I'm officially a 27 year old dateless khhv now

[Gengar]

 

[phookmumb]

Slayer

 

[Deleted member 21700]

Happy Birthday

 

[Gengar]

Happy Birthday

Thanks bhai, I see you're 27 too?

 

[Deleted member 16960]

Only true wife exists in jannah

 

[Deleted member 16194]

 

[Deleted member 24586]

Happy birthday
Inshallah you get paki tradwife

 

[Gengar]

Only true wife exists in jannah

Kinh being a true king as always.

 

[Gengar]

Happy Birthday

Happy birthday
Inshallah you get paki tradwife

I forgot to mention I turned 27 a bit earlier, it's not my birthday right now. On my birthday I was sleeping the entire day like a true rotmaxxer. But thanks, and @SaintOverBuddyBoyo same to you, ameen~~!

 

[Deleted member 17531]

happy late birthday

 

[Gengar]

happy late birthday

Thanks bhai.

 

[Deleted member 21077]

are you actually being serious?

 

[Deleted member 21077]

my birthday was a few days ago too we are Capricorns!

 

[Gengar]

are you actually being serious?

Yes bhai, I'm 100% serious. Dedly srs.

my birthday was a few days ago too we are Capricorns!

Sounds about right, Capricorn gang. Belated happy birthday to you.

 

[Deleted member 17872]

@Anstrum95 you have some company

 

[Gengar]

@Anstrum95 you have some company

Anstrum aka Baltic bhai (once he drops the islamophobia).

 

[Deleted member 17872]

Anstrum aka Baltic bhai (once he drops the islamophobia).

@Anstrum95 are you anti-semetic also?

 

[Deleted member 19174]

Brutal life yakkhi. I wish you the best.

 

[Deleted member 16371]

Brutal why haven’t you got an arranged marriage yet?

 

[Gengar]

Brutal life yakkhi. I wish you the best.

Thanks bhai.

 

[Gengar]

Brutal why haven’t you got an arranged marriage yet?

I'm too ugly for that. Even in arranged marriages they look for good-looking faces or at least average which I am not. Not to mention I'm also a neet. I have no degree, no income. Recently got a part-time job though but there's very little to do, so I'd be lucky to work two hours a week, right now there's nothing I can work on so it's pretty dead for now. So I'm also broke, lmfao.

 

[JohnDoe]

Not like this... happy birthday.

 

[Gengar]

Not like this... happy birthday.

Thanks bhai but my birthday was a bit earlier, I was sleeping the entire day on my birthday like a true rotmaxxer.

 

[Deleted member 16371]

I'm too ugly for that. Even in arranged marriages they look for good-looking faces or at least average which I am not. Not to mention I'm also a neet. I have no degree, no income. Recently got a part-time job though but there's very little to do, so I'd be lucky to work two hours a week, right now there's nothing I can work on so it's pretty dead for now. So I'm also broke, lmfao.

Do you think I could get an arranged marriage but keep her there in Pakistan ?

 

[Deleted member 16371]

Do you think I could get an arranged marriage but keep her there in Pakistan ?

As long as I give her money and look after her I’ll come every year for a couple months….?

 

[stevielake]

At least you’re not NEETING anymore. Money is a really good cope I need to start moneymaxximg again.

 

[JohnDoe]

As long as I give her money and look after her I’ll come every year for a couple months….?

Doesn't work like that, the girl moves in with you after marriage.

 

[Deleted member 16371]

Doesn't work like that, the girl moves in with you after marriage.

Shiiiiieeeet I know some people who keep their wife in Pakistan ……? No?

 

[Gengar]

Do you think I could get an arranged marriage but keep her there in Pakistan ?

I honestly doubt it's gonna work. Everyone in the modern age brings them here, that's pretty much a requirement for them. The only person I know who has a wife in Pakistan is a senior man (he's 70) but it's also his second wife (to bear him children). So that's the older generation only. You'll be lucky to find someone who agrees to that proposition though but it's unheard of from my knowledge. :/

 

[Gengar]

As long as I give her money and look after her I’ll come every year for a couple months….?

That's difficult, how are you going to visit for a couple of months? Due to work you'll have to stay where you are and can't go overseas. That's why everyone brings their wives if they get married from there to here. Maybe it could work if you marry your cousin since you can help your parents put some pressure? But otherwise seems impossible.

 

[Gengar]

At least you’re not NEETING anymore. Money is a really good cope I need to start moneymaxximg again.

Well technically I choose my own working hours and it's just a computer job, so I feel pretty much like a neet. But yeah I get what you're saying though I can't really make money off of this, it's minimum wage only plus I get like what, 2 hours of work a week if I'm lucky, that means I just get 80 euros/month which is nothing.

 

[Gengar]

Shiiiiieeeet I know some people who keep their wife in Pakistan ……? No?

Older generation + it's in the family. So you are down to marry your cousin? Might work in that case, otherwise impossible.

 

[JohnDoe]

Shiiiiieeeet I know some people who keep their wife in Pakistan ……? No?

The girl and her family will expect you to move her to the west asap

 

[DarkLoner94]

Join the club am a 28 yr old khhv it ain't easy I tell you.

