I swear to god online dating has gotten harder from the firist half of 2022 vs second half

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Like I was actually getting some good results and consisent dates with averaeg lookin ggirls and occassionally an above average looking girl- but I cant for the lfie on me replicate those results anymore despite the fact ive improved my pictures quite a lot- WTF is going on its actually scary if it got this much harder in just 6 months
 
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Maybe you look TOO good now
 
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You must be Elo fucked. I've got so many dates this past week i ditched them. Not to mention all the girls that ghosted me because i didn't have ig
 
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Like I was actually getting some good results and consisent dates with averaeg lookin ggirls and occassionally an above average looking girl- but I cant for the lfie on me replicate those results anymore despite the fact ive improved my pictures quite a lot- WTF is going on its actually scary if it got this much harder in just 6 months
you need a hug
 
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You must be Elo fucked. I've got so many dates this past week i ditched them. Not to mention all the girls that ghosted me because i didn't have ig
Get just as many matches if not more nothing to do with ELO and I use hinge which doesnt have this gay ELO shit anyway
 
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Get just as many matches if not more nothing to do with ELO and I use hinge which doesnt have this gay ELO shit anyway
Maybe they think you're morphed idk
 
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Standards are going up faster than we can looksmax.

There's no winning
 
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Standards are going up faster than we can looksmax.

There's no winning
dude i would have said this stuff about ti getting harder all the time is a meme but literally this-
I have better pcis and look better irl and have gotten surgery wtf is wrong
 
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Next user who needs lobotomy
 
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dude i would have said this stuff about ti getting harder all the time is a meme but literally this-
I have better pcis and look better irl and have gotten surgery wtf is wrong
I use the exact same pics as I used 3 years ago, with the same bio and age. Also get shit results.
 
It's a dynamic arena, changing at a very fast pace, coupled with age/time pill and your slow decline, which will turn into falling off a cliff eventually and you will notice your success has gone down dramatically in a short space of time and you are now REJECTED ON SIGHT. It happens too fast to really adapt to it. Nobody has the IQ to see their own demise coming.
 
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It's a dynamic arena, changing at a very fast pace, coupled with age/time pill and your slow decline, which will turn into falling off a cliff eventually and you will notice your success has gone down dramatically in a short space of time and you are now REJECTED ON SIGHT. It happens too fast to really adapt to it. Nobody has the IQ to see their own demise coming.
Older women like older guys
You should see a drop in the amount of Jbs Who are into you not women in general
 
I wouldn't say that this has changed much compared to 5 years ago, I would just say that real stacylites/stacys (99.9+ percentile) have become more rare, nowadays the best you see are HTB (95 percentile) with body halo. I don't see real model looking women like sara sampaio anymore at all. More recessed womans also imo

edit: i have also talked about this with some women and they think the same, the number of good looking men has also decreased compared to 5 years ago.
 
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Like I was actually getting some good results and consisent dates with averaeg lookin ggirls and occassionally an above average looking girl- but I cant for the lfie on me replicate those results anymore despite the fact ive improved my pictures quite a lot- WTF is going on its actually scary if it got this much harder in just 6 months
You must be Elo fucked. I've got so many dates this past week i ditched them. Not to mention all the girls that ghosted me because i didn't have ig
I've been improving my ELO. Slowly improving my pictures. I'm getting more matches. But what I'm noticing is 90% of the foids WILL NOT GIVE OUT THEIR PHONE #. It's either Snap/Insta and if you have low status on those platforms it's over. You're just an orbiter at that point.
 
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I've been improving my ELO. Slowly improving my pictures. I'm getting more matches. But what I'm noticing is 90% of the foids WILL NOT GIVE OUT THEIR PHONE #. It's either Snap/Insta and if you have low status on those platforms it's over. You're just an orbiter at that point.
true. OLD is almost useless without insta. actually you shouldn't need to rely on some cucked algo either. most girls leave their insta on bio so you just need to swipe and text them from there.
 
