date as a non chad.
Even if youre already a chad, the situation is exactly the same - you've just came out on top
 
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Ocf I'm talking about a situation where youre already a chad - impossible to date as a non chad.
Even if youre already a chad, the situation is exactly the same - you've just came out on top
even chad's get this shit yeah. Unironically as shitty as it sounds, settling down and getting married seems like a scam, especially with these new age whores
 
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they just do what they feel like without overthinking cause you only live once and rotting at home because a bunch of autists online make up theories is detrimental
 
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they just do what they feel like without overthinking cause you only live once and rotting at home because a bunch of autists online make up theories is detrimental
wdym "making up theories"?
you want to tell me its not true?
 
How do they cope with the fact that the foid is "talking to" antoher 15 guys?
That they are just another option, just a number in the phone. In her mind you are not special in any way whatsoever, your just an another horny dog

Maybe its because I've never dated, but I if i started talking to someone, it would be pretty fucking special to me - I can imagine if to that person I was a nobody.

Can you imagine dating a foid, and still having to compete for her attention? You cant even relax for a second, if you do, some guy who didnt will immidiately take over.

Should you not feel comfortable around yout partner? How can you feel comfortable when youre being tested 24/7?
Some men are the number 1 option for girls. You know girls have crushes etc.
 
How do they cope with the fact that the foid is "talking to" antoher 15 guys?
That they are just another option, just a number in the phone. In her mind you are not special in any way whatsoever, your just an another horny dog

Maybe its because I've never dated, but I if i started talking to someone, it would be pretty fucking special to me - I can imagine if to that person I was a nobody.

Can you imagine dating a foid, and still having to compete for her attention? You cant even relax for a second, if you do, some guy who didnt will immidiately take over.

Should you not feel comfortable around yout partner? How can you feel comfortable when youre being tested 24/7?
That's why I've never dated.
 
Some men are the number 1 option for girls. You know girls have crushes etc.
But thatx exactly what I'm talking about - rather than viewing me as an individual, she would view me as an option - number 1 option, but option neverthless
 
But thatx exactly what I'm talking about - rather than viewing me as an individual, she would view me as an option - number 1 option, but option neverthless
The option was a bad word choice by me. If the girl is infatuated with you she doesn't think about the other guys, you are the one she wants. You are her "oneitis".
 
The average woman doesn't have 15 other options.

Most women are Beckys, they don't get hit on in public or at work all the time. They don't get on bars or clubs every week. They aren't on Tinder, and even if they are, most women don't want ONS with strangers (Chad or not). The amount of men that show romantic or sexual interest in a Becky is not that big.

Also, women can fall in love just like men, and the person they love is not just "another option" for them, they genuinely love them.
 
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Also, women can fall in love just like men, and the person they love is not just "another option" for them, they genuinely love them.
Yeah. Girls obsess guys they love/have crush on just like some forum members are obsessed with their oneitises.
 
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the solution ? Cheat first, its iver if youre not chad tbh
 
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ldar
 
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LTR is dead in this degenerate world.
 
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the solution ? Cheat first, its iver if youre not chad tbh
the one who cares less in a relationship, always wins
 
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How do they cope with the fact that the foid is "talking to" antoher 15 guys?
That they are just another option, just a number in the phone. In her mind you are not special in any way whatsoever, your just an another horny dog

Maybe its because I've never dated, but I if i started talking to someone, it would be pretty fucking special to me - I can imagine if to that person I was a nobody.

Can you imagine dating a foid, and still having to compete for her attention? You cant even relax for a second, if you do, some guy who didnt will immidiately take over.

Should you not feel comfortable around yout partner? How can you feel comfortable when youre being tested 24/7?

 
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Should you not feel comfortable around yout partner? How can you feel comfortable when youre being tested 24/7?
It won't be comfortable, in fact it can be pretty stressful.
 
Confidence>everything
 
Dude that's absolutely crushing me as well... I really can't cope with this + the fact that she's 99% not a virgin anymore. It's like you will inevitably get ghosted with zero consequences because oh well, she can order a Chad who mogs you to her house with just a few letters of text.
 
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Unironically talk to 15 other girls. No one really wins. The closest you can get to winning is being chad. If you don’t have that kind of smv you can choose between loneliness of mgtow or the anguish of trying to win a girls heart as a sub8
 
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How do they cope with the fact that the foid is "talking to" antoher 15 guys?
That they are just another option, just a number in the phone. In her mind you are not special in any way whatsoever, your just an another horny dog

Maybe its because I've never dated, but I if i started talking to someone, it would be pretty fucking special to me - I can imagine if to that person I was a nobody.

