I think I've gotten small IOIs at psychiatrist queue

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I will try to make it as detailed as possible.

I am waiting at psychiatrist right now and as I walked in I asked a girl (around my age, in her 20s) if anybody is inside receptionist room, and she smiled a bit because she wasn't sure, she looked flattered.

So later I went to sit somewhere and I noticed her looking at me. Then as I was looking around our eyes met again multiple times I felt like she wanted to look at me idk she wasn't really pretty, like a PSL4 I guess but I liked that she is looking at me and I kinda got attracted to her just because she looked at me multiple times.

As she was outside the doctor's room she looked at me as well. Idk how to feel now damn I was too scared to approach I wasn't sure if those were real IOIs but that eye contact with her really got my dopamine boost in for today.

Were those IOIs or am I delusional incel projecting dreams? Did I lose my IOI virginity?

@eduardkoopman what do you think man I feel so flattered right now man idk what to think I imagined in my head that this girl is gonna give me her number

 

[Ritalincel]

 

[Deleted member 2661]

P in V

 

[HurtfulVanity]

slayers.me

 

[Selfahate]

DELUSIONS SUBHUMANS I WILLL BE NEVER ATTACTIVE

 

[Ritalincel]

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P in V

What about PinA?

 

[Deleted member 3373]

she probably is schizophrenic psychopath who was thinking about selling your organs

 

[Deleted member 4563]

Should've started groping her and fuck her under the reception desk

 

[Deleted member 2661]

What about PinA?

 

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CAN YOU NOT SHITPOST OUT OF RESPECT TO MY INCELDOM AND ALL THE PAIN I ENDURE THIS THREAD IS SERIOUS MAN FFS IS THIS FUNNY TO YOU?

 

[hebbewem]

You are a 23 year old kissless virgin the obvious answer its a not ioi

 

[Deleted member 4563]

That's how it's done in porn, anyone tried it irl?

 

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You are a 23 year old kissless virgin the obvious answer its a not ioi

Man....

 

[turkproducer]

just approach, say hello or comment on what she’s wearing, like her bracelet but say it ina. relaxed tone. And feel out if she actually wants to talk to you, if she doesn’t than say but if she does ask for her number

 

[Deleted member 4563]

She wants your darktriad personality dedsrs

 

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just approach, say hello or comment on what she’s wearing, like her bracelet but say it ina. relaxed tone. And feel out if she actually wants to talk to you, if she doesn’t than say but if she does ask for her number

She is already gone man

 

[Ritalincel]

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[LordGodcat]

Depends on what you look like

 

[Ritalincel]

What about PinA?

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Ded srs bro

 

[eduardkoopman]

she smiled a bit
I noticed her looking at me.
she wanted to look at me
As she was outside the doctor's room she looked at me as well.


Were those IOIs or am I delusional incel projecting dreams? Did I lose my IOI virginity?

Yes, these were IOI's. And if it's the first time, then you lost your IOI virginity.
If: a smile, stares, and repetative looks don't count as an indicator interest or invitation signals. Then I don't know what fucking does.

If in doubt. I would assume, IOI anyways. Always give yourself or a situation the benifit of the doubt. Not the other way around.

Idk how to feel now damn I was too scared to approach

This is the biggest pity of the whole story. You make "apporaching", this big thing. Now approaching is a semi "big thing", if a dude chats up a random woman in the streets. Because that's a hyper situation.
But sitting in a waiting room, and makeing chit-chat; is hardly an approach. You can make very natural-ish and even low rsk. Just some stpid chitchat could do about the waether, what reason you/she is there, etc..

 

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Depends on what you look like

Idk how I look like my looks are changing sometimes I think I look ok and most of the time I think it's over.

What do you say was it ioi?

 

[Ghostcel]

When shit like this happens u gotta smile , when she smile back , u talk to her

 

[LordGodcat]

Idk how I look like my looks are changing sometimes I think I look ok and most of the time I think it's over.

What do you say was it ioi?

Sounds like an obvious ioi if she is constantly glancing your way and giving you smiles, you missed the perfect opportunity to approach her and maybe escalate from there.

 

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Yes, these were IOI's. And if it's the first time, then you lost your IOI virginity.
If: a smile, stares, and repetative looks don't count as an indicator interest or invitation signals. Then I don't know what fucking does.

If in doubt. I would assume, IOI anyways. Always giveyourself or a situation teh nenigit of the dount. Not the other way around.



This is the biggest pity of the whole story. You make "apporaching", this big thing. Now approaching is a semi "big thing", if a dude chats up a random woman in the streets. Because that's a hyper situation.
But sitting in a waiting room, and makeing chit-chat; is hardly an approach. You can make very natural-ish and even low rsk. Just some stpid chitchat could do about the waether, what reason you/she is there, etc..

