I wish college would last longer

[Prettyboy]

So easy to constantly meet new people who are the same age as you in college. Probably the easiest time to make friends and getting into relationships or slaying is so easy compared to when you finish college

I’m already in my second year of undergrad and I dread that I only have so much time left in this enviroment until I have to wageslave. People will spend all their time with their ltr / spouses and old friends will fade away

 

[Looks234]

Slaying is cope when your older anyway

 

[Deleted member 13787]

So easy to constantly meet new people who are the same age as you in college. Probably the easiest time to make friends and getting into relationships or slaying is so easy compared to when you finish college

I’m already in my second year of undergrad and I dread that I only have so much time left in this enviroment until I have to wageslave. People will spend all their time with their ltr / spouses and old friends will fade away

we dont have college here, would university be similar?
cause i think its over for me in highschool

 

[Deleted member 275]

Cant relate. 8th year of uni and got 0 friends. Another 3+ years to go

 

[Prettyboy]

we dont have college here, would university be similar?
cause i think its over for me in highschool

Isn’t it the same? I use both college and uni, Im European too

Highschool is also fantastic time to live but uni mogs it honestly. You can still be a retard without responsibility but have perks like independence from your parents

 

[Deleted member 13787]

Isn’t it the same? I use both college and uni, Im European too

Highschool is also fantastic time to live but uni mogs it honestly. You can still be a retard without responsibility but have perks like independence from your parents

its over for me in highschool cause im already for 3 years with the same class and no friends, i doubt i can make any at this point
im hoping to fully ascend until uni, and make all my friends then, and hopefully get my gf then if dont do it before (unfortunately very likely)

 

[Enfant terrible]

last year undergrad
iam outcast but dont really care
will do gradschool/master afterwards

 

[studiocel]

just fail your classes

 

[Prettyboy]

its over for me in highschool cause im already for 3 years with the same class and no friends, i doubt i can make any at this point
im hoping to fully ascend until uni, and make all my friends then, and hopefully get my gf then if dont do it before (unfortunately very likely)

Might sound bluepilled but don’t give up. You can’t choose who your classmates are in highscool and its only like two dozen ppl

In university even the few aspie CS major friends I know managed to make at least a few friends. Instead of the two dozen same face for years its thousands upon thousands of constant new people in uni, literally impossible to not make friends if you actually go out instead of rotting at home

 

[Prettyboy]

Cant relate. 8th year of uni and got 0 friends. Another 3+ years to go

At least you aren’t still enrolling in freshman courses. Or are you?

 

[Prettyboy]

just fail your classes

Legit idea honestly but I can only do that once or twice

Society expects you to finish uni by your mid 20s the latest, you will be forever left behind if you play your cards wrong

 

[Deleted member 15129]

College is basically the last bastion of where you can make friends/relationships. It's the last place you are forced to be in situations with people similar to your age. Work comes after, but it's a lot harder tbh.

Fuck bros I'm not ready for the rest of my life

 

[Prettyboy]

last year undergrad
iam outcast but dont really care
will do gradschool/master afterwards

What’s your major?

Maybe I’m delusional but masters just doesnt sound the same tbh

Freshman undergrad is probably supposed to be the peak

 

[studiocel]

Cant relate. 8th year of uni and got 0 friends. Another 3+ years to go

8 years? Damn bro.

 

[AlexAP]

Slaying is cope when your older anyway

Wdym when you aren't in a LTR it's better to slay than being celibate.

 

[TUSSELEIF]

Cant relate. 8th year of uni and got 0 friends. Another 3+ years to go

Probably not that big of a deal to be older at uni in Europe. Idk how it is in the Netherlands, but here in Norway there’s a lot of people above 25 studying at uni

 

[MikeMew'sBitch]

The only social circle i ever had was in university and it was the only time i ever had something one can consider "friends". It was big group of 10 people sometimes even more, made of both men and women. We would go outside every weekend, drink and do stupid shit it was more fun than highschool tbh. When in social circle you can do whatever you want, everybody knows you well and theres no need to pretend or shit, everyone knew i was non NT but nobody gave a shit we would still do fun shit all the time. After it ended and everyone went back to their hometowns it was depressing af

 

[Deleted member 7725]

Can't relate. Been in college for 3 years and haven't made a single friend or even had a reciprocal conversation with a girl. Completely over.

