I can't have a relationship with a women that is socially ahead of me

[alriodai]

@tyronelite I just realized that the first 3 and last relationships I had this year failed because I couldn't truly relate or be in the same social level as my partners
(They like drama, action, facetiming? many many many other shit that I was too socially stunted to do)
From knowing how to sex talk to them to really fucking them like a true socially NT chad would do

 

[datboijj]

not interested in NT women

 

[alriodai]

not interested in NT women

It's not even about NT women

I'm probably one of the most NT users on this website IRL, it's just that theses attractive or average women are so socially ahead like super socially ahead it's so hard to keep up

 

[tyronelite]

@tyronelite I just realized that the first 3 and last relationships I had this year failed because I couldn't truly relate or be in the same social level as my partners
(They like drama, action, facetiming? many many many other shit that I was too socially stunted to do)
From knowing how to sex talk to them to really fucking them like a true socially NT chad would do

Yeah some guys are better off with the bookworm introverted type of chick but they don’t want that

If you’re non NT you’re gonna have a hard time with chicks who are outgoing & extroverted

 

[alriodai]

Yeah some guys are better off with the bookworm introverted type of chick but they don’t want that

If you’re non NT you’re gonna have a hard time with chicks who are outgoing & extroverted

It's not even about being NT at this point bro lol

Non NT meaning in this forum for users = being super socially retarded

Now you go to clubs every day at night and see how women react and learn learn learn, I have nothing to learn from or anything, so usually when a new social concept came from my ex girlfriends, I didn't know how to react at all, you probably learned how since you live in the west

 

[tyronelite]

I have nothing to learn from or anything, so usually when a new social concept came from my ex girlfriends, I didn't know how to react at all, you probably learned how since you live in the west

Ahh yeah that’s normal. You learn through lots of experience & continuing to talk to different types of women

That’s why I never recommend guys to only rely on dating apps

 

[Prime Time]

Yeah some guys are better off with the bookworm introverted type of chick but they don’t want that

If you’re non NT you’re gonna have a hard time with chicks who are outgoing & extroverted

Tbh all the girls that actually look decent are outgoing/extroverted, so if you wanna have a better chance you better be like that as well

It's not even about being NT at this point bro lol

Non NT meaning in this forum for users = being super socially retarded

Now you go to clubs every day at night and see how women react and learn learn learn, I have nothing to learn from or anything, so usually when a new social concept came from my ex girlfriends, I didn't know how to react at all, you probably learned how since you live in the west

being able to read social situations becomes easier through exposure, putting yourself out there, college will force you to do that if you wanna have any form of interaction with girls @alriodai

Ahh yeah that’s normal. You learn through lots of experience & continuing to talk to different types of women

That’s why I never recommend guys to only rely on dating apps

In my experience I get better looking women irl than online dating where the gender ratios are skewed and women are just looking for Chads, irl is a lot easier and the standards are lower, like an above average guy it’s not hard to slay irl

 

[tyronelite]

Tbh all the girls that actually look decent are outgoing/extroverted, so if you wanna have a better chance you better be like that as well

I’ve met plenty of decent chicks who aren't outgoing like that

Just keep lookin

 

[alriodai]

Tbh all the girls that actually look decent are outgoing/extroverted, so if you wanna have a better chance you better be like that as well

being able to read social situations becomes easier through exposure, putting yourself out there, college will force you to do that if you wanna have any form of interaction with girls @alriodai

In my experience I get better looking women irl than online dating where the gender ratios are skewed and women are just looking for Chads, irl is a lot easier and the standards are lower, like an above average guy it’s not hard to slay irl

my problem is not social situations, im actually good with them thats how i mostly got with girls
the problem is when you get into the relationship, at the start its good its easy but then you know, my blackpilled brain can't stop process the fact that my girl is just lying or not being geniune, so it's just weird, i get stuck then

yes, dating more girls means forcing you to actually get better in social situations w women