How to cope with ascension.

[Deleted member 275]

Title.

So you've ascended....

Instead of ugly incel friends, you now have these HTN friends that have been slaying since their teens while you were a reject. They have hobbies like partying, going to festivals, etc. Massive amounts of cool stories, big confidence, extroverted, they know a shitton of people, have many exes. You don't relate to them at all.

You can get attractive girls interested in you, but while you have a n-count of 5, she has a n-count of 20. Including 3 long-term relationships. You are her 4th relationship. Her life has been paradise, a spoiled princess. While you were a reject.
You don't relate to her at all.


?!?!

It's just brutal tbh. I still prefer hanging out with incel men simply because I can relate to their life, mannerisms, humor, a lot more. And I still prefer avoiding women all together, just because their lives were always so different and isolated from mine.

Being decent looking in your later years, after ascending. Simply not the same shit as having been decent looking all your life. It's just blackpill after blackpill being thrown in your face, constantly being reminded these people only hang out with you because they like your look. Realizing the only reason this girl even likes you is because of your looks.

My last attractive fwb wanted a relationship with me, but I rejected her cuz I thought the reason why she liked me, looks, was just stupid asf. We had not much else in common other than liking to fuck, cuddle and watch movies or go to a restaurant together once in a while. Reminded me of my first relationship aswell. Attractive girl I had 0 in common with, but just doing these same activities. Didn't like her that much either, but can't think of a type of woman that I would like more either.

?! thoughts

Legit thinking that if I descended, I would start finding uglier girls attractive again and feel more comfortable just chilling with ugly rejects aswell. And be more at ease with people I have shared a similar life with. Ugly girls will probably be more relatable with rejection and being social outcasts, etc.

 

[Deleted member 4430]

cmon OP, you are near 40 years old and literally have the social awareness of a 10 year old girl, your life must be verging on a tragedy at this point

there are no ascensions via PS, becasue if you are desperate enough for PS, there is a lot more wrong with you that can be "fixed"

besisdes that you are humiliating yourself, your family and your lineage...all who managed to reproduce before you. imagine throwing away the result of hundreds of years worth of reproduction

if you cant create contentment from the hand you have been given, bow out on your sword

 

[Deleted member 275]

cmon OP, you are near 40 years old

?

 

[Lars]

Better start now than tomrrow men atleast you are more experienced if you start now and get all the enjoyments of life

 

[Deleted member 7580]

You pretend you were never ugly or a social outcast

 

[Deleted member 4106]

Trying to find a group of similar people

 

[Deleted member 275]

Better start now than tomrrow men atleast you are more experienced if you start now and get all the enjoyments of life

True, somehow being able to put your past to rest and accept your new life seems to be key.

 

[Lars]

True, somehow being able to put your past to rest and accept your new life seems to be key.

Yeah man what happend already happend you cant change that but you have the future in your hands

 

[Deleted member 275]

You pretend you were never ugly or a social outcast

That's what I've been doing all this time. And this is how I get relationships with girls that I don't relate to, and get friends that I don't relate to.

I always hide the subhuman parts of my past and present life, and pretend to be what I know is expected of me based on my looks. My roommate was asking me how my dating life is going and if I am dating any new chicks. Told him my confidence is kinda low and I feel ugly and rejected asf rn, so he just looks at me confused and says: 'huh you always seem very confident and good with girls, uhh weird stuff man'.

and I am like ?!? k ill just say im slaying next time bro, fuck off - in my head.

 

[Deleted member 5809]

and you ascended in your early 20s. fucking over for me because i will most likely ascend (get my first hug) in my late 20s at best

 

[SadLivwr]

Well thats the price for ascension i guess

 

[Deleted member 275]

and you ascended in your early 20s. fucking over for me because i will most likely ascend (get my first hug) in my late 20s at best

I legit feel like sigma-male lifestyle is the only way to go now. Get comfortable with being alone. I'll never be normal at this point.

 

[Be_ConfidentBro]

I relate to this a lot but at least I’m only 21 which is still bad I suppose since according to this forum life ends after highschool

 

[wannaimprove]

it is a silly mindset

 

[TITUS]

" liking to fuck, cuddle and watch movies or go to a restaurant together once in a while"
There is really nothing else to do with women, they are brainless dogs. And if by chance you find a woman who can think on her own, she's probably crazy at that point.
At HS there were 2 intelligent girls in my class, they werent ugly or anything, just the cleverest girls of my age, they both got bullied and one of them finished HS at some other town.

 

[AlexAP]

Falsememoriesmaxxing.

Jk, I think you have to either completely attach yourself from comparing your life to others and only see your journey (don't know if that's possible) or locationmaxx. Changing your country can be like a therapy.

 

[Deleted member 5809]

time to rope. i hope reincarnation is real.

 

[Amexmaxx]

Better late than never. Nueroplasticitymaxx get used to being a nt social pussy slayer than remaining subhuman your whole life.

 

[Danish_Retard]

I legit feel like sigma-male lifestyle is the only way to go now. Get comfortable with being alone. I'll never be normal at this point.

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jfl man the sigma memes unironically give me motivation. I find actual alpha sextriollionaire grindset type people insufferable but sigma memes does it for me.

" liking to fuck, cuddle and watch movies or go to a restaurant together once in a while"
There is really nothing else to do with women, they are brainless dogs. And if by chance you find a woman who can think on her own, she's probably crazy at that point.
At HS there were 2 intelligent girls in my class, they werent ugly or anything, just the cleverest girls of my age, they both got bullied and one of them finished HS at some other town.

tbh tbh

The only smart girls I knew there either bullied or manipulative sociopaths. Sometimes both