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I wouldn't say that this has changed much compared to 5 years ago, I would just say that real stacylites/stacys (99.9+ percentile) have become more rare, nowadays the best you see are HTB (95 percentile) with body halo. I don't see real model looking women like sara sampaio anymore at all. More recessed womans also imo

edit: i have also talked about this with some women and they think the same, the number of good looking men has also decreased compared to 5 years ago.
stacies are partying with billionaires in some island that we never heard of, Jeffrey epstein type shit
 
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true. OLD is almost useless without insta. actually you shouldn't need to rely on some cucked algo either. most girls leave their insta on bio so you just need to swipe and text them from there.
And if you don't have blue check mark on Insta your DM goes all the way to the back. 90% chance she won't see it.

This is the reason why you and I as tall normies do better in real life.
 
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stacies are partying with billionaires in some island that we never heard of, Jeffrey epstein type shit
The Stacies probably use "Reia" : a celebrity dating app
 
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And if you don't have blue check mark on Insta your DM goes all the way to the back. 90% chance she won't see it.

This is the reason why you and I as tall normies do better in real life.
idk the few girls who don't ask for my insta are really into me. once managed to meet even one girl by dming her on insta with my 0 followers account.
 
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idk the few girls who don't ask for my insta are really into me. once managed to meet even one girl by dming her on insta with my 0 followers account.
Same..
The super high interest girls don't care

Still makes me wonder what I'm missing out on
 
Same..
The super high interest girls don't care

Still makes me wonder what I'm missing out on
probably some girls still want to make sure that you're not catfishing and that you have some social life aka you're not some aspie weirdo (which i am).
 
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stacies are partying with billionaires in some island that we never heard of, Jeffrey epstein shit
nah they dont, some still do modelling, some get a degree to start a career, some do onlyfans, everyone tries to cope with life somehow.

The number of real gold diggers is not so high in the West, but more so in the East. In the West, there is a lot of inheritance, and many of the gl I have met in my life come from quite wealthy families who inherit houses, real estate, shares, and so on. They don't need millionaires.

The Stacies probably use "Reia" : a celebrity dating app
Raya wtf, never heard of it
 
I wouldn't say that this has changed much compared to 5 years ago, I would just say that real stacylites/stacys (99.9+ percentile) have become more rare, nowadays the best you see are HTB (95 percentile) with body halo. I don't see real model looking women like sara sampaio anymore at all. More recessed womans also imo

edit: i have also talked about this with some women and they think the same, the number of good looking men has also decreased compared to 5 years ago.
supercope
 
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I’m hogging all the htb+ sorry!
 
it gets exponentially harder as time passes

soon Maher will be joining the forum
 
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it gets exponentially harder as time passes

soon Maher will be joining the forum
today's chads are tomorrow's incels
 
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What happened is most women got a new boyfriend after the corona scam was over and now they are in relations, you had a window of opportunity last 2 summers.
 
It has gotten worse for me as well. I read this post and it rly struck close to home. I was getting 3-4 dates a week easily a few months ago. Now I am struggling to even get 1-2 dates per week even though my pictures and texting has been the same. Idk what the fuck is happeneing. I am getting a similar amount of matches but they are ghosting on the app and not replying as much
 
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What happened is most women got a new boyfriend after the corona scam was over and now they are in relations, you had a window of opportunity last 2 summers.
This is for women that are single and on dating apps
 
dude i would have said this stuff about ti getting harder all the time is a meme but literally this-
I have better pcis and look better irl and have gotten surgery wtf is wrong
Maybe you look uncanny after surgery ?
 
Maybe you look uncanny after surgery ?
Could be due to seasonality. Thanksgiving/Christmas time is worse for getting dates than summer. Summer is also far better for slaying than winter. My results seemed to go down right after thanksgiving
 
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Could be due to seasonality. Thanksgiving/Christmas time is worse for getting dates than summer. Summer is also far better for slaying than winter. My results seemed to go down right after thanksgiving
Yea that happens all the time
Summers are easiest to slay and girls are hornier

All “hot girl summer” excuse to hoe around
 
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Yea that happens all the time
Summers are easiest to slay and girls are hornier

All “hot girl summer” excuse to hoe around
More than half of the girls I'm messaging and trying to set dates with right now are either gone visiting family or about to leave which makes it tough bc all those convos will be dead when they return, they will lose interest. In Nov it was the same issue with Thanksgiving and a lot of girls told me they had final exams. May-Oct seem to be better months for slaying, but this shit is annoying rn
 
