Is starting going to clubs at almost 30 awkward and ridicolous?

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I lost my life being a basement dweller because of ugliness + no social skills+ being poor.

I managed to fuck some girls and overall I feel unlocked in some ways.
I still spent all my life at home, I feel the need of doing some experiences like Ibiza ( i have rtt phenotype with fat face) or going to clubs just to feel the spark of feeling """" young """".

I dont enjoy clubs that much so phenibut +alchol is a must or alcol + mdma.
I was anxious af at every unexpected sounds at NYE like foreworks or little explosions exc
I felt anxious like my heart would esplode.


Problem is...I dont know how to move in clubs ( dancing ) or I dont move at all and I drink, I feel like I cant get savage like others.
I need some drugs as well but I want to live at least an year like a " young person '.
 
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I don't even know if clubs are a thing among zoomers. Someone elab
 
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I lost my life being a basement dweller because of ugliness + no social skills+ being poor.

I managed to fuck some girls and overall I feel unlocked in some ways.
I still spent all my life at home, I feel the need of doing some experiences like Ibiza ( i have rtt phenotype with fat face) or going to clubs just to feel the spark of feeling """" young """".

I dont enjoy clubs that much so phenibut +alchol is a must or alcol + mdma.
I was anxious af at every unexpected sounds at NYE like foreworks or little explosions exc
I felt anxious like my heart would esplode.


Problem is...I dont know how to move in clubs ( dancing ) or I dont move at all and I drink, I feel like I cant get savage like others.
I need some drugs as well but I want to live at least an year like a " young person '.
Simply put, you USUALLY do NOT go to night clubs ALONE.

No matter what you do, you will feel awkward there alone. I tried quite a few times, and despite being successful once, all 5 times were TOTAL CRINGE despite alcohol.
 
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Depends on the club I guess. There are clubs in my area where you're considered a pedo if you go in at 20+ because it has a reputation for being for underage people.
I'm sure in big cities there are clubs for the 25+ group.
 
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Simply put, you USUALLY do NOT go to night clubs ALONE.

No matter what you do, you will feel awkward there alone. I tried quite a few times, and despite being successful once, all 5 times were TOTAL CRINGE despite alcohol.
I plan on going alone sometime in the next week or two. Had enough rotting.
 
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It's not if you're rich, have your own VIP table, and already have some sluts with you...
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Lmao.
How OP thinks everyone be noticing and aware of how he is acting and feeling in the club.
While reality for a normie dude in the club is this:




I can know.
As a normie man, you are invisible. No one cares about you.
 
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Depends on the club I guess. There are clubs in my area where you're considered a pedo if you go in at 20+ because it has a reputation for being for underage people.
I'm sure in big cities there are clubs for the 25+ group.
This. There's clubs where you would stand-out even at 25yo already. But theres oldcel clubs too where there's mostly ppl around 30
 
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It's not if you're rich, have your own VIP table, and already have some sluts with you...
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If this were the case, he wouldn't be asking this question on Looksmax lol :ROFLMAO:
 
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Astagfirullah yakkhi
 
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Simply put, you USUALLY do NOT go to night clubs ALONE.

No matter what you do, you will feel awkward there alone. I tried quite a few times, and despite being successful once, all 5 times were TOTAL CRINGE despite alcohol.
you lack chad social skills, my brother does this alot and always gets a girl and makes new friends.
 
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Depends on the club I guess. There are clubs in my area where you're considered a pedo if you go in at 20+ because it has a reputation for being for underage people.
I'm sure in big cities there are clubs for the 25+ group.
bro plus 20? 20 yo seems young
 
such an harsh reality, club should be 25+ only.
 
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I don't even know if clubs are a thing among zoomers. Someone elab
it is clubs are still packed with 21-30 yr olds. go in looking like a 40 yr old tho and youll probably be out of place.
 
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Better late than never
 
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If this were the case, he wouldn't be asking this question on Looksmax lol :ROFLMAO:
He might have more success in clubs that play niche music, traditional songs, latin music, jazz, etc., festivals and traditional parties and events, everything that's niche, not mainstream stuff and were there are people of various ages...


 
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I lost my life being a basement dweller because of ugliness + no social skills+ being poor.

I managed to fuck some girls and overall I feel unlocked in some ways.
I still spent all my life at home, I feel the need of doing some experiences like Ibiza ( i have rtt phenotype with fat face) or going to clubs just to feel the spark of feeling """" young """".

