Most LTRs have weak or ZERO sexual element to them (m/f ones specifically)

[Deleted member 20704]

I took @thereallegend's advice to try and get hired at Target again.

Well in my waiting process I happen to observe my surroundings.

Guess what? I mog half the guys there at least but they have gas.

BUT WAIT... HOLD UP.

I notice the couples are so non sexual they may as well be siblings.

A bunch oofy beta dudes with HTBs or less. IOW, no sex appeal males with less than enamored females, possibly also on the pill.

I saw it OVER AND OVER AGAIN ... There were also no KIDS with the younger couples.

LTRs = mostly non sexual, it is like the dudes and girls are together for logistics or some other reason. Basically it is a fluke because you may be "missing out" on a gf if non NT, but missing out on what exactly? Being a non sexual beta partner whose sole purpose is to nest?

The sexual Chakra or element between most couples is WEAK.

ONLY IF she was enamored or liked you from the start can you consider it more sexual ... MAYBE. Like if you had sex with a girl and she was attracted to you then it ends up being a LTR THEN IT MAY BE LEGIT... FOR A WHILE AT LEAST.

So you are nothing but her nesting partner, the sex is ONLY a secondary or tertiary or beyond factor that comes with the territory. It is like being picked to be the desk duty worker but end up one day doing field duty even though that is not what the hiring squad initially expected but it just "ended up happening after a while."

But overall, LTR = cope. You are setting yourself up for far less than you deserve given what I have seen. Most LTRs between normies are NOT primarily sexual but ROMANTIC. There is a difference with a girl holding her oofy 3/10 and the same girl witnessing 7/10 walk by her ... it is not the same. At all. Trust me on this one... when it happens you will know.

 

[thereallegend]

LTRs lower testosterone too. Something that redditors love to say a lot as to why you need a committed relationship.

Men, women in more satisfying relationships have lower testosterone

Many people assume that the more testosterone, the better, but a new University of Michigan study finds that might not always be the case in romantic relationships.

news.umich.edu

 

[Deleted member 23772]

I took @thereallegend's advice to try and get hired at Target again.

Well in my waiting process I happen to observe my surroundings.

Guess what? I mog half the guys there at least but they have gas.

BUT WAIT... HOLD UP.

I notice the couples are so non sexual they may as well be siblings.

A bunch oofy beta dudes with HTBs or less. IOW, no sex appeal males with less than enamored females, possibly also on the pill.

I saw it OVER AND OVER AGAIN ... There were also no KIDS with the younger couples.

LTRs = mostly non sexual, it is like the dudes and girls are together for logistics or some other reason. Basically it is a fluke because you may be "missing out" on a gf if non NT, but missing out on what exactly? Being a non sexual beta partner whose sole purpose is to nest?

The sexual Chakra or element between most couples is WEAK.

ONLY IF she was enamored or liked you from the start can you consider it more sexual ... MAYBE. Like if you had sex with a girl and she was attracted to you then it ends up being a LTR THEN IT MAY BE LEGIT... FOR A WHILE AT LEAST.

So you are nothing but her nesting partner, the sex is ONLY a secondary or tertiary or beyond factor that comes with the territory. It is like being picked to be the desk duty worker but end up one day doing field duty even though that is not what the hiring squad initially expected but it just "ended up happening after a while."

But overall, LTR = cope. You are setting yourself up for far less than you deserve given what I have seen. Most LTRs between normies are NOT primarily sexual but ROMANTIC. There is a difference with a girl holding her oofy 3/10 and the same girl witnessing 7/10 walk by her ... it is not the same. At all. Trust me on this one... when it happens you will know.

i agree. LTR is only for nesting and making a family, thats why short term flings or One night stands are better for sexual purposes as it gives more excitement, thriller and sexual joy out of it.

 

[lelouch]

people have relationships where they don't have sex? that's insane

 

[Deleted member 7580]

Do you want them to duck in the middle of the target ?