Can you imagine dating a foid, and still having to compete for her attention? You cant even relax for a second, if you do, some guy who didnt will immidiately take over.

Should you not feel comfortable around yout partner? How can you feel comfortable when youre being tested 24/7?
literally i dated first time 6 months ago it's most stresfull shit i have ever done
 
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The average woman doesn't have 15 other options.

Most women are Beckys, they don't get hit on in public or at work all the time. They don't get on bars or clubs every week. They aren't on Tinder, and even if they are, most women don't want ONS with strangers (Chad or not). The amount of men that show romantic or sexual interest in a Becky is not that big.

Also, women can fall in love just like men, and the person they love is not just "another option" for them, they genuinely love them.
SHUT THE FUCK UP YOU FUCKIN GREYCEL BLUEPILLED FUCKNUGGET

GO BACK TO REDDIT IF YOU ACTUALLY BELIEVE THIS SHIT YOU HAVE NOT TALKED TO A SINGLE YOUNG GIRL IN YOUR ENTIRE LIFE
 
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This is why escortceling is ideal in 2021 unless you're some chad who can easily get a ONS. Just pay, nut and go... instead of simping and spending money after some hypergamous whore who will eventually dump you and cause you emotional damage.
 
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SHUT THE FUCK UP YOU FUCKIN GREYCEL BLUEPILLED FUCKNUGGET

GO BACK TO REDDIT IF YOU ACTUALLY BELIEVE THIS SHIT YOU HAVE NOT TALKED TO A SINGLE YOUNG GIRL IN YOUR ENTIRE LIFE

True low tier normie girl in my friendgroup gets approached ALL THE TIME + guys messaging her on instagram its insane.
 
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SHUT THE FUCK UP YOU FUCKIN GREYCEL BLUEPILLED FUCKNUGGET

GO BACK TO REDDIT IF YOU ACTUALLY BELIEVE THIS SHIT YOU HAVE NOT TALKED TO A SINGLE YOUNG GIRL IN YOUR ENTIRE LIFE
Keep barking.
True low tier normie girl in my friendgroup gets approached ALL THE TIME + guys messaging her on instagram its insane.
Depends on social circle and if she is more extraverted or more introverted. Approaches in real life don't happen "all the time" for Beckys if they don't go to clubs and bars every week.

Don't know about Instagram. But yeah, that could be true. Although most girls don't have Hundreds of followers and simps.
 
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Keep barking.

Depends on social circle and if she is more extraverted or more introverted. Approaches in real life don't happen "all the time" for Beckys if they don't go to clubs and bars every week.

Don't know about Instagram. But yeah, that could be true. Although most girls don't have Hundreds of followers and simps.

Most girls DO have hundreds of followers and simps? And ye approaches do happen all the time for girls. Random guys slide in her DMs and send dickpics jfl
 
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True low tier normie girl in my friendgroup gets approached ALL THE TIME + guys messaging her on instagram its insane.
Yep this topic is a dead giveaway who here actually has experience with women, and who is just making up theories in their head

I've already made several topics about this, every single average looking girl in 2021 has minimum 100+ unread text messages in her phone, not counting all the Facebook, Instagram, Snapchats, Tinder/Bumble, Whatapp

Of course I dont know if fat girls or super uggo girls have this amount of attention, but due to the fact that fat women only pay attention to me when Im looking good enough to get hot girl's attention, I think I can safely say fat hoes and Stacy have the exact same standards for men
 
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Yep this topic is a dead giveaway who here actually has experience with women, and who is just making up theories in their head

I've already made several topics about this, every single average looking girl in 2021 has minimum 100+ unread text messages in her phone, not counting all the Facebook, Instagram, Snapchats, Tinder/Bumble, Whatapp

Of course I dont know if fat girls or super uggo girls have this amount of attention, but due to the fact that fat women only pay attention to me when Im looking good enough to get hot girl's attention, I think I can safely say fat hoes and Stacy have the exact same standards for men

This girl in my friendgroup is gigafrauding with fakeup, recessed and has a jew nose and literally still gets a shitton of guys approaching
 
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This girl in my friendgroup is gigafrauding with fakeup, recessed and has a jew nose and literally still gets a shitton of guys approaching
Every bluepiller in this thread right now

4k1icn
 
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If she's talking to 15 other guys obviously she doesn't give a rat's ass about you nor those other guys. Probably because she's a fucking dyke in denial or a junkie whore. Ugh. I need help with my people skills.
 
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Make sure you understand when your dating a women that you're her first option that's why she chose you.

