Is it normal that girls cancel date last minute?

[Virgin at 29 😔]

Had date planned today but she said she needs to help her mom so she can’t make it. Shes online since then. Is this normal? Did she found chad?

Also girl i lost vcard to stopped chatting with me. She responds but doesnt ask anything back. Stopped chatting to her

English Date tomorrow planned with a russian girl (@the BULL) but now im worried if she will cancel.

Fuck this is depressing ngl

 

[hebbewem]

Yeah it is super common. Majority of dates will be canceld

 

[Deleted member 18849]

Yes dude. They do it. The less often the more brave they are as a group so to speak or the better looking you are.

@Virgin at 29 😔 check the edit

 

[Virgin at 29 😔]

Yeah it is super common. Majority of dates will be canceld

Why they do this?

 

[Virgin at 29 😔]

Yes dude. They do it

Why? Cuz im not chad? Or im ethnic?

 

[PrinceLuenLeoncur]

Why? Cuz im not chad? Or im ethnic?

Both

 

[Deleted member 9801]

Bruv it’s well known fact, girls flake a lot

Dating is numbers game regardless of looks level..some girls are online for validation only

 

[Virgin at 29 😔]

Bruv it’s well known fact, girls flake a lot

Dating is numbers game regardless of looks level..some girls are online for validation only

yea but even after exchanging numbers and shit? Why invest so much

 

[AlexBrown84]

Never had a girl flake

I’ve flaked before but never the girl

Low t trait

 

[Deleted member 9801]

yea but even after exchanging numbers and shit? Why invest so much

they just lose interest, not necessarily your fault g…u can’t explain the female brain, it’s not rational

 

[Virgin at 29 😔]

Never had a girl flake

I’ve flaked before but never the girl

Low t trait

U r rich chad

 

[AlexBrown84]

U r rich chad

I literally owe 123k to the irs how am I rich xD

 

[Deleted member 20297]

Had date planned today but she said she needs to help her mom so she can’t make it. Shes online since then. Is this normal? Did she found chad?

Also girl i lost vcard to stopped chatting with me. She responds but doesnt ask anything back. Stopped chatting to her

English Date tomorrow planned with a russian girl (@the BULL) but now im worried if she will cancel.

Fuck this is depressing ngl

She's trolling u

 

[Amnesia]

all the time, it is what it is

literally have a date planned out all week, texting every day, sending pics snaps back and forth flirty stuff.

Then on the day of the date "oo sorry, forgot I am hanging with my girls tonight"


.......


not even like offering another day shes free

 

[Virgin at 29 😔]

all the time, it is what it is

literally have a date planned out all week, texting every day, sending pics snaps back and forth flirty stuff.

Then on the day of the date "oo sorry, forgot I am hanging with my girls tonight"


.......


not even like offering another day shes free

How do you deal with it? Wouldnt expect this happen to u cuz u looked good when i saw u iirc

 

[Amnesia]

How do you deal with it? Wouldnt expect this happen to u cuz u looked good when i saw u iirc

i get frustrated af thats why i gotta take breaks from online dating and dating in general. Majority of dates i setup end up flaking

 

[Deleted member 20131]

Why they do this?

nervousness
double booking u and sum1 else
finding someone better
their ex gets back in the picture
meet some random guy on a night out and they have a stronger investment vs never having met u

idk if u ever get their numbers etc or just schedule thru the app but the apps are shit tier, always try get em off the app ASAP

modern dating environment for women is brutal too but in different ways. Their benefit is a double edged sword that fucks with pair bonding.

 

[Deleted member 18840]

Had date planned today but she said she needs to help her mom so she can’t make it. Shes online since then. Is this normal? Did she found chad?

Also girl i lost vcard to stopped chatting with me. She responds but doesnt ask anything back. Stopped chatting to her

English Date tomorrow planned with a russian girl (@the BULL) but now im worried if she will cancel.

Fuck this is depressing ngl

I never had a date cancelled but i cancelled lots of date cuz cba its too tiring. If she invite me to her place during the day i go else fuck off with muh dates usually

 

[Deleted member 20056]

I hate when it happens and I've popped Cialis already and blue balled myself for a week.

I usually try to get several girls to agree to show up through numbers game then if on the day itself try to confirm with the one you like the most if she's coming like 2hours before the agreed time, if she says yes cancel the rest, if she says no try the other options.

 

[maxeverything]

It’s pretty common. Definitely possible she found chad but not guaranteed. Last year I was supposed to hang with this girl, she even gave me her address. Then she bailed last minute as fuck. I hit her up a couple weeks later and we ended up meeting up and banging, and she said that the reason she bailed the first was because she was anxious. So just put this chick on the back burner.

 

[ReadBooksEveryday]

TJhis is why you don't ask for girl number like a low T soyboy but her address
After that you show up there in your car with binoculars. And take a photo of what the binoculars zoom show (bonus: if she is visible from the windows) and tell her that you're ready for the date

 

[maxeverything]

I hate when it happens and I've popped Cialis already and blue balled myself for a week.

I usually try to get several girls to agree to show up through numbers game then if on the day itself try to confirm with the one you like the most if she's coming like 2hours before the agreed time, if she says yes cancel the rest, if she says no try the other options.

lol I’ve had this happen. I don’t mind being on cialis though.

 

[Virgin at 29 😔]

nervousness
double booking u and sum1 else
finding someone better
their ex gets back in the picture
meet some random guy on a night out and they have a stronger investment vs never having met u

idk if u ever get their numbers etc or just schedule thru the app but the apps are shit tier, always try get em off the app ASAP

modern dating environment for women is brutal too but in different ways. Their benefit is a double edged sword that fucks with pair bonding.

Yes i never chat on tinder i switch to whatsapp very fast. But girl tmrw asked what time we want to meet so i have a good feeling

 

[HerpDerpson]

Majority of dates i setup end up flaking

They see Salludon fishes and get buyer's remorse.

 

[Pendejo]

Yes i never chat on tinder i switch to whatsapp very fast. But girl tmrw asked what time we want to meet so i have a good feeling

What do you talk about on the dates tbh?

 

[Virgin at 29 😔]

What do you talk about on the dates tbh?

About everything tbh and also joke around. Nothing special

 

[Deprived]

Bruv it’s well known fact, girls flake a lot

Dating is numbers game regardless of looks level..some girls are online for validation only

Numbers game is unironically legit
Bet some ugly guy can probably get laid on tinder if he swipes a couple thousand times

 

[Perma Virgin 666]

Why they do this?

cus they got a hundred options and they can't decide which are worthy to commit to

 

[exeight]

they making rules for incels
and break them for chads

 

[thereallegend]

Numbers game is unironically legit
Bet some ugly guy can probably get laid on tinder if he swipes a couple thousand times

Numbers game doesn't work for ugly guys unless they swipe exclusively on ugly girls.

 

[EasternRightWinger15]

i get frustrated af thats why i gotta take breaks from online dating and dating in general. Majority of dates i setup end up flaking

yeah I had a pause aswell, I'm back in the game now and flaking just doesn't bother me now as it used to before the pause