Monogamy, true love, oneitis is one huge pile of bluepill cope

[11gaijin]

The only truth is that neither you are special nor the girl that you are obsessed with or dating/married to. The moment you start believing in monogamy, true love or any of that sissy bullshit, is the moment that you start treating the girl as someone special and ultimately start caring about her infidelity or her cheating on you. And if you are caring about those things you will never be happy or secure. The only way to not give a fuck about any of those things is to understand that people are corruptible and no girl is special and she is likely to leave you for another guy.

50% of marriages in US end with divorce. Why? It is because with time, women or men get bored with their SO. Attraction is just hormones and chemical reactions happening in your brain. Humans hate a lot of things and boredom ranks quite high in that list. And it isn't unlikely for those feelings that initially attracted you to each other to vanish.

If anyone spent time on Incel/looksmax forums and still all they want is a loving gf to spend the rest of their life with, then I think they never learnt anything.

 

[RichardSpencel]

If I had a gf(not happening) I would never leave her/cheat on her etc no matter what,obviously there are people who exist who also wouldn't.

Just let me cope pls.

 

[Nibba]

big old cope buddy boyo. as someone who experienced teen love and continues to, i can say without a doubt that if you miss out on it you will never be fully functional. sure get surgeries and take roids to slay trash sluts like @JustChris, but you'll always have that hole inside you that can't be filled no matter how much you try to cope with sleeping around. and deep down you know it too. so. stop coping please

 

[CupOfCoffee]

i can say without a doubt that if you miss out on it you will never be fully functional.

It's sad but it's true. It's in those teen years that you learn how relationships work and you internalize it, if you miss out on it you are on a spiral downward your whole life in terms of relationships, love, friendships etc.

 

[HorseFace]

big old cope buddy boyo. as someone who experienced teen love and continues to, i can say without a doubt that if you miss out on it you will never be fully functional. sure get surgeries and take roids to slay trash sluts like @JustChris, but you'll always have that hole inside you that can't be filled no matter how much you try to cope with sleeping around. and deep down you know it too. so. stop coping please

I dont know man. Teen love wasn't really a thing i cared about untill using this forum. If you sit at sites like these all day and spend all the time obsessing it of course its gonna become a unfillable hole inside you.

But if you just dont get a gf before like 20 something and have stable mental health and never cared about then whole teen love thing, then its probably not gonna bother you at all. Teen love is probably great but for normal peole, not having it doesnt't have to cause something bad.

 

[Nibba]

I dont know man. Teen love wasn't really a thing i cared about untill using this forum. If you sit at sites like these all day and spend all the time obsessing it of course its gonna become a unfillable hole inside you.

But if you just dont get a gf before like 20 something and have stable mental health and never cared about then whole teen love thing, then its probably not gonna bother you at all. Teen love is probably great but for normal peole, not having it doesnt't have to cause something bad.

seeing as 90% of the users here are under 20 but too aspie to get a girlfriend and have such low confidence that they can't even make eye contact, they will def miss out on teen love.

it's all about preferences @11gaijin it's fine if u don't care about monogamy and such, but don't act like it isn't a major part of development. i mean cmon i see everyone here obsessing about JBs and teen love. you can't say it's all BS

 

[11gaijin]

big old cope buddy boyo. as someone who experienced teen love and continues to, i can say without a doubt that if you miss out on it you will never be fully functional. sure get surgeries and take roids to slay trash sluts like @JustChris, but you'll always have that hole inside you that can't be filled no matter how much you try to cope with sleeping around. and deep down you know it too. so. stop coping please

I would never have those feelings tbh. It might matter to you or people around you coz that is a part of your culture. Here in my country and culture majority people don't experience teen love. It is not a thing. We are shaped by our cultures and different thing matter to different people. So there is no hole nor there would ever be as you say.

