Is it bad to text girl after date is planned?

[Ken]

I setup a date with a girl this Friday but she is still texting me. Should I ghost her until Friday, try to end the text conversation, or just keep texting her?

Im scared of saying something that will turn her off but if I ghost her im scared shell forget about me or think I dont care.

She's the most attractive HQNP girl that has agreed to a date with me so far. Shes on par with my oneitis.

 

[ReadBooksEveryday]

Jfl at incel mentality thinking 10 hours on every little move over a woman

 

[thereallegend]

Not keeping rapport might mean she'll flake

But saying something to turn her off will make her flake

 

[Virgin at 29 😔]

I setup a date with a girl this Friday but she is still texting me. Should I ghost her until Friday, try to end the text conversation, or just keep texting her?

Im scared of saying something that will turn her off but if I ghost her im scared shell forget about me or think I dont care.

She's the most attractive HQNP girl that has agreed to a date with me so far. Shes on par with my oneitis.

With 1 girl i talked daily and we really hit it off on chat. She couldn’t wait to see me. Depends on the girl but i would just write a bit cuz she can stilö flake even if u chat

 

[Untrinsic]

what kind of autistic post is this . you barely know her, if you don't talk to her for days she'll lose interest

 

[Downey]

I miss your oneitis stories. I used to follow them weekly like soap opera

 

[Ken]

I miss your oneitis stories. I used to follow them weekly like soap opera

I havent seen her in 2 months. I just said hi and bye. Last time we had a conversation was 4 months ago when she rejected me. I will probably see her again this week.

I miss her so much

 

[Ken]

With 1 girl i talked daily and we really hit it off on chat. She couldn’t wait to see me. Depends on the girl but i would just write a bit cuz she can stilö flake even if u chat

what kind of autistic post is this . you barely know her, if you don't talk to her for days she'll lose interest

Ill keep texting her then. With all the girls who flaked I didnt text them at all after setting up the date. This could be my chance at ascencion.

 

[Deleted member 7580]

How old are you op ?

 

[alien]

I setup a date with a girl this Friday but she is still texting me. Should I ghost her until Friday, try to end the text conversation, or just keep texting her?

Im scared of saying something that will turn her off but if I ghost her im scared shell forget about me or think I dont care.

She's the most attractive HQNP girl that has agreed to a date with me so far. Shes on par with my oneitis.

The whole "don't text until the date" thing from PUA is complete bullshit.
You need to build rapport with her. My ex and I would text every day and also talk on the phone before we met.
And then after I slept with them, my exes hated it when I wouldn't text them for like 3 days. "Why haven't you texted me in 3 days?" "Why don't you ever call?" Two of my exes criticized me on the exact same thing!

 

[Chadeep]

How old are you op ?

Doesn't matter he's a Filipino.

 

[Ken]

Doesn't matter he's a Filipino.

I am not

 

[Ken]

How old are you op ?

20's

 

[Ken]

The whole "don't text until the date" thing from PUA is complete bullshit.
You need to build rapport with her. My ex and I would text every day and also talk on the phone before we met.
And then after I slept with them, my exes hated it when I wouldn't text them for like 3 days. "Why haven't you texted me in 3 days?" "Why don't you ever call?" Two of my exes criticized me on the exact same thing!

Yeah I regret doing that. Now that I think about it the only girls that have ever shown up to a date are girls who I talked to a lot irl before asking them our or if it was a short interaction I texted them a lot.

 

[darkness97]

don't overthink it and do as you please. you're already obsessing over insignificant details.

if it were me I would probably not text her, other than make a confirmation. but that is just because I don't like texting or communicating over the phone.

don't be afraid of losing her and that will set you free.

 

[Deleted member 7580]

20's

man you seem pretty inexperienced for 20s

 

[Ken]

man you seem pretty inexperienced for 20s

Im a kissless virgin. I was extremely high-inhib in my teens. In highschool girls would come up to me to start conversations, I was so high-inhib I would answer all their questions with short one word answers. Im pretty sure they thought I was retarded after that.

 

[Deleted member 9801]

Ideally u want to arrange date not too far ahead so then u wont have to text much anyways

 

[Ken]

Ideally u want to arrange date not too far ahead so then u wont have to text much anyways

I usually set them 2-4 days ahead

 

[Afrikancel]

I setup a date with a girl this Friday but she is still texting me. Should I ghost her until Friday, try to end the text conversation, or just keep texting her?

Im scared of saying something that will turn her off but if I ghost her im scared shell forget about me or think I dont care.

She's the most attractive HQNP girl that has agreed to a date with me so far. Shes on par with my oneitis.

Send voice notes rather than texts bro. Then make fun of her voice and get her to say certain things. Its a good icebreekaer. Then when u meet you can be like “oh you sound differect” blah blah blah “telephone voice” ect

 

[germanlooks]

Ghosting her would be the worst mistake. She would think that you lost interest and with that will probably ghost you as well on the date

 

[isis_Bleach]

I setup a date with a girl this Friday but she is still texting me. Should I ghost her until Friday, try to end the text conversation, or just keep texting her?

Im scared of saying something that will turn her off but if I ghost her im scared shell forget about me or think I dont care.

She's the most attractive HQNP girl that has agreed to a date with me so far. Shes on par with my oneitis.

Bro if she’s texting u and is kinda clingy to u that’s terra good
Anyway you’re gonna have to speak to her one way or another bro maybe u will say smth bad but just do ur best she already likes u

 

[Ken]

Bro if she’s texting u and is kinda clingy to u that’s terra good
Anyway you’re gonna have to speak to her one way or another bro maybe u will say smth bad but just do ur best she already likes u

She flaked on me but offered to reschedule. I asked her to facetime

 

[isis_Bleach]

She flaked on me but offered to reschedule. I asked her to facetime

Hopefully it goes well for u bro
R u looking ltr and love or just slays

 

[Ken]

Hopefully it goes well for u bro
R u looking ltr and love or just slays

Im going for LTR with a young girl first. If it fails then I just want slays.

 

[Deleted member 16944]

Can anyone confirm if @Ken is Asian? He keeps avoiding the question