Well she only smiled when I asked her the question once, but yea she is already gone.

Sounds like an obvious ioi if she is constantly glancing your way and giving you smiles, you missed the perfect opportunity to approach her and maybe escalate from there.

She didnt smile constantly btw she only did it once when I asked her the question at the beginning.

 

[Deleted member 4209]

she wants u bro

 

[eduardkoopman]

Well she only smiled when I asked her the question once, but yea she is already gone.

Don't fucking downplay approach inviation actions, like a smile. It's not "only smiled". You're to fucking high iq, being able to analyze into doubting ioi's.
Your intelligence, is kinda causing to be like this lioness in below clip. Instead of being like the lion, which is why dumb fucks can do better with women often. They see IOI, and jump. While mr. intelligent, starts to annalyze and think and ponder, and see how it might have been an accidental IOI or something like that. With dating, dumb yourself down 50%. More act, not think.

 

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Don't fucking downplay approach inviation actions, like a smile. It's not "only smiled". You're to fucking high iq, being able to analyze into doubting ioi's.
Your intelligence, is kinda causing to be like this lioness in below clip. Instead of being like the lion, which is why dumb fucks can do better with women often. They see IOI, and jump. While mr. intelligent, starts to annalyze and think and ponder, and see how it might have been an accidental IOI or something like that. With dating, dumb yourself down 50%. More act, not think.

Well I think if she didnt approach me I wasn't good enough for her. I even looked at her for long when she was passing by me to leave.

 

[eduardkoopman]

We all (and you yourself) know you don't say anything to women, because you somhow are to afraid to do that and can't puch through that fear. Stop the fucking hamsterwheele in your head, trying to feel good or reasonable about not saying something to women. It's just a way for you, to try to feel good about yourself. While all know, it's just backwards rationalising something irrational/ or bended; into something rational or straight.

Well I think if she didnt approach me I wasn't good enough for her.

Ime. Wrong thought.
All women I fucked in my entire life. If I didn't open my mouth to her; I wouldn't had. I was good enough for them to want to fuck me, at some point. So, stop thinking like that.
If you're a Chad, then women will approach (although the ones doing that, will likely be 25% lower then his looks level. (aka, Chad still needs to approached Stacy's if he wants a Stacy)) semi-regularly.
And for other men, women don't apprach much if any. Only apporach invites. Since 70% of men are nromie or below, they will never or extremely rarely will get approached. Still one could get approach inviattion, like what you got.

I even looked at her for long when she was passing by me to leave.

Men giving apporach invitations to a waoman, doesn't work unless you're a Chad. And for chad it only works, for getting women to go over to him that are actually plenty worse looking then him.


Even this fucking video. that supposedly should proof that women approach men. It kinda shows they don't, because these women chickened out and then "approached" these men later on by doing online postst and stuff. So in these cases, these women were even very attracted at these men at first sight, yet they still chickened out to go talk to the dude:


This dudes concept about when and what types of men do chat up women. Is pretty correct.
You are now in the category of a dude that will never hat up a woman. Try to move, to the group that will chat up a woman when easy and afer getting approach invistations/ioi's.And this described situation you talksed about, seemed like an easy-ish time and momemtn, to have done it:

 

[RAITEIII]

Just wanted to thanks @eduardkoopman for actually putting effort on helping my bro over.

I'd count it as ioi too, i mean you HAVE to tell.

 

[Patriot]

I will try to make it as detailed as possible.

I am waiting at psychiatrist right now and as I walked in I asked a girl (around my age, in her 20s) if anybody is inside receptionist room, and she smiled a bit because she wasn't sure, she looked flattered.

So later I went to sit somewhere and I noticed her looking at me. Then as I was looking around our eyes met again multiple times I felt like she wanted to look at me idk she wasn't really pretty, like a PSL4 I guess but I liked that she is looking at me and I kinda got attracted to her just because she looked at me multiple times.

As she was outside the doctor's room she looked at me as well. Idk how to feel now damn I was too scared to approach I wasn't sure if those were real IOIs but that eye contact with her really got my dopamine boost in for today.

Were those IOIs or am I delusional incel projecting dreams? Did I lose my IOI virginity?

@eduardkoopman what do you think man I feel so flattered right now man idk what to think I imagined in my head that this girl is gonna give me her number

Well, if she looked at you multiple times I guess she saw something interesting in you. IMHO this was an IOI.
Congrats.