You would never see me talking about teen love coz that doesn't matter to me. I have my own experiences which I feel I have been lucky to have and those make me keep pushing myself to looksmax but may be you could call them cope, just like I might call yours. I haven't experienced what you have and you haven't experienced what I have. I didn't even know teen love matters until I visited incel forums. Since most people here are virgin or teenagers I can understand why they think it is such a big deal. Because either they have never experienced it or may be that is the only memorable thing that they have experienced in their short teenage lives.

Since you mention @JustChris, who is about my age, I doubt that guy wouldn't have fucked a teen girl in his teenage years. I would like to ask him what he enjoys more. Fucking sluts right now or some teenager he fucked in his teenage years. I would rather be @JustChris and fuck different sluts on a daily basis than experience teen love and stay with the same girl forever. My high sex drive would never let that happen too.

 

[Nibba]

I would never have those feelings tbh. It might matter to you or people around you coz that is a part of your culture. Here in my country and culture majority people don't experience teen love. It is not a thing. We are shaped by our cultures and different thing matter to different people. So there is no hole nor there would ever be as you say.

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I didn't even know teen love matters until I visited incel forums. Since most people here are virgin or teenagers I can understand why they think it is such a big deal. Because either they have never experienced it or may be that is the only memorable thing that they have experienced in their short teenage lives.

then why do you escortcel instead of fucking real girls

Since you mention @JustChris, who is about my age, I doubt that guy wouldn't have fucked a teen girl in his teenage years. I would like to ask him what he enjoys more. Fucking sluts right now or some teenager he fucked in his teenage years. I would rather be @JustChris and fuck different sluts on a daily basis than experience teen love and stay with the same girl forever. My high sex drive would never let that happen too.

i was using him as a slayer example im not retarded saying he didn't experience teen love. that's good for both of you. personally i really don't care what anyone here does about girls cuz it doesn't affect me in the slightest. go have fun with girls or don't i honest do not care lmfao

 

[11gaijin]

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then why do you escortcel instead of fucking real girls

Escorts are real girls btw, they aren't 2d girls.

i was using him as a slayer example im not retarded saying he didn't experience teen love. that's good for both of you. personally i really don't care what anyone here does about girls cuz it doesn't affect me in the slightest. go have fun with girls or don't i honest do not care lmfao

You cared enough to comment. I guess you thought that the post is an attack against your experiences which it wasn't. It was just a post about how love or attraction is not permanent. I see people who fell in love early in their lives later get divorces or just separate or end up living together but not liking each other anymore. A lot of times women initiate it. Even happens with famous couples. Why is something like dead beadrooms a thing? Why do people not continue to have same crazy passionate sex forever. And it happens often.

 

[Deltoid]

Teen love is definitely a good thing to experience. Also, fucking different girls all the time won’t necessarily make you happy and that’s a fact. Although I don’t think monogamy is a intrinsic part of our biology as humans, if that were the case hypergamy wouldn’t be a thing and men wouldn’t be able to impregnate multiple women in a day. It’s definitely more cultural/religious based. Monogamy is the way to go if you want a productive and “moral” society though. And everyone has a drive to reproduce, if they say they don’t they’re lying.

Escorts are real girls btw, they aren't 2d girls.


You cared enough to comment. I guess you thought that the post is an attack against your experiences which it wasn't. It was just a post about how love or attraction is not permanent. I see people who fell in love early in their lives later get divorces or just separate or end up living together but not liking each other anymore. A lot of times women initiate it. Even happens with famous couples. Why is something like dead beadrooms a thing? Why do people not continue to have same crazy passionate sex forever. And it happens often.

I’d say dead bedrooms are a thing because most men are cucks and they change for the women instead of staying the man the women desired in the first place.

 

[Nibba]

Escorts are real girls btw, they aren't 2d girls.

you know what i mean.

I see people who fell in love early in their lives later get divorces or just separate or end up living together but not liking each other anymore

problems for nonchads

Why is something like dead beadrooms a thing? Why do people not continue to have same crazy passionate sex forever.

oh idk cuz maybe cuz stacy is tired of betabux billy. and kids get in the way, jobs, debt, etc. stress kills libido like you wouldn't believe.