 

[ReadBooksEveryday]

Tales from the sewers of Wembley

 

[Deleted member 16474]

@Anstrum95 you have some company

I am not dateless

 

[Deleted member 16371]

Older generation + it's in the family. So you are down to marry your cousin? Might work in that case, otherwise impossible.

The girl and her family will expect you to move her to the west asap

I’ll try it out and ask my parents by summer but if they don’t agree to her staying there I’m just going to…… well……

 

[user1728482728]

The first step is realizing there is a problem! So you’ve got a starting point, which is good! The next step is to remind yourself that NO ONE can cause you to behave any certain way except for yourself. It sucks getting rejected but that’s a part of life.

“You can be the ripest, juiciest peach in the world, and there's still going to be somebody who hates peaches.”

Just because you are not someone’s cup of tea doesn’t mean that you aren’t right for someone else. No one can make you feel any way about yourself unless you give them that power over you. Focus on things that you can positively change, like maybe try a new outfit or new cologne. Work on feeling better about yourself. Little steps are absolutely okay!

You need to stop saying you’re ugly or your personality is bad. Remind yourself of things you like about yourself. Don’t get into that mindset that you can’t change. You’re not a static character. Who cares if someone thought you were ugly 5 years ago, I know it’s rough to hear and can make you feel bad, but she ain’t worth your time if she feels the need to put you down.

I know it’s hard but you got this!

 

[ReadBooksEveryday]

I am not dateless

You are a dateless virgin subhuman

 

[Gengar]

The girl and her family will expect you to move her to the west asap

Yep, very true. I mean.. that's your entire selling point anyway; if you're at least average they won't care for your looks but just your passport. That's why @FailedNormieManlet is against arranged marriages and I assume @SecularIslamist also. But I think FNM is just a murtadcuck whereas SI is at least Islamic.

 

[Gengar]

Join the club am a 28 yr old khhv it ain't easy I tell you.

Preach, brother, preach. Can you tell me how you cope? Feel free to PM.

 

[Gengar]

The first step is realizing there is a problem! So you’ve got a starting point, which is good! The next step is to remind yourself that NO ONE can cause you to behave any certain way except for yourself. It sucks getting rejected but that’s a part of life.

“You can be the ripest, juiciest peach in the world, and there's still going to be somebody who hates peaches.”

Just because you are not someone’s cup of tea doesn’t mean that you aren’t right for someone else. No one can make you feel any way about yourself unless you give them that power over you. Focus on things that you can positively change, like maybe try a new outfit or new cologne. Work on feeling better about yourself. Little steps are absolutely okay!

You need to stop saying you’re ugly or your personality is bad. Remind yourself of things you like about yourself. Don’t get into that mindset that you can’t change. You’re not a static character. Who cares if someone thought you were ugly 5 years ago, I know it’s rough to hear and can make you feel bad, but she ain’t worth your time if she feels the need to put you down.

I know it’s hard but you got this!

Some quality advice in here which is 100% true; "no one can make you feel any way about yourself unless you give them that power over you," hits close to home since I got rejected by my oneitis and it put me in a deep depression. Thanks for the nice words (even if it's copypasta).

 

[JohnDoe]

Yep, very true. I mean.. that's your entire selling point anyway; if you're at least average they won't care for your looks but just your passport. That's why @FailedNormieManlet is against arranged marriages and I assume @SecularIslamist also. But I think FNM is just a murtadcuck whereas SI is at least Islamic.

Exactly, our passport is their ticket out of a 3rd world country, my personal experience with people who have come over to the west is that they are almost always disappointed, they expect so much but when they see the reality it's brutal for them.

 

[Gengar]

I’ll try it out and ask my parents by summer but if they don’t agree to her staying there I’m just going to…… well……

So you're going for your cousin bhai? Let me know how it goes.

 

[Gengar]

Exactly, our passport is their ticket out of a 3rd world country, my personal experience with people who have come over to the west is that they are almost always disappointed, they expect so much but when they see the reality it's brutal for them.

I have no experiences with this but can you elaborate?

 

[Deleted member 16371]

So you're going for your cousin bhai? Let me know how it goes.

Basically my uncle and aunty divorced once she got permanent residency in uk so I just don’t want that happening to me. Idc I’m not bringing her over

 

[Deleted member 17872]

I am not dateless

Not something to brag about.

You must be utter subhuman to get a date but not get a kiss

 

[Gengar]

Basically my uncle and aunty divorced once she got permanent residency in uk so I just don’t want that happening to me. Idc I’m not bringing her over

Well then you're gonna have to find a woman here.. UNLESS you will go for a cousin or another family member who's close because they could be persuaded by your parents. Though I think your parents would also be against it, because what South Asian mothers and fathers want is their daughter to be with their in-laws and the in-laws feel the same way, in this case they'd be your parents.

 

[Deleted member 6305]

Why don't you just arranged marriaged Max?mm

 

[Gengar]

Why don't you just arranged marriaged Max?mm

I explained it to someone else who asked the same question:

I'm too ugly for that. Even in arranged marriages they look for good-looking faces or at least average which I am not. Not to mention I'm also a neet. I have no degree, no income. Recently got a part-time job though but there's very little to do, so I'd be lucky to work two hours a week, right now there's nothing I can work on so it's pretty dead for now. So I'm also broke, lmfao.