 

[Prettyboy]

The only social circle i ever had was in university and it was the only time i ever had something one can consider "friends". It was big group of 10 people sometimes even more, made of both men and women. We would go outside every weekend, drink and do stupid shit it was more fun than highschool tbh. When in social circle you can do whatever you want, everybody knows you well and theres no need to pretend or shit, everyone knew i was non NT but nobody gave a shit we would still do fun shit all the time. After it ended and everyone went back to their hometowns it was depressing af

Going out with a group instantly kills any kind of inhibition. Even if Im not drunk when Im with my mates I completely stop caring about what strangers think of me / us

Over if you are a lone wolf

 

[Deleted member 7725]

How'd you become friends with them? Did you live in the same dorm or something? I've been living at home for the past 3 years of college and might live on campus for my last year. Made 0 friends so far.

 

[Deleted member 756]

How'd you become friends with them? Did you live in the same dorm or something? I've been living at home for the past 3 years of college and might live on campus for my last year. Made 0 friends so far.

You go to socials and events and speak to people. Introduce yourself and see what happens

 

[EverythingMattersCel]

How'd you become friends with them? Did you live in the same dorm or something? I've been living at home for the past 3 years of college and might live on campus for my last year. Made 0 friends so far.

Tbh, it's not that hard to make "acquaintances" at university. You need to hit as many social events as possible.

I went to plenty in the final term of my undergrad (wasted the prior 2.5 years due to COVID + NEETing) and people will talk to you. Becoming close friends is a different story though. I made many social mistakes and acted like an insecure sperg at times, but still most people were nice to me (they were probably saying stuff behind my back though). I feel like after more social opportunities I would have integrated.

I'm starting postgrad in January and plan on using the whole year to socialise (attend many societies, events etc). Got a lot of phenibut and a new attitude that I adopted from my previous experiences.

 

[Deleted member 7725]

Tbh, it's not that hard to make "acquaintances" at university. You need to hit as many social events as possible.

I went to plenty in the final term of my undergrad (wasted the prior 2.5 years due to COVID + NEETing) and people will talk to you. Becoming close friends is a different story though. I made many social mistakes and acted like an insecure sperg at times, but still most people were nice to me (they were probably saying stuff behind my back though). I feel like after more social opportunities I would have integrated.

I'm starting postgrad in January and plan on using the whole year to socialise (attend many societies, events etc). Got a lot of phenibut and a new attitude that I adopted from my previous experiences.

Does Phenibut work for you? Planning on trying it but not sure if it's worth it or not.

 

[coolguy1]

So easy to constantly meet new people who are the same age as you in college. Probably the easiest time to make friends and getting into relationships or slaying is so easy compared to when you finish college

I’m already in my second year of undergrad and I dread that I only have so much time left in this enviroment until I have to wageslave. People will spend all their time with their ltr / spouses and old friends will fade away

How do u go from being friends in school to being friends outside of school? I never have a problem making friends in school, I'll never sit alone, but how do I go from that to doing something with them outside of school?

 

[Deleted member 7725]

How do u go from being friends in school to being friends outside of school? I never have a problem making friends in school, I'll never sit alone, but how do I go from that to doing something with them outside of school?

Same. I've been able to be cool with guys in class but then never hang with them outside of class.

 

[EverythingMattersCel]

Does Phenibut work for you? Planning on trying it but not sure if it's worth it or not.

It felt like 1/4 of MDMA. The difference was very subtle (no euphoria) but I have never mixed it with alcohol. Also, I only tried like 1g. I'm saving it for my final year of study... so can't comment. With the right mindset, dosage + alcohol I reckon it can turn otherwise shy/introverts NT.

Good thing about phenibut is that no one can tell you are using it. Your pupils will dilate a bit but you will just look like a confident guy having a good time.

 

[Need2Ascend]

So easy to constantly meet new people who are the same age as you in college. Probably the easiest time to make friends and getting into relationships or slaying is so easy compared to when you finish college

I’m already in my second year of undergrad and I dread that I only have so much time left in this enviroment until I have to wageslave. People will spend all their time with their ltr / spouses and old friends will fade away

Arent you a 6'3 Chad lol

Uni can give you way more opportunities than highschool tbh but also requires better looks

 

[russwestbrook]

Same. I've been able to be cool with guys in class but then never hang with them outside of class.

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