You cared enough to comment.

i don't care what you do. i care to comment cuz this post is an affront to my beliefs

 

[Deleted member 616]

High IQ thread

 

[Deleted member 281]

Why do people not continue to have same crazy passionate sex forever. And it happens often.

Dopamine. The same reason cocaine addicts need to up the amount of cocaine they are taking in order to feel the same high.

 

[11gaijin]

you know what i mean.


problems for nonchads


oh idk cuz maybe cuz stacy is tired of betabux billy. and kids get in the way, jobs, debt, etc. stress kills libido like you wouldn't believe.

i don't care what you do. i care to comment cuz this post is an affront to my beliefs

Elvis got cucked by some Karate guy and arguably committed suicide because of that. I doubt the guy her wife cheated on him with was a bigger chad.

Chads get cheated on all the time. Many famous couple examples. To think that being a certain looks level will make someone immune to these things is delusion. This just reinforces my original claim that women can always cheat on you even if you are Elvis himself.

 

[Deleted member 281]

@Dude420 thoughts?

 

[Deleted member 616]

big old cope buddy boyo. as someone who experienced teen love and continues to, i can say without a doubt that if you miss out on it you will never be fully functional. sure get surgeries and take roids to slay trash sluts like @JustChris, but you'll always have that hole inside you that can't be filled no matter how much you try to cope with sleeping around. and deep down you know it too. so. stop coping please

Yeah I never had teen love and got my first gf at 21, still a pretty innocent girl as opposed to women you view through blackpilled lenses, but it'd never be the same as in your teen years.

 

[Nibba]

Yeah I never had teen love and got my first gf at 21, still a pretty innocent girl as opposed to women you view through blackpilled lenses, but it'd never be the same as in your teen years.

Yeah something very sweet and special and romantic about teen love

 

[UltraExtremeIntense]

The only truth is that neither you are special nor the girl that you are obsessed with or dating/married to. The moment you start believing in monogamy, true love or any of that sissy bullshit, is the moment that you start treating the girl as someone special and ultimately start caring about her infidelity or her cheating on you. And if you are caring about those things you will never be happy or secure. The only way to not give a fuck about any of those things is to understand that people are corruptible and no girl is special and she is likely to leave you for another guy.

50% of marriages in US end with divorce. Why? It is because with time, women or men get bored with their SO. Attraction is just hormones and chemical reactions happening in your brain. Humans hate a lot of things and boredom ranks quite high in that list. And it isn't unlikely for those feelings that initially attracted you to each other to vanish.

If anyone spent time on Incel/looksmax forums and still all they want is a loving gf to spend the rest of their life with, then I think they never learnt anything.

Intially the relationship is fueled by dopamine, however over time oxytocin(bonding hormone) increases. People don't get bored with enough oxytocin, people become very invested in their interpersonal relationships as a result of this hormone

 

[Deleted member 611]

Anything besides monogamy is stupid. Being in an open and polyamorous relationship is for cucks who lets their gf fuck other men. You just need to find a girl who isnt a slut

big old cope buddy boyo. as someone who experienced teen love and continues to, i can say without a doubt that if you miss out on it you will never be fully functional. sure get surgeries and take roids to slay trash sluts like @JustChris, but you'll always have that hole inside you that can't be filled no matter how much you try to cope with sleeping around. and deep down you know it too. so. stop coping please

 

[11gaijin]

Anything besides monogamy is stupid. Being in an open and polyamorous relationship is for cucks who lets their gf fuck other men. You just need to find a girl who isnt a slut

Monogamy is a cultural invention. We are not monogamous biologically. Just pump and dump and move on you don't need to be a cuck.

 

[Deleted member 611]

Monogamy is a cultural invention. We are not monogamous biologically. Just pump and dump and move on you don't need to be a cuck.

We are not savages so we can choose to maximize profits from a loving relationship instead of fucking just to fuck.

 

[11gaijin]

We are not savages so we can choose to maximize profits from a loving relationship instead of fucking just to fuck.

