AlexAP
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Let me start off by saying I know it's "unwanted" attention. Every woman I know says they hate it and wish it would never happen. But you know what? I wish it would happen to me, at least once. I feel so repulsive and ugly because I've never been hollered at, whistled at, honked, or stared at. And everyone on this subreddit and everyone I know in real life always says this happens to all women, it's just something we have to deal with. They even say even frumpy, ugly, messy haired girls get catcalled/whistled/honked at.
And yes, I live in a big city. San Francisco, actually. I go out all the time. I take public transportation. I never get stared at, no one every whistles at me, calls out and says I'm hot or anything. It's gotten to the point where at times I've even dressed a little extra revealing just to get something. Even when I've gone to other cities like Los Angeles and New York, no one ever noticed me or anything.
Is my face and body really that repulsive that I can't even get catcalled or whistled at once in my life? I feel like I'm not a real woman because I've never experienced this in my life. I'm a college aged woman, and from what I understand I'm supposed to get this kind of attention all the time. But I never do. Not on campus, not on public transportation, not when I'm walking downtown, not even when it's late at night and the "creeps" are supposed to be out and about. I guess I'm just really disgusting.
And yes, I live in a big city. San Francisco, actually. I go out all the time. I take public transportation. I never get stared at, no one every whistles at me, calls out and says I'm hot or anything. It's gotten to the point where at times I've even dressed a little extra revealing just to get something. Even when I've gone to other cities like Los Angeles and New York, no one ever noticed me or anything.
Is my face and body really that repulsive that I can't even get catcalled or whistled at once in my life? I feel like I'm not a real woman because I've never experienced this in my life. I'm a college aged woman, and from what I understand I'm supposed to get this kind of attention all the time. But I never do. Not on campus, not on public transportation, not when I'm walking downtown, not even when it's late at night and the "creeps" are supposed to be out and about. I guess I'm just really disgusting.