
Wholesome BOI
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im 17 and i have been extremely addicted to porn i need guidance i feel that its destroying my life opinions?
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im 17 and i have been extremely addicted to porn i need guidance i feel that its destroying my life opinions?
Why? Old? low T?you dont bro wtf lol i wish i could still jerk off 3 times a day but thats low key over already for me
Changing your SETTING is more powerful than a replacement activity.Like many said, cold turkey is the way to go. Here's a list of things that help me with this:
- Sever emotional connections to porn. Delete whatever files you have, links you have, stuff like that. Disregard anything your brain tells you about "But what if there's something NEW that you haven't seen from your favorite source?", that's a joke and you'll feel worse off if you check.
- Figure out when you tend to jerk it. I do it exclusively when going to bed/waking up. Figure out something to do INSTEAD during the times you are most vulnerable. For me, I decided I wanted to try to see exactly how calm I could possibly be while going to bed, like a meditation-like challenge. That helped.
- Find a REPLACEMENT activity. Often, you'll jerk it when you have nothing else to do. Mindlessly browsing the internet while a bit bored is an easy way to give in eventually. People claim "work out", and that helps, but aside from that, pick up an actual activity/hobby to immerse yourself in. Find a new game to play, try and find a skill you think is fun and learn it, focus on studying harder, basically anything that absorbs your concentration.
- Don't seek it out or give it any headroom. It starts with a thought about a "non-sexual" music video, or place on the internet that doesn't "count" as porn, but it will always lead to a relapse. Disregard that. Whenever something sexual pops up, dismiss and forget it, and find something else to do.
That's just a few tips. Final tip: If you find yourself relapsing a lot, change up the strategy. Try noporn, aka fapping all you want, but not watching or consuming ANYTHING even REMOTELY close to porn. Try getting more busy with your schedule.
Nofap/noporn really is more about everything you do outside of fapping, rather than the act of not fapping itself.
won't work I tried it. Changing ur setting is the only answer.Install a chrome extension that blocks specific websites.