Loving relationships don't last forever. And that is the point of this thread. The true love or die together is a fantasy created by media. You can get cucked or cheated on and you have to be ready for it or have a no fucks given mentality. Biology dictates everything. That is why female hypergamy is a thing.

 

[Deleted member 39]

big old cope buddy boyo. as someone who experienced teen love and continues to, i can say without a doubt that if you miss out on it you will never be fully functional. sure get surgeries and take roids to slay trash sluts like @JustChris, but you'll always have that hole inside you that can't be filled no matter how much you try to cope with sleeping around. and deep down you know it too. so. stop coping please

This was so true it hurt

 

[Deleted member 611]

Loving relationships don't last forever. And that is the point of this thread. The true love or die together is a fantasy created by media. You can get cucked or cheated on and you have to be ready for it or have a no fucks given mentality. Biology dictates everything. That is why female hypergamy is a thing.

Most don't last forever yes but that doesn't mean you should just give up on them all together. Going through a possible cucking is worth the good times spent in the loving relationship imo

 

[Nibba]

This was so true it hurt

Ikr.

 

[11gaijin]

Going through a possible cucking is worth the good times spent in the loving relationship imo

Hmm ok

 

[Deleted member 611]

Hmm ok

By cucking I mean her leaving you not literal cucking

 

[Deleted member 470]

it's fine if u don't care about monogamy and such, but don't act like it isn't a major part of development. i mean cmon i see everyone here obsessing about JBs and teen love. you can't say it's all BS

this tbh, as long as there's real mutual attraction you're more than fine, especially if you're her first, that "she wants to find herself before settling down" aka being a whore bullshit happens when they're not satisfied with what they have

 

[Imonlyhere]

teen romance can be the opposite as well
most people don’t really have very fond memories of that
there is much more to it then just having had sex as a teenager
(but a lot of that is also tied to looks - no question)
as for the romance blackpill I think that’s the one i’m personally planning on skipping. But that might seem like an odd choice for you guys.
But I think validation is what let’s people thrive most and short term sex can’t replace love as cheesy as it sounds
most people don’t dawn over young girls cause they’re pedos but rather because they’re undamaged and playful and still loving.
so if you want that in any kind of form your best bet other then looks is to keep that alive

if you just want to bang disregard that though

 

[Nibba]

From Chris himself @11gaijin

Final ogre in the coffin tbh ngl. U should unban him

 

[Deleted member 611]

From Chris himself @11gaijin

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Final ogre in the coffin tbh ngl. U should unban him

Where is chris and why is he banned on here

 

[Nibba]

Where is chris and why is he banned on here

He's banned for "bluepill"

 

[Deleted member 611]

He's banned for "bluepill"

Do you remember what he said specifically, or was just all his posts?

 

[badromance]

big old cope buddy boyo. as someone who experienced teen love and continues to, i can say without a doubt that if you miss out on it you will never be fully functional. sure get surgeries and take roids to slay trash sluts like @JustChris, but you'll always have that hole inside you that can't be filled no matter how much you try to cope with sleeping around. and deep down you know it too. so. stop coping please

98% of teens and people i know have missed on ''teen love'' jfl muh teen love so special

 

[Nibba]

Do you remember what he said specifically, or was just all his posts?

He posted pics of him talking to a girl about all incel ideology flaws. In a way very blackpill for incels in a way

98% of teens and people i know have missed on ''teen love'' jfl muh teen love so special

@badromance how's ur oneitis doing? U orbiting her like a god damn moon of Neptune still? yeahhhh figured u r

 

[Deltoid]

From Chris himself @11gaijin

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Final ogre in the coffin tbh ngl. U should unban him

True. I’m in the same boat as him plus I have mental issues from my childhood that make me not want to bond with a female atm. But eventually you should settle down and have a family. There’s always a chance you can get cucked but the chances are a lot lower if you are an actual man and don’t give in to a women’s shit tests. Never change yourself for a female and continue to stay true to yourself. Most men change to please a woman and that’s what gets them cucked majority of the time. Also comes with a lack of sex if you’re doing everything she wants and agreeing with her on everything. Most men do this because they think it means more sex but it actually leads to transactional sex instead of sex that is driven by desire.

