My erection quality and length to cum are so inconsistent

[Amnesia]

A recent experience prompted this thread

I can invite hot af girls off Tinder over to my apt and sometimes I have great erections sometimes not. Most the time it takes a long time to cum. I 100 percent have all the preparation knowing that we are going to have sex yet a lot of times

Yet in the last 3 weeks I have had two separate experiences with two separate women where I was working at the night club and a tipsy girl (not even that hot and kinda thick both times) really came onto me, like to the point we just went out back to my car and fucked in my car within 5 minutes of them approaching me. These were two DIFFERENT women, but same pheno, thick white girls and I came in literally under 45 seconds both times.

WTF


Hot thin 18 year olds off tinder ----> medium erection 20 minutes to cum

Thick average looking women IRL insta pull super hard erection and cum in under a minute, like literally can't even control it, it felt so much sensation I cant help but cum in under a minute


No condoms used in any of these encounters


so weird, are thicker girls tighter? Or is it just "hotter" banging in a car that I just cum form being way more turned on or something. Maybe the whole just invite tinder slut over and bang in the bed is something that just doesn't excite me in any way that I can only get off doing "risky" car sex. Who the fuck knows



@oldcell

 

[OldRooster]

Chad problems

 

[AlexBrown84]

Dat boi jj

 

[Deleted member 19478]

In other words you like thick bitches.

 

[Deleted member 7580]

It’s normal

 

[Amnesia]

In other words you like thick bitches.

in other words I have been trying to maximize my erection quality and sensation in my penis cause I have been frustrated with how long it takes to cum or general lack of interest with sex

I have taken supps
cialis viagra
aphrodesiacs
no fap no porn
oils and aloe vera on penis


all that and still when i would invite hot girls over and bang them, mediocre everything


yet without preparation spur of the moment bang a pair of thick girls in my car in the dark with shitty uncomfortable sex positions and suddenly I have zero erection or cumming issues at all


I just am trying to square this circle

 

[Growth Plate]

Too bad you're not big enough dick-wise to truly satisfy pawgs

 

[Growth Plate]

general lack of interest with sex

Brutal oldcel pill. Hop on TRT asap

 

[Deleted member 16110]

in other words I have been trying to maximize my erection quality and sensation in my penis cause I have been frustrated with how long it takes to cum or general lack of interest with sex

I have taken supps
cialis viagra
aphrodesiacs
no fap no porn
oils and aloe vera on penis


all that and still when i would invite hot girls over and bang them, mediocre everything


yet without preparation spur of the moment bang a pair of thick girls in my car in the dark with shitty uncomfortable sex positions and suddenly I have zero erection or cumming issues at all


I just am trying to square this circle

how do you get them to fuck no condom so consistently?

 

[tyronelite]

I thought you were on cialis

 

[Growth Plate]

I thought you were on cialis

I thought OP was only into sticks

 

[Amnesia]

I thought OP was only into sticks

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Yeah with my pick on tinder I only go for skinny girls. And so that’s why it’s curious that the two last times I bang thicker women I like fun hella fast.

Irl and tinder are diff obv. Tinder way more options and can afford to be more picky. Irl my standards aren’t as high since u are limited by girls in vicinity

 

[Catawampus]

Yeah with my pick on tinder I only go for skinny girls. And so that’s why it’s curious that the two last times I bang thicker women I like fun hella fast.

Irl and tinder are diff obv. Tinder way more options and can afford to be more picky. Irl my standards aren’t as high since u are limited by girls in vicinity

Invite a thicc girl over off tinder instead of a skinny bitch and see if that does it

 

[thereallegend]

Penis pump is the best thing for erection quality

 

[Curlbrahhh]

Reading Amnesias threads are ropefuel for us incels. I wish I had these Chad problems

 

[Reckless Turtle]

The plight of being 34

 

[subhuman incel]

u are 34 bro, erection problems are normal at that age

 

[Adreyan]

What's your size? Dicklets Don't last that long.

 

[subhuman incel]

unironically the food you eat several hours before sex has influence on erection quality, eat a lot of chunk food and ice cream and u will see it will be worse than if u ate healthy (vegatables, fruits etc.)

 

[Deleted member 19103]

Its because its in you biologically do bang real women (thick)

 

[chadison]

People here are saying it’s because of the body shape, and how you might be into thick women. I disagree, and I think I might actually have a rational explanation for what’s going on.