I dont enjoy clubs that much so phenibut +alchol is a must or alcol + mdma.
I was anxious af at every unexpected sounds at NYE like foreworks or little explosions exc
I felt anxious like my heart would esplode.


Problem is...I dont know how to move in clubs ( dancing ) or I dont move at all and I drink, I feel like I cant get savage like others.
I need some drugs as well but I want to live at least an year like a " young person '.
No go live your life and have fun
 
Your age is not an issue. Your bigger regret should be that you didn't go to clubs in the pre-tinder era (before 2013) because back then it was a viable way of meeting up ONS's. And the gender ratio was decent like 60:40 men and women.

Now the ratio is more in the lines of 90:10 or 95:5 (men/women).
Clubs have become desperate sausagefests as too many "PUA's" started harassing women in them.

Regardless of that, go ahead and try it. You wont look out of place if your face isn't completely melted and you have some youthful facial features left.

It's very good for your mental health to get these experiences before you're a complete corpse and too old to viably pull it off.
27-29 is not too old if you pick the right clubs (avoid those which are populated by 16-19s).
 
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your age isn't the issue. being ugly non nt loser is
 
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Club is full of creepy ethnik types now , woman stay at home
 
I lost my life being a basement dweller because of ugliness + no social skills+ being poor.

I managed to fuck some girls and overall I feel unlocked in some ways.

I was in a relationship from 19-29, and I didn't go to any clubs until I was 29. I definitely didn't feel old or out of place. No one gives a shit unless you look like some haggard middle aged man. There were plenty of other people that age going out. I mean, I was going out with a bunch of friends my age. 35 is when it starts getting a little old, but there are dudes I know in their 40s who are always out, and it's not like they are losers. They are popular with lots of friends. Your best bet is to find a place with a bit of hipster/dive vibe that still does dance parties. Bars with dancing are also good. After hours clubs are good. The worst are actual nightclubs, imo. That's where you get a lot of basic types.
 
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Anybody can do whatever the fuck with their life age doesnt matter...
 
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It's not if you're rich, have your own VIP table, and already have some sluts with you...
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Is that second pic literally Gigachad JFL
 
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Most people cant tell you are 30. I cant imagine anything more awkward than going to a club alone
 
difference between after hour club and night club ?

After hours is open past 2AM. I'm just making a distinction because they seem to attract a different crowd, i.e. people who want to keep drinking/partying. EDM clubs would probably be good too. But my favorite are the "hipster" (not really sure how exactly to describe them) type places because you get a better mix of types of people and the people don't seem as stuck up.
 
clubs are dead, it is only for good looking people anyways, the bitches be scrolling their IG/tinder while drinking with their girls in the club
 
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I lost my life being a basement dweller because of ugliness + no social skills+ being poor.

I managed to fuck some girls and overall I feel unlocked in some ways.
I still spent all my life at home, I feel the need of doing some experiences like Ibiza ( i have rtt phenotype with fat face) or going to clubs just to feel the spark of feeling """" young """".

I dont enjoy clubs that much so phenibut +alchol is a must or alcol + mdma.
I was anxious af at every unexpected sounds at NYE like foreworks or little explosions exc
I felt anxious like my heart would esplode.


Problem is...I dont know how to move in clubs ( dancing ) or I dont move at all and I drink, I feel like I cant get savage like others.
I need some drugs as well but I want to live at least an year like a " young person '.
Age you move on from clubs to lounges scene
 
so night clubs close at 2am ?
In Pennsylvania they do, and I'm pretty sure it's that way in most places in US, except for Vegas and New Orleans and maybe a few others. I don't know about other countries.
 
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clubs are dead, it is only for good looking people anyways, the bitches be scrolling their IG/tinder while drinking with their girls in the club
No, they actually have fun with their other girls as well
 
I lost my life being a basement dweller because of ugliness + no social skills+ being poor.

I managed to fuck some girls and overall I feel unlocked in some ways.
I still spent all my life at home, I feel the need of doing some experiences like Ibiza ( i have rtt phenotype with fat face) or going to clubs just to feel the spark of feeling """" young """".

I dont enjoy clubs that much so phenibut +alchol is a must or alcol + mdma.
I was anxious af at every unexpected sounds at NYE like foreworks or little explosions exc
I felt anxious like my heart would esplode.


Problem is...I dont know how to move in clubs ( dancing ) or I dont move at all and I drink, I feel like I cant get savage like others.
I need some drugs as well but I want to live at least an year like a " young person '.
make a friend on bumble or tinder and go to the club with them
 

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