 

[Nibba]

chances are a lot lower if you are an actual man and don’t give in to a women’s shit tests

That's what more people need to understand. Literally "just man up" theory is so legit. Guys try too hard to please the woman but in reality u need to look out for number 1 so to speak

 

[Imonlyhere]

i disagree
dir a lot of people it is to lessen the advantage that today’s society granted women.
Sure, ons etc might/can be a part of it but a serious relationship is as well

 

[badromance]

He posted pics of him talking to a girl about all incel ideology flaws. In a way very blackpill for incels in a way

@badromance how's ur oneitis doing? U orbiting her like a god damn moon of Neptune still? yeahhhh figured u r

Orbiting her ? no way man jfl how is this comment releveant to my comment,the only way i got oneitis is because i was bluepilled,i barely like her now and i've moved on

 

[11gaijin]

From Chris himself @11gaijin

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Final ogre in the coffin tbh ngl. U should unban him

Well I don't disagree with a lot of what he said. Once people get older it is good to settle. But that is because people understand that their value decreases with time and they can't sustain this lifestyle forever. And I agree teen love matters in the West. Never said it doesn't. Btw whatever he said I will take with a pinch of salt since he was banned by me and cursed me in pm. So I won't consider what he says to you right now as 100% unbiased.

The point was what would you chose in this age? Chris is obviously choosing the slaying life instead of sticking with his teenage gfs in a monogamous relationship which implies what he likes more. He could have obviously had a monogamous relationship with some foid.

As far as unbanning him is concerned just saw his brag posts on Lookism today. He posts his tinder matches daily over there. No doubt he posted here just to brag and tried to troll by posting bluepilled bs which he probably didn't agree with himself. There is no reason to unban him unless you want updates on his daily tinder matches and his sex sessions about which he posts regularly on lookism.

 

[mojopin]

but you'll always have that hole inside you that can't be filled no matter what

That’s where you’re wrong kiddo ?

 

[Nibba]

As far as unbanning him is concerned just saw his brag posts on Lookism today. He posts his tinder matches daily over there. No doubt he posted here just to brag and tried to troll by posting bluepilled bs which he probably didn't agree with himself. There is no reason to unban him unless you want updates on his daily tinder matches and his sex sessions about which he posts regularly on lookism.

 

[RedPilledStemcel]

One itis is just what your mind thinks is the girl you can get for the most rewards and least risks/is our type/etc. It's just pair bonding or the start of one. Stop being autistic.

 

[11gaijin]

One itis is just what your mind thinks is the girl you can get for the most rewards and least risks/is our type/etc. It's just pair bonding. Stop being autistic.

BluePilledStemCel

 

[Nibba]

BluePilledStemCel

How is that bluepilled?

 

[RedPilledStemcel]

Indulge in it. It makes more attainable girls seem way more interesting than they are to others.
Look up assortative mating too. Imo it is for the most part why we have types.

 

[Nibba]

Indulge in it. It makes more attainable girls seem way more interesting than they are to others.
Look up assortative mating too. Imo it is for the most part why we have types.

What stem degree are u aiming for

 

[RedPilledStemcel]

What stem degree are u aiming for

A large reason why I'm on these sites is because of my interest in human bodies so maybe premed but I am also good at math/cs so I might do cs as a backup. Partly depends on if I get into le ivy league tho. (might do a banking backup instead or something)

 

[Nibba]

A large reason why I'm on these sites is because of my interest in human bodies so maybe premed but I am also good at math/cs so I might do cs as a backup. Partly depends on if I get into le ivy league tho. (might do a banking backup instead or something)

I'm in pharmacy rn tbh ngl. First semester is tough but it's okay

 

[Swagwaffle]

That's what more people need to understand. Literally "just man up" theory is so legit. Guys try too hard to please the woman but in reality u need to look out for number 1 so to speak

easy for Chad to say