I was popular before then became a social outcast loser at age 14

[DoctorLooksmax]

I was thinking about this on the train home from workcelling today. It’s crazy how this happened so suddenly it was nearly overnight , atleast that’s how I seem to remember it. In primary school I was one of the more popular kids, people liked me, I was funny, I was quick witted even back then compared to other kids and fun and exciting to be around. Then year 7-9 of secondary school I was again quite popular, guys found me really funny, didn’t talk to girls much tbh but socialising is mainly restricted to your own gender st that ae. I’d always be having sleepovers with my mates where we’d soend all day playing sports ins the park and all night playin video games and watching funny shit on YouTube. Then all of a sudden I hit around age 14 and almost overnight (or atleast that seems how it seemed to me). People just stopped liking me. No one invited me to things anymore, I was ostracized by social circles that I was previously adored by. People started partying and I was never once invited despite being fairly cool/funny prior to these years. I went from outgoing funny kid who messed around in class to quiet shy and reclusive. Back then I assumed I had done something wrong to people to make them not like me and I spent ages trying to make amends with people I might have annoyed because I desperately wanted to be popular and feel loved again like I did before but recently it dawned on me that about 90% of the reason this happened was because I was small and non dimorphic as well as not very good looking and had a late puberty so as a result of these things people viewed me as a loser and didn’t want to be associated with me as they thought it would harm their own social status

 

[pisslord]

I was slayer in elementary school. Not even kidding.

 

[Deleted member 2119]

Happened to me around age 12. I wouldn't say I was popular, but I had no problem having friends, people that talked to me and took an interest in me. By 13-14, it was completely over. Nobody wanted to talk to me, period. I tried extracurricular activities, I played tennis at a high level, nobody gave a fuck. Because I'm ugly.

 

[chadpreetcel123]

I was always popular as in everybody knew who I was, but i still got bullied.

its over

 

[Deleted member 2100]

I was always popular as in everybody knew who I was, but i still got bullied.

statusmogs me

 

[haircutcel]

i was low inhib autist in 6th grade and below, wasn't popular or pulling bitches but didn't get bullied either and it was a fun time. something happened in 7th grade that made me more autistic and higher inhib, it's been going down ever since then and i'm now less autistic than i was before 7th grade but life is still shittier

 

[Demir]

It happened for me at 17

 

[BrettyBoy]

Being desperate to be popular is a bad idea, I see no point to it. I understand wanting to have friends but popularity is something to not let take over your life. Best to find the right type of friends.

 

[Deleted member 1560]

I was popular till I was 14 then I got betrayed by my friends motherfuckers

 

[Deleted member 1180]

I was slayer in elementary school. Not even kidding.

I Kissed More girls in that time period the the my 10,11,12,13,14,15 YRs. Actually Suifuel

I was thinking about this on the train home from workcelling today. It’s crazy how this happened so suddenly it was nearly overnight , atleast that’s how I seem to remember it. In primary school I was one of the more popular kids, people liked me, I was funny, I was quick witted even back then compared to other kids and fun and exciting to be around. Then year 7-9 of secondary school I was again quite popular, guys found me really funny, didn’t talk to girls much tbh but socialising is mainly restricted to your own gender st that ae. I’d always be having sleepovers with my mates where we’d soend all day playing sports ins the park and all night playin video games and watching funny shit on YouTube. Then all of a sudden I hit around age 14 and almost overnight (or atleast that seems how it seemed to me). People just stopped liking me. No one invited me to things anymore, I was ostracized by social circles that I was previously adored by. People started partying and I was never once invited despite being fairly cool/funny prior to these years. I went from outgoing funny kid who messed around in class to quiet shy and reclusive. Back then I assumed I had done something wrong to people to make them not like me and I spent ages trying to make amends with people I might have annoyed because I desperately wanted to be popular and feel loved again like I did before but recently it dawned on me that about 90% of the reason this happened was because I was small and non dimorphic as well as not very good looking and had a late puberty so as a result of these things people viewed me as a loser and didn’t want to be associated with me as they thought it would harm their own social status

YH man This fully sucks i'll give you that jfl. We'll atleast you haven't stooped so low and given up like incel.co fags(jfl maybe most are the high iq ones there tbh now that i think about it... JK). This isn't an incel forum NO NO NOOOO this primarily is completely a
"Mens Self-Improvement Forum"

 

[GhastlyGhoul]

I've never been loved or adored growing up. I was avoided and ignored throughout all 12 years of school. My social circle was non existent.
Nothing has changed, I still don't actually fit in. I'm 27 now.

