If you lose frame in a relationship what’s the best thing to do?

[dancs]

Ignore it ever happened? Continue like whatever bitch behaviour didn’t even happen?

Ignore her? Act like you did the bitch behaviour to drive her away purposely?

Or just apologise? ( guessing this is definitive not the correct one. )

 

[Deleted member 25223]

Ignore it ever happened? Continue like whatever bitch behaviour didn’t even happen?

Ignore her? Act like you did the bitch behaviour to drive her away purposely?

Or just apologise? ( guessing this is definitive not the correct one. )

punishment

 

[Deleted member 26642]

Your real personality slipped through...

 

[Gaygymmaxx]

Pull back your shoulders and take a deep breath in your chest, and just remember to hold frame next time.

 

[Gaygymmaxx]

Bluds prego

 

[dancs]

Your real personality slipped through...

How do I fix this or cover it up

 

[dancs]

Pull back your shoulders and take a deep breath in your chest, and just remember to hold frame next time.

I know.

I fucked up.

 

[MEMPSK]

What actually happened if you don't mind divulging? Or, near enough to understand

 

[dancs]

What actually happened if you don't mind divulging? Or, near enough to understand

I got pissed at my girlfriend for her rejecting sex until I booked us a holiday ( she is paying her own half so not betabux )

I walked out on her ass

Started saying shit like has she lost attraction or what over text

I feel like saying this shit was beta and an emotional response was stupid

Everything is fine now and back to sex

 

[Ethniframementalcel]

Ignore it ever happened? Continue like whatever bitch behaviour didn’t even happen?

Ignore her? Act like you did the bitch behaviour to drive her away purposely?

Or just apologise? ( guessing this is definitive not the correct one. )

ghost

 

[dreamcake1mo]

Modern relationships are a guise. Its deceptive in nature. The whole "girlfriend" boyfriend thing is a kid concept that matured into a cult. Its commitmitless commitment, and is not a deal of equivalent exchange. Its also very risky as anyone can pull out at anytime with no consequence.

I mean, you weren't wrong to get mad. But the reason its cuck is because you should know yourself how childish the entire relationship is. You are not married, and the terms and conditions of marriage far surpass this thing you call a girlfriend, so your put in a place where you know the behavior of withholding herself because of a vacation is fucked up, materialistic, selfish, or at the very least suspicious etc. in a "marriage inspired relationship" , yet also aware of the terms and conditions of this "modern" relationship are temporary at best. Hence why your aware your behavior was "not cool to her" or weak for a man to do. Because you know. A strong alpha chad or whatever ~would be living and interacting with her as if she's actually temporary, just like the relationship calls for.

His women dont use sex as a leverage to get what she wants. This is cuck 101. No, he culls his women by going through many women and picking the most submissive. "He" would see that threat as a bad joke while calling up his other sidepiece (his next girlfriend). Its like a fastfood server withholding your meal unless you call them master. Youd get that clown out of your face and speak to the manager for your refund. Id bet you then the server would quickly get their shit together.

The post behavior shows dependency because of this. Something that is temporary is bound to be left. Yet, you cant leave. You informally accepted the terms and conditions. The slave contract. She has you roped by the neck. Whats the precedent? When your not doing what she wants you to do she will use sex or such to get what she wants. And you will comply like a used and abused dog. Usually in most cuck stories the women becomes aware of this either consciously or subconsciously and thus she will get more persistent with this behavior (as something unchecked like this will never disappear, either reappear or get worst overtime). Ultimately its a inner conflict of if you want to marry a chick like this or let her go. And with how things are today (social media propaganda, feminism, OLD, inflated smv of women, hypergamy), the odds of marriage are not on your side. So what are you waiting for? Do what you have to do.

 

[dancs]

Modern relationships are a guise. Its deceptive in nature. The whole "girlfriend" boyfriend thing is a kid concept that matured into a cult. Its commitmitless commitment, and is not a deal of equivalent exchange. Its also very risky as anyone can pull out at anytime with no consequence.

I mean, you weren't wrong to get mad. But the reason its cuck is because you should know yourself how childish the entire relationship is. You are not married, and the terms and conditions of marriage far surpass this thing you call a girlfriend, so your put in a place where you know the behavior of withholding herself because of a vacation is fucked up, materialistic, selfish, or at the very least suspicious etc. in a "marriage inspired relationship" , yet also aware of the terms and conditions of this "modern" relationship are temporary at best. Hence why your aware your behavior was "not cool to her" or weak for a man to do. Because you know. A strong alpha chad or whatever ~would be living and interacting with her as if she's actually temporary, just like the relationship calls for.

His women dont use sex as a leverage to get what she wants. This is cuck 101. No, he culls his women by going through many women and picking the most submissive. "He" would see that threat as a bad joke while calling up his other sidepiece (his next girlfriend). Its like a fastfood server withholding your meal unless you call them master. Youd get that clown out of your face and speak to the manager for your refund. Id bet you then the server would quickly get their shit together.

The post behavior shows dependency because of this. Something that is temporary is bound to be left. Yet, you cant leave. You informally accepted the terms and conditions. The slave contract. She has you roped by the neck. Whats the precedent? When your not doing what she wants you to do she will use sex or such to get what she wants. And you will comply like a used and abused dog. Usually in most cuck stories the women becomes aware of this either consciously or subconsciously and thus she will get more persistent with this behavior (as something unchecked like this will never disappear, either reappear or get worst overtime). Ultimately its an inner conflict of if you want to marry a chick like this or let her go. And with how things are today (social media propaganda, feminism, OLD, inflated smv of women, hypergamy), the odds of marriage are not on your side. So what are you waiting for? Do what you have to do.

chill bro we have been together since I was 16 and she was 15

I set boundaries she’s not allowed make interaction either on social media or in friends and made it clear I will leave her once another man becomes in any way in the relationship

I understand importance of frame maintaining in a relationship