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More than half of the girls I'm messaging and trying to set dates with right now are either gone visiting family or about to leave which makes it tough bc all those convos will be dead when they return, they will lose interest. In Nov it was the same issue with Thanksgiving and a lot of girls told me they had final exams. May-Oct seem to be better months for slaying, but this shit is annoying rn
Yea lol same experience here. Most girls are gonna be out of town. No point of swiping and matching few days before holidays
 
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Like I was actually getting some good results and consisent dates with averaeg lookin ggirls and occassionally an above average looking girl- but I cant for the lfie on me replicate those results anymore despite the fact ive improved my pictures quite a lot- WTF is going on its actually scary if it got this much harder in just 6 months
I keep finding myself coming back to this thread after i started yet another failed Tinder experiment. Seeing all those gorgeous slim girls in their underwear and bikini pics, signaling their willingness for (chad)cock just for me to match with nothing but obese beast women is soul crushing.

Maybe me larping 20 as 26 y.o. doesn‘t work anymore if I‘m unwilling to dress like a homo with painted nails and curly hair style

I used to get much better results only a few years ago
 
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I keep find myself coming back to this thread after i started yet another failed Tinder experiment. Seeing all those gorgeous slim girls in their underwear and bikini pics, signaling their willingness for (chad)cock just for me to match with nothing but obese beast women is soul crushing.

Maybe me larping 20 as 26 y.o. doesn‘t work anymore if I‘m unwilling to dress like a homo with painted nails and curly hair style
Dude why would you larp 20 that’s worse than 26 they like guys a bit older usually 22-25. Anyways a lot of those girls are there for validation don’t take it too srsly
 
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Maybe you look uncanny after surgery ?
The surgery was only a small change- I defo look better and not uncanny

It has gotten worse for me as well. I read this post and it rly struck close to home. I was getting 3-4 dates a week easily a few months ago. Now I am struggling to even get 1-2 dates per week even though my pictures and texting has been the same. Idk what the fuck is happeneing. I am getting a similar amount of matches but they are ghosting on the app and not replying as much
Atleast it’s not just me who noticed it!

Maybe I need to rethink my slaying strategies a but
 
The surgery was only a small change- I defo look better and not uncanny


Atleast it’s not just me who noticed it!

Maybe I need to rethink my slaying strategies a but
The only solution is to increase volume. Swipe more talk to more girls IRL etc. just keep hitting on girls till you find one that’s DTF. If you’re a door to door salesman and not selling enough best thing to do is knock on more doors
 
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It has gotten worse for me as well. I read this post and it rly struck close to home. I was getting 3-4 dates a week easily a few months ago. Now I am struggling to even get 1-2 dates per week even though my pictures and texting has been the same. Idk what the fuck is happeneing. I am getting a similar amount of matches but they are ghosting on the app and not replying as much
I’m IRL proximity pilled atm. I just got a LTB’s # and we’re gonna go out together
 
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dude i would have said this stuff about ti getting harder all the time is a meme but literally this-
I have better pcis and look better irl and have gotten surgery wtf is wrong
The irony of this comment and then you tell me it’s in my head bro… come on you know what I said is legit before
 
The irony of this comment and then you tell me it’s in my head bro… come on you know what I said is legit before
What that flaking on dating apps is a UK phenomenon? Everyone itt is agreeing it’s getting harder and harder t get girls to meet. Standards are skyrocketin across the world
 
What that flaking on dating apps is a UK phenomenon? Everyone itt is agreeing it’s getting harder and harder t get girls to meet. Standards are skyrocketin across the world
Nar just that the UK I’d harder than other places but women flake eveywhere it’s just UK women are ultimate cock teasers
 
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The only solution is to increase volume. Swipe more talk to more girls IRL etc. just keep hitting on girls till you find one that’s DTF. If you’re a door to door salesman and not selling enough best thing to do is knock on more doors
reminds me of how ppl nowadays work multiple full-time jobs at the same time to get a decent salary. JFL at society.
 
It’s just insane competition from guys with good bases who never needed to looksmax before starting to roid and use fillers. MTN of today is literally the HTN of a couple years ago.
 
It’s just insane competition from guys with good bases who never needed to looksmax before starting to roid and use fillers. MTN of today is literally the HTN of a couple years ago.
Is fillers some kind of UK thing? No normies in the US do them or have heard of them
 

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