 

[Krezo]

I was never popular. Had 1 friend throughout school and now I have none.

 

[DoctorLooksmax]

I've never been loved or adored growing up. I was avoided and ignored throughout all 12 years of school. My social circle was non existent.
Nothing has changed, I still don't actually fit in. I'm 27 now.

At uni I got into the alternative/druggy party scene quite heavily and actually really fit in with those people and feel loved and adored by groups

 

[GhastlyGhoul]

At uni I got into the alternative/druggy party scene quite heavily and actually really fit in with those people and feel loved and adored by groups

Yeah, college is a great way to meet women they say. I've thought about it, I might be able to slay once I get a hair transplant, lol.

I've tried the drug scene but it didn't end up in friendships. I was more of a drinker. I've done a crazy amount of drugs though, over 20 different types at various stages in life.
Even now I smoke like an ounce of weed every 2 weeks. (Legal in my state).

 

[DoctorLooksmax]

Yeah, college is a great way to meet women they say. I've thought about it, I might be able to slay once I get a hair transplant, lol.

I've tried the drug scene but it didn't end up in friendships. I was more of a drinker. I've done a crazy amount of drugs though, over 20 different types at various stages in life.
Even now I smoke like an ounce of weed every 2 weeks. (Legal in my state).

Well Tbf it’s not so much the seem but the social group I’ve ended up in do seem to actually love/value me which is a very good feeling for someone who struggled to fit in while in high school

 

[GhastlyGhoul]

Well Tbf it’s not so much the seem but the social group I’ve ended up in do seem to actually love/value me which is a very good feeling for someone who struggled to fit in while in high school

Well I'm glad you've had these experiences in life, that's probably really healthy for your mentality.
I bet you talk to people without any reservations.

I myself didn't have that, so now I can't connect with people face to face.

Oh well though, I'm not gonna waste more time dwelling on it. It's more productive for me to spend my time trying to looksmax and nail chicks. The past is in the past.

 

[DoctorLooksmax]

Well I'm glad you've had these experiences in life, that's probably really healthy for your mentality.
I bet you talk to people without any reservations.

I myself didn't have that, so now I can't connect with people face to face.

Oh well though, I'm not gonna waste more time dwelling on it. It's more productive for me to spend my time trying to looksmax and nail chicks. The past is in the past.

Yeah Tbf I guess my college experience has been pretty good, got one more year left, slayed a few cute girls (not many but I was pleased with the ones I did slay). Been fairly popular and well liked. I guess it’s more that age 14-17 I pine after because I wasn’t such a loser and feel like I missed out on a lot, guess I’ve made up for it somewhat

 

[GhastlyGhoul]

Yeah Tbf I guess my college experience has been pretty good, got one more year left, slayed a few cute girls (not many but I was pleased with the ones I did slay). Been fairly popular and well liked. I guess it’s more that age 14-17 I pine after because I wasn’t such a loser and feel like I missed out on a lot, guess I’ve made up for it somewhat

Most definitely man! I can't imagine feeling regret in life after getting with more than 1 hot chick.

 

[DoctorLooksmax]

Most definitely man! I can't imagine feeling regret in life after getting with more than 1 hot chick.

I meanthe chicks I got weren’t Stacy’s, but I was happy with them and I liked them which I guess is all that really matters. I’m still quite high inhib and beta looking. I guess no matter what I’ll always be a bit high inhib , growing up with smallest and weakest kid amongst your peers does that to you (although I eventually grew to nearly 6ft and I’m a gymcel soon to be roidc so I’m not small now ).