Understand there's way better looking and taller guys out there than you that want your girlfriend

Stay on your path, share time with her and treat her well but don't get complacent and let her take advantage of you, you should always be stronger than her in the relationship dynamic, she should be the one seeking your validation and your attention

Constantly vet her. Is she feminine? Does she treat kids well? How often does she talk about other guys? How much of her friends opinion matters to her?

By vetting her your establishing whether she's high quality or not.


Btw most women don't have that many options, only the tinder hoes and online dating hoes do and those are low quality so you should be staying away from those.

The rest rely on men approaching them and meeting through social circles. Most men are apprehensive to approach irl and friend circle wise in case they get rejected and therefore are looked at as a loser by other girls.

Just remember if all fails and she cheats on you then she was never yours to begin with and that means she was a low quality women
 
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Before entering LTR, set rules. If a single rule is broken, leave. Only retards cant follow basic relationship guidelines
 
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Make sure you understand when your dating a women that you're her first option that's why she chose you.

Understand there's way better looking and taller guys out there than you that want your girlfriend

Stay on your path, share time with her and treat her well but don't get complacent and let her take advantage of you, you should always be stronger than her in the relationship dynamic, she should be the one seeking your validation and your attention

Constantly vet her. Is she feminine? Does she treat kids well? How often does she talk about other guys? How much of her friends opinion matters to her?

By vetting her your establishing whether she's high quality or not.


Btw most women don't have that many options, only the tinder hoes and online dating hoes do and those are low quality so you should be staying away from those.

The rest rely on men approaching them and meeting through social circles. Most men are apprehensive to approach irl and friend circle wise in case they get rejected and therefore are looked at as a loser by other girls.

Just remember if all fails and she cheats on you then she was never yours to begin with and that means she was a low quality women
Is this a reddit copypasta?
 
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Is this a reddit copypasta?
Lol nah, not everyone on this forum has a bleak outlook on women to the point where they're so hateful towards them and believe that she's gonna leave you once she sees a better looking/taller guy
 
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that’s why you cheat lol
 
When you date a woman she has to start reducing her male acquaintances until the only male in her life is you, and other males in her family.
 
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Lol nah, not everyone on this forum has a bleak outlook on women to the point where they're so hateful towards them and believe that she's gonna leave you once she sees a better looking/taller guy
But isnt that exactly what happens lol

Right, she can leave you even for a worse looking guy
 
If she's talking to 15 other guys obviously she doesn't give a rat's ass about you nor those other guys. Probably because she's a fucking dyke in denial or a junkie whore. Ugh. I need help with my people skills.
Or maybe because male attnetion is so cheap and redundant to her that is means literally nothing?
 
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Or maybe because male attnetion is so cheap and redundant to her that is means literally nothing?
Then she's fucked in her head. Soulless. Cold. Dark. A junkie. I guarantee you!
 
Yep this topic is a dead giveaway who here actually has experience with women, and who is just making up theories in their head

I've already made several topics about this, every single average looking girl in 2021 has minimum 100+ unread text messages in her phone, not counting all the Facebook, Instagram, Snapchats, Tinder/Bumble, Whatapp
It's just not true that EVERY SINGLE average looking girl has 100+ unread text messages. You are making up things here. I'm sure there are a lot of girls who have an abundance of male attention, and you met many of them, it seems. But it's not every average looking girl.

It's not even that they couldn't get it (maybe every Becky could), it's just that not everyone of them is so atttention-seeking.
Of course I dont know if fat girls or super uggo girls have this amount of attention, but due to the fact that fat women only pay attention to me when Im looking good enough to get hot girl's attention, I think I can safely say fat hoes and Stacy have the exact same standards for men
Fat girls are usually bullied and end up with desperate guys who deny that they banged them after they did it or who are fat or ogres themselves.
 
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How do they cope with the fact that the foid is "talking to" antoher 15 guys?
That they are just another option, just a number in the phone. In her mind you are not special in any way whatsoever, your just an another horny dog

Maybe its because I've never dated, but I if i started talking to someone, it would be pretty fucking special to me - I can imagine if to that person I was a nobody.

Can you imagine dating a foid, and still having to compete for her attention? You cant even relax for a second, if you do, some guy who didnt will immidiately take over.

Should you not feel comfortable around yout partner? How can you feel comfortable when youre being tested 24/7?
Looksmaxx as much as possible. If you can get to having an average face with a gymmaxxed body and you actually go out often you too can have options (unless you’re literally a midget). I’m in the process of doing this but my friend a few years older already did and he slays easy. Just on face alone you guys would rate him normie maybe htn. But not chad. And he bangs hot girls left and right.
 

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