You’ve done the same routine of tinder—> text —> bring girl to your apt —> fucking her, hundreds of times. And you don’t fuck them repeatedly or fuck the same exact type, so the Coolidge effect cannot explain your circumstances. What I believe is happening is that your apartment-tinder routine is too comfortable for you and lacks spontaniety. This disengages your parasympathetic nervous system and encourages the release of calming neurotransmitters. When you are out at the club, your mind loses that sense of predictability. And oddly enough, I can relate to your circumstance—likely because we share similar personalities and a desire for routines and predictability. Girls I fuck the first time the night of at their place vs at my place after a bunch of fucks already is a lot different (it is much easier to finish early in the former circumstance).

Essentially, your mind and bodily excitement levels are much higher in the nightclub environment because it is much more unpredictable and foreign, and the excitement might not even be conscious to you. The spontaneity replaces the boring tinder routine and creates a more enticing experience.

 

[RetardSubhuman]

my reaction to this information

 

[hypergamy]

A recent experience prompted this thread

I can invite hot af girls off Tinder over to my apt and sometimes I have great erections sometimes not. Most the time it takes a long time to cum. I 100 percent have all the preparation knowing that we are going to have sex yet a lot of times

Yet in the last 3 weeks I have had two separate experiences with two separate women where I was working at the night club and a tipsy girl (not even that hot and kinda thick both times) really came onto me, like to the point we just went out back to my car and fucked in my car within 5 minutes of them approaching me. These were two DIFFERENT women, but same pheno, thick white girls and I came in literally under 45 seconds both times.

WTF


Hot thin 18 year olds off tinder ----> medium erection 20 minutes to cum

Thick average looking women IRL insta pull super hard erection and cum in under a minute, like literally can't even control it, it felt so much sensation I cant help but cum in under a minute


No condoms used in any of these encounters


so weird, are thicker girls tighter? Or is it just "hotter" banging in a car that I just cum form being way more turned on or something. Maybe the whole just invite tinder slut over and bang in the bed is something that just doesn't excite me in any way that I can only get off doing "risky" car sex. Who the fuck knows



@oldcell

I understand. Causes some apprehension about erections and orgasm. It's mostly mental.

 

[RecessedChinCel]

T pill + age pill + thick girls are higher e pill.

I’m happy you finally realize skinny stick low e foids are not ideal

 

[MoggerGaston]

You can have this even with the same girl though. In a fwb/ltr my erections and time to cum are very inconsistent aswell.

 

[Afrikancel]

A recent experience prompted this thread

I can invite hot af girls off Tinder over to my apt and sometimes I have great erections sometimes not. Most the time it takes a long time to cum. I 100 percent have all the preparation knowing that we are going to have sex yet a lot of times

Yet in the last 3 weeks I have had two separate experiences with two separate women where I was working at the night club and a tipsy girl (not even that hot and kinda thick both times) really came onto me, like to the point we just went out back to my car and fucked in my car within 5 minutes of them approaching me. These were two DIFFERENT women, but same pheno, thick white girls and I came in literally under 45 seconds both times.

WTF


Hot thin 18 year olds off tinder ----> medium erection 20 minutes to cum

Thick average looking women IRL insta pull super hard erection and cum in under a minute, like literally can't even control it, it felt so much sensation I cant help but cum in under a minute


No condoms used in any of these encounters


so weird, are thicker girls tighter? Or is it just "hotter" banging in a car that I just cum form being way more turned on or something. Maybe the whole just invite tinder slut over and bang in the bed is something that just doesn't excite me in any way that I can only get off doing "risky" car sex. Who the fuck knows



@oldcell

I use viagra to deal with this issue

 

[Deleted member 9801]

Amnesia my gringo, u are 34 good sir. Stop obsessing over sex and get dat bag son. Build a family or something

 

[tyronelite]

Amnesia my gringo, u are 34 good sir. Stop obsessing over sex and get dat bag son. Build a family or something

He doesn’t want kids

 

[Deleted member 20131]

Pelvic floor tension and trauma controls for EQ + ejaculation. An overly tight, traumatized pelvic floor will cause poor EQ, high EQ variability and variable stimulation to ejaculation periods. Depending on the days prior to sex or stimulation will determine what symptoms you'll get. The worst is all of them, the best being perhaps mostly hard and lasting long.

