Lost virginity at 24. There is hope

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It's been almost a year since I lost my virginity, and I'm still with the same girl.

I was, and still am (sort of) a mentalcel. I'm 6'2 and above average looks but still was unable to get a girl due to high inhib and non nt.

Over time, being in a relationship, I became a little bit more social and a little bit better at communication. So, if something were to happen, it would probably be much easier for me now, having lived the experience.

So, for me, it was a matter of luck. I just found someone who doesn't give a fuck and just liked me for who I am.
I had been actively searching, but I was very high inhib and that was a huge turn off.

One thing I noticed is relationship halo is real. You get a lot of attention from women just because you're in a relationship, but it doesn't matter because you shouldn't cheat if you care about life.
 
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I aint wasting time typing to a girl my nigga, I would get bored and fall asleep after 5 minutes let alone be in a relationship for a whole year
 
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I aint wasting time typing to a girl my nigga, I would get bored and fall asleep after 5 minutes let alone be in a relationship for a whole year
A relationship is fun. Sex aside (which is much better than jerking off), you could find someone who shares the same interests. What could be better than that?
 
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A relationship is fun. Sex aside (which is much better than jerking off), you could find someone who shares the same interests. What could be better than that?
It’s cope man, maybe we’re different, But I wouldn’t ever be able to handle a foid yap to me all day, and a relationship seems just gay and cuckish as fuck to me. I cannot handle a foid yapping for 5 minutes let alone a whole year
 
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It’s cope man, maybe we’re different, But I wouldn’t ever be able to handle a foid yap to me all day, and a relationship seems just gay and cuckish as fuck to me. I cannot handle a foid yapping for 5 minutes let alone a whole year
You're gonna have to put up with it if you want to have a meaningful life. What can a person accomplish alone in this life anyway?
 
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A relationship is fun. Sex aside (which is much better than jerking off), you could find someone who shares the same interests. What could be better than that?
Does she nag at you for wasting too much water when you brush your teeth?
 
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once you were in a relationship you would probably feel much confident around girls
 
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No because I always turned it off while brushing. Why
Turn it on while brushing. Full blast. And see if she nags. If she does then you need to fix her.
 
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Ahh, lifefuel for us truecels.
I was, and still am (sort of) a mentalcel. I'm 6'2 and above average looks
Nevermind.
 
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It's been almost a year since I lost my virginity, and I'm still with the same girl.

I was, and still am (sort of) a mentalcel. I'm 6'2 and above average looks but still was unable to get a girl due to high inhib and non nt.

Over time, being in a relationship, I became a little bit more social and a little bit better at communication. So, if something were to happen, it would probably be much easier for me now, having lived the experience.

So, for me, it was a matter of luck. I just found someone who doesn't give a fuck and just liked me for who I am.
I had been actively searching, but I was very high inhib and that was a huge turn off.

One thing I noticed is relationship halo is real. You get a lot of attention from women just because you're in a relationship, but it doesn't matter because you shouldn't cheat if you care about life.
Sorry but didnt read.
 
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It’s cope man, maybe we’re different, But I wouldn’t ever be able to handle a foid yap to me all day, and a relationship seems just gay and cuckish as fuck to me. I cannot handle a foid yapping for 5 minutes let alone a whole year
Are you gay?
 
Sorry but didnt read.
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Happy to see older user find a gf, do you wish you had more experience before being with her?


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No. We learned everything together. Having less experience makes it more special. And I feel more accomplished as it's very rare for people to get along and stay together.

We met on social media. I texted her and it went from there. She was friendly from the start which already told me everything I had to know.
 
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Happy to see older user find a gf, do you wish you had more experience before being with her?


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If you're asking about sex then yes. It was awkward but it was still very fun and nice.
 
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No. We learned everything together. Having less experience makes it more special. And I feel more accomplished as it's very rare for people to get along and stay together.

We met on social media. I texted her and it went from there. She was friendly from the start which already told me everything I had to know.
Please help a brother out as I'm also 24 year old incel

You probably met on Instagram, did you max out your profile?
 
Please help a brother out as I'm also 24 year old incel

You probably met on Instagram, did you max out your profile?
My profile was empty but for some reason she said she liked me. She told me recently that I had been a total weirdo but she liked my voice and thought I was interesting and smart.

Like I said. It's just luck.
 
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My profile was empty but for some reason she said she liked me. She told me recently that I had been a total weirdo but she liked my voice and thought I was interesting and smart.

Like I said. It's just luck.
Hey, I like you too. I just want you to know that you can talk to me any time. I like weirdos. Do you want to send some naked pictures my way?
 
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It's been almost a year since I lost my virginity, and I'm still with the same girl.

I was, and still am (sort of) a mentalcel. I'm 6'2 and above average looks but still was unable to get a girl due to high inhib and non nt.

Over time, being in a relationship, I became a little bit more social and a little bit better at communication. So, if something were to happen, it would probably be much easier for me now, having lived the experience.

So, for me, it was a matter of luck. I just found someone who doesn't give a fuck and just liked me for who I am.
I had been actively searching, but I was very high inhib and that was a huge turn off.

One thing I noticed is relationship halo is real. You get a lot of attention from women just because you're in a relationship, but it doesn't matter because you shouldn't cheat if you care about life.
Now I know why you're so dumb, you're unironically a clinical retard.
 
what helped you be more social and neurotypical? i’m exactly like you were , im 6’2 , pretty good looking but severely ND .
 
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what helped you be more social and neurotypical? i’m exactly like you were , im 6’2 , pretty good looking but severely ND .
I was still heavily introverted when I met her. She just didn't care and always encouraged and supported me.
 
It's been almost a year since I lost my virginity, and I'm still with the same girl.

I was, and still am (sort of) a mentalcel. I'm 6'2 and above average looks but still was unable to get a girl due to high inhib and non nt.

Over time, being in a relationship, I became a little bit more social and a little bit better at communication. So, if something were to happen, it would probably be much easier for me now, having lived the experience.

So, for me, it was a matter of luck. I just found someone who doesn't give a fuck and just liked me for who I am.
I had been actively searching, but I was very high inhib and that was a huge turn off.

One thing I noticed is relationship halo is real. You get a lot of attention from women just because you're in a relationship, but it doesn't matter because you shouldn't cheat if you care about life.
i'm turning 28 in june is there still hope
 
if i was you id kill myself. but even being me i probably will
 
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i'm turning 28 in june is there still hope
Depends on where you live. If conservative third world shithole then yes. If LA or London or something similar then you're probably fucked
 
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28 is pretty fucked though. I don't think I would've survived that long without a girl
It's only 4 More years older than you? You would've roped if she didn't exist?
 
its the ER category of losing virginity.but still better than at 40
 

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