I need to get into some type of social activity to ever ascend

[Deleted member 22124]

I barely meet anyone ever. How tf am I supposed to get to know anyone let alone break my dry spell? Even if I was attractive I'm not sure it would really lead anywhere. I can just wake up, take my supplements, exercise, go grocery shopping and rot on this forum. What kind of life is that? There's really no point in living if I don't try to work myself to a more positive place. Advice?

 

[Deleted member 22124]

You young work and studycels don't know how lucky you are. Meeting people everyday and having the chance to meet new people who might like you on a regular basis.

 

[Deleted member 31155]

ill be u in 15 years

 

[Deleted member 29786]

I just wake up, take my supplements, exercise, go grocery shopping and rot on this forum.

honestly id try to give advice but im in that same exact point in my life rn

 

[Deleted member 22124]

My life is like a mediocre poker player at a freeroll multi table tournament poker game, where the prize pool consists of tickets to another tournament. It's so far away from the reel prize, there's so many players and it's so hard to get through. Even if you play great the odds are still so crap. But I scramble on...

 

[SubSigma]

Maybe if you touched grass and had a better personality, then you would have some friends.

//RedditSigma

 

[Deleted member 22124]

Maybe if you touched grass and had a better personality, then you would have some friends.

//RedditSigma

Describe the ideal personality

 

[SubSigma]

Describe the ideal personality

Charismatic, outgoing, no strange mannerisms, no long gaps of silence. Basically the chad version of personality. Looksmaxxing is easier than personalitymaxxing tbh. I cut 70 pounds in a few months by leanmaxxing. I also forced myself to go out and do shit like hobbies and clubbing/raving. Leanmaxxing was 10x easier plus I had results. I don’t think I have anything from socialmaxxing other than a few memories.


//SociallyAnxiousSigma

 

[Deleted member 22124]

Charismatic, outgoing, no strange mannerisms, no long gaps of silence. Basically the chad version of personality. Looksmaxxing is easier than personalitymaxxing tbh. I cut 70 pounds in a few months by leanmaxxing. I also forced myself to go out and do shit like hobbies and clubbing/raving. Leanmaxxing was 10x easier plus I had results. I don’t think I have anything from socialmaxxing other than a few memories.


//SociallyAnxiousSigma

I have to take babysteps. I do best in conversations one-on-one.

 

[SubSigma]

I have to take babysteps. I do best in conversations one-on-one.

I did alcoholmaxxing to lower inhibitions. Try rock climbing or dance classes. Highest ratio of high quality women and all are 1 on 1 type scenarios.

 

[Krakowski]

Just go outside bro !

 

[Deleted member 22124]

I did alcoholmaxxing to lower inhibitions. Try rock climbing or dance classes. Highest ratio of high quality women and all are 1 on 1 type scenarios.

Yeah, or maybe a chess club for male interaction.

 

[Deleted member 22124]

Just go outside bro !

Yeah, I just go to to store and say "hey" and "thanks" to the cashier. It's not much of a social life.

 

[Krakowski]

Yeah, I just go to to store and say "hey" and "thanks" to the cashier. It's not much of a social life.

Ive been neet and working storage jobs for 2 years and its hell. I go outside everyday and if anything it just makes it worse.

I can't wait to go back to school to be honest.

 

[Deleted member 32529]

didnt you go uni/work?

 

[Tabula Rasa]

if ur not in a good location maybe u should move

 

[SubtleLeap]

I barely meet anyone ever. How tf am I supposed to get to know anyone let alone break my dry spell? Even if I was attractive I'm not sure it would really lead anywhere. I can just wake up, take my supplements, exercise, go grocery shopping and rot on this forum. What kind of life is that? There's really no point in living if I don't try to work myself to a more positive place. Advice?

This is me even though I am in college. During freshman year I wasn't very social so I barely met any new people. Additionally its very difficult to actually be friends with someone and actually hangout and do things together. Its much easier to make acquaintances.