Knew it. You need to deal with the trauma and learn to relax the pelvic floor. It also needs to be strengthened after the tension has been lost to have good EQ

I have the same issue tbh, currently dealing with it myself. It's quite complex.

 

[Deleted member 20131]

Pelvic floor tension and trauma controls for EQ + ejaculation. An overly tight, traumatized pelvic floor will cause poor EQ, high EQ variability and variable stimulation to ejaculation periods. Depending on the days prior to sex or stimulation will determine what symptoms you'll get. The worst is all of them, the best being perhaps mostly hard and lasting long.

Knew it. You need to deal with the trauma and learn to relax the pelvic floor. It also needs to be strengthened after the tension has been lost to have good EQ

I have the same issue tbh, currently dealing with it myself. It's quite complex.

I'll try to explain it

An overly tight pelvic floor leads to weakness since the muscles are always over activated

Because of this, you pump the pelvic floor to maintain an erection. To get rock hard with penetration you'll be sat there tensing/pumping the pelvic floor. This will over time with stimulation pump the pelvic floor to the point of no return, ejaculation is a tension response in the pelvic floor itself, not the penis, you need to have a loose pelvic floor that is STRONG so that it doesn't pulsate/twitch during intercourse - this guarantees 100% EQ and you can then train to last as long as you want - the "pumping" in the pelvic floor is what makes you hit the point of no return ala too much tension and boom, out squirts cum. The key is to never pump the pelvic floor to the point of spasm. Orgasm is a vibration response in the pelvic floor ala spasm.

You'll need to do reverse kegels, kegels, meditate, focus on inner health (low sex drive means ur nuked ngl) and maybe even see a physiotherapist. Pay conscious attention to what you're doing with your pelvic floor during the day. Are you holding onto it? are you stressed a lot? are you holding onto it during periods of stress only? what were the days before sex like? or even the hours before? was the girl rude etc?

 

[AscendingHero]

, you need to have a loose pelvic floor that is STRONG so that it doesn't pulsate/twitch during intercourse - this guarantees 100% EQ and you can then train to last as long as you want -

How do you train to last as long as you want and how can you have a loose pelvic floor that is strong?

Alot of good info from the taoists on this out there but i need to find time to read it all, i'll make a thread on it once im elect it in one day.

- the "pumping" in the pelvic floor is what makes you hit the point of no return ala too much tension and boom, out squirts cum. The key is to never pump the pelvic floor to the point of spasm

Define "pumping"

 

[Deleted member 16944]

I come with thicker girls very fast and hard. With skinny girls it can take ages. I'm just massively attracted to estrogen. Maybe you're the same?

 

[Mayorga2.0]

Normal fluctuations in the thousand actors controlling libido and sexual performance

 

[wollet2]

Too bad you're not big enough dick-wise to truly satisfy pawgs

brutal. its over

life is not worth living with a sub big dick

 

[Patriot]

A recent experience prompted this thread

I can invite hot af girls off Tinder over to my apt and sometimes I have great erections sometimes not. Most the time it takes a long time to cum. I 100 percent have all the preparation knowing that we are going to have sex yet a lot of times

Yet in the last 3 weeks I have had two separate experiences with two separate women where I was working at the night club and a tipsy girl (not even that hot and kinda thick both times) really came onto me, like to the point we just went out back to my car and fucked in my car within 5 minutes of them approaching me. These were two DIFFERENT women, but same pheno, thick white girls and I came in literally under 45 seconds both times.

WTF


Hot thin 18 year olds off tinder ----> medium erection 20 minutes to cum

Thick average looking women IRL insta pull super hard erection and cum in under a minute, like literally can't even control it, it felt so much sensation I cant help but cum in under a minute


No condoms used in any of these encounters


so weird, are thicker girls tighter? Or is it just "hotter" banging in a car that I just cum form being way more turned on or something. Maybe the whole just invite tinder slut over and bang in the bed is something that just doesn't excite me in any way that I can only get off doing "risky" car sex. Who the fuck knows



@oldcell

Apart from viagra or cialis - I strongly recommend to use penis extender like penimaster pro for stronger erections. It really works. Cheers.