If you don't approach anyone IRL as a sub-HTN you're fucked tbh

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Unless you're willing to fuck landwhales on OLD / social media.
 
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You will have to approach her sooner or later no matter what you look like, as a girl can only be attracted to you up to a point, at which point she will want to see desire and most importantly, commitment from you..

Everything on social media transfers into real life anyway, where girls at that point tend to be the most disappointed because the man of their dreams is most likely an awkward weirdo who, precisely because he's shit, spends all day online talking to random girls, instead of already having a girl in real life and taking care of his shit and life with her..

For those who are average or below, a girl will still have to find you attractive for you to approach her and be successful, so yeah, good luck with that..
 
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You will have to approach her sooner or later no matter what you look like, as a girl can only be attracted to you up to a point, at which point she will want to see desire and most importantly, commitment from you..

Everything on social media transfers into real life anyway, where girls at that point tend to be the most disappointed because the man of their dreams is most likely an awkward weirdo who, precisely because he's shit, spends all day online talking to random girls, instead of already having a girl in real life and taking care of his shit and life with her..

For those who are average or below, a girl will still have to find you attractive for you to approach her and be successful, so yeah, good luck with that..
I'm never gonna approach a girl. It's so over for me. Even if I get signals (and I have before) I'll never make the first move.

Regarding your bottom point, tbh it's only uglier 'approach' GL guys. So it's over for mentalcels too.
 
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It is easy to approach girls, I dont find it difficult.
 
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btw guys, 'OLD' is slang for 'online dating'. It's a shorter way of saying it but only cool people can say it. Kinda like calc which is short for calculator (only cool people can say it).
 
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I'll never make the first move.
At my first job ever, I had a girl coworker who, because I gave her relatively mixed feelings and behavior, turned her into being obsessed with me (she was HTN, even close to stacylite compared to the avg looking girl in my country, who was approached almost daily by new guys, so she wasn't used to rejection).

She looked very similar to Lima, but with much better hair, chin and forehead, but with brown eyes and much shorter height and a little fat, to the point where my lack of decision and commitment frustrated her so much that she had 2 other co-workers (who were in the same university class as her) ask me if "I don't want a girlfriend, because everyone wants one", because "they have one for me" while she watched the whole conversation..
 
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At my first job ever, I had a girl coworker who, because I gave her relatively mixed feelings and behavior, turned her into being obsessed with me (she was HTN, even close to stacylite compared to the avg looking girl in my country, who was approached almost daily by new guys, so she wasn't used to rejection).

She looked very similar to Lima, but with much better hair, chin and forehead, but with brown eyes and much shorter height and a little fat, to the point where my lack of decision and commitment frustrated her so much that she had 2 other co-workers (who were in the same university class as her) ask me if "I don't want a girlfriend, because everyone wants one", because "they have one for me" while she watched the whole conversation..
What did you do? I know myself. Tbh I still wouldn't approach her.
 
What did you do? I know myself. Tbh I still wouldn't approach her.
I told them I didn't need (I really didn't need at that time of life, shit was going on in the background) and to mind their own business because it's not their business to search for / get me girlfriend (just a little bit of non NT behavior on my part at that time.. if I look back now at that episode..) and they understood..

In the meantime, the relationship between me and that girl cooled down after she even invited me to go to the supermarket together after work etc. and she kept seeing me canceling / dodging / not wanting / not doing anything in that obvious direction.. (she thought I was just too dumb to notice her signals or some shit, to the point where she even had to tell me to go out with her..) lol..
 
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I told them I didn't need (I really didn't need at that time of life, shit was going on in the background) and to mind their own business because it's not their business to search for / get me girlfriend (just a little bit of non NT behavior on my part at that time.. if I look back now at that episode..) and they understood..

In the meantime, the relationship between me and that girl cooled down after she even invited me to go to the supermarket together after work etc. and she kept seeing me canceling / dodging / not wanting / not doing anything in that obvious direction.. (she thought I was just too dumb to notice her signals or some shit, to the point where she even had to tell me to go out with her..) lol..
Obviously all of this happened because of your looks and would never happen to the average dude
 
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Unless you're willing to fuck landwhales on OLD / social media.
Even htns ngl, if they're ethnic, low trust or short. Not all HTNs are made equal. Zenis mentioned that in a thread I made
 
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It is easy to approach girls, I dont find it difficult.

Easy to approach hard to pick them up and date them
 
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It is easy to approach girls, I dont find it difficult.
Mirin low inhib bhai. I had a foid tell me her htb friend had a crush on me and i never did anything about that i wish i was low inhib
 
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Unless you're willing to fuck landwhales on OLD / social media.
It took me 3+ months to muster up the confidence to approach my oneitis.

I will stick to doing nothing and praying a MTB+ falls out of the sky for me.
 
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It took me 3+ months to muster up the confidence to approach my oneitis.
Never approach the best looking girl. She has too many orbitors even in real life.
I will stick to doing nothing and praying a MTB+ falls out of the sky for me.
You will keep waiting til you're nearly 30 like me.
 
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It is easy to approach but is not easy to keep a conversation going without making it awkward
 
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Never approach the best looking girl. She has too many orbitors even in real life.

You will keep waiting til you're nearly 30 like me.
This one wasn't the best looking girl and she didn't have orbiters I might of just fumbled by acting spergy idk

What do I do then... women are much too scary
 
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This one wasn't the best looking girl and she didn't have orbiters I might of just fumbled by acting spergy idk

What do I do then... women are much too scary
Slide their DMs. That's the next best thing you can do.
 
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Never approach the best looking girl. She has too many orbitors even in real life.

You will keep waiting til you're nearly 30 like me.
this makes me regret not taking that chance i had with a htb even more :feelswhy:
 
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I wouldve been the happiest man alive if approach anxiety didn't own me
 
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Slide their DMs. That's the next best thing you can do.
I need to NTmaxx by talking to women first. Kill the fodder enemies first, level up before taking on the boss. This strat is risky though
 
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btw guys, 'OLD' is slang for 'online dating'. It's a shorter way of saying it but only cool people can say it. Kinda like calc which is short for calculator (only cool people can say it).
reddit tier post
 

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