 

[2peasinapod]

fully grown man crying to a doctor about his looks and getting high off a mentally ill girl who probably attempted suicide 24 hours earlier

this is why i browse here, im like ronaldo compared to the failures here

 

[Patriot]

We all (and you yourself) know you don't say anything to women, because you somhow are to afraid to do that and can't puch through that fear. Stop the fucking hamsterwheele in your head, trying to feel good or reasonable about not saying something to women. It's just a way for you, to try to feel good about yourself. While all know, it's just backwards rationalising something irrational/ or bended; into something rational or straight.

Ime. Wrong thought.
All women I fucked in my entire life. If I didn't open my mouth to her; I wouldn't had. I was good enough for them to want to fuck me, at some point. So, stop thinking like that.
If you're a Chad, then women will approach (although the ones doing that, will likely be 25% lower then his looks level. (aka, Chad still needs to approached Stacy's if he wants a Stacy)) semi-regularly.
And for other men, women don't apprach much if any. Only apporach invites. Since 70% of men are nromie or below, they will never or extremely rarely will get approached. Still one could get approach inviattion, like what you got.

I do agree, even if one girl once said (behind my back just as I went from the uni corridor) I am her "ideal type" she never approached me, althought she were giving me sings (looking, smiling, feet poiting at me etc.) Even if a girl likes someone very much she not always approach.IMHO it depends on character - some girls are shy.

 

[Tony]

Ded srs bro

ded srs ded bro

 

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fully grown man crying to a doctor about his looks and getting high off a mentally ill girl who probably attempted suicide 24 hours earlier

this is why i browse here, im like ronaldo compared to the failures here

I do agree, even if one girl once said (behind my back just as I went from the uni corridor) I am her "ideal type" she never approached me, althought she were giving me sings (looking, smiling, feet poiting at me etc.) Even if a girl likes someone very much she not always approach.IMHO it depends on character - some girls are shy.

Wow she said that? I hope you approached her? What a slayer you are

 

[Patriot]

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Wow she said that? I hope you approached her? What a slayer you are

I am not even a chad xD
Yeah, she really did. Nah I didn't approach her - I knew she has a boyfriend. She was solid 6-7/10, maybe even full 7/10. I would feel bad knowing that I am filtring with a girl that already has someone. But still she was giving me IOIs throught the uni. Maybe having a boyfriend was the reason she didn't approach me?. I chat with her few times as saw she was clearly interested in me. You know as they say: a woman is like a monkey, she will not let go of a branch until she clings to the other.

 

[bonesoverblood]

I will try to make it as detailed as possible.

I am waiting at psychiatrist right now and as I walked in I asked a girl (around my age, in her 20s) if anybody is inside receptionist room, and she smiled a bit because she wasn't sure, she looked flattered.

So later I went to sit somewhere and I noticed her looking at me. Then as I was looking around our eyes met again multiple times I felt like she wanted to look at me idk she wasn't really pretty, like a PSL4 I guess but I liked that she is looking at me and I kinda got attracted to her just because she looked at me multiple times.

As she was outside the doctor's room she looked at me as well. Idk how to feel now damn I was too scared to approach I wasn't sure if those were real IOIs but that eye contact with her really got my dopamine boost in for today.

Were those IOIs or am I delusional incel projecting dreams? Did I lose my IOI virginity?

@eduardkoopman what do you think man I feel so flattered right now man idk what to think I imagined in my head that this girl is gonna give me her number

Only valid IOIs:

Deer Stares. If she stops everything and looks at you. She looks like a deer in headlights, and won't stop until you give her an IOI or look away. No microsecond bullshit.

She talks about sex around you. This is like her excuse to lead to a hookup or something. Like she will open with: "so what kind of porn do you watch" or like some "I'm so horny" etc. The more socially acceptable the situation is, the more likely she will literally just suggest a hookup.

She just asks you to fuck her.

If she sexually touches you. I usually only go for it, when she tries to grab my thigh/crotch, or tries to sit on my lap/grinds on me at a party. Everything else is subjective.

 

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Only valid IOIs:

Deer Stares. If she stops everything and looks at you. She looks like a deer in headlights, and won't stop until you give her an IOI or look away. No microsecond bullshit.

She talks about sex around you. This is like her excuse to lead to a hookup or something. Like she will open with: "so what kind of porn do you watch" or like some "I'm so horny" etc. The more socially acceptable the situation is, the more likely she will literally just suggest a hookup.

She just asks you to fuck her.

If she sexually touches you. I usually only go for it, when she tries to grab my thigh/crotch, or tries to sit on my lap/grinds on me at a party. Everything else is subjective.

Thay is absurdly blatant IOI category tbh even biggest of autists would understand those yea I never had such thing happening