My girlfriend paid for her exe’s onlyfans page and I don’t know how to feel.

[Deleted member 4645]

Me(23M) and my girlfriend(21F) have been dating for a few months now and things have been going great, or so I thought. We have had quite a few hiccups, nothing too serious. I was at the point where I was convinced this could be the one, and she would say the same. She’d even brag about how she’s never cheated and never will. However, recently she made a comment of how her ex and his girlfriend made an onlyfans page (page where you can pay to watch their porn) and someone had posted a link on the girls twitter to expose her, which she obviously followed. So I asked her if she watched any of it she said, “yeah, but it was censored”. So I left it at that. Fast forward a few hours and she’s asleep so I decide to set her alarm as usual before I sleep, but as soon as I unlock the phone, I see a screenshot of the page she mentioned. Which confused me based on what she had described was on there. I open her browser and see she had left off at their page. At this point, I just felt lost and lied to. I kept going through and find out she paid for a month subscription for all the uncensored videos. I also know she has been using the videos for her alone time because it showed the times she logged in and she had mentioned to me what she was doing at that exact time as well. Is this something that would be considered cheating or am I overreacting?

 

[Deleted member 4645]

Hell, I think it’s just regular old human curiosity to look at it whether it’s an ex boyfriend or not. I would look at it and think about what a fool my ex boyfriend is to have that posted on the internet and be thankful I was dating or married to someone much better! Plus the fact that he treated her so poorly, she’s probably laughing hard at him! Do you really want to throw away a great relationship over something you haven’t even discussed with her? Good luck to you.

 

[Deleted member 8576]

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[Deleted member 4645]

She's not cheating on you; she's just been watching porn that happens to include someone that she's been with. She probably masturbates whilst thinking about ex partners anyway (don't you?) - don't make this into a big thing when it doesn't need to be.

Also, you're not fooling anyone by saying that you "accidentally saw this on her phone", and you won't fool her with that either, so if you do bring it up you're not going to get far playing the injured party.

I know this sounds harsh, and that most people will probably respond telling you to break up with her etc., but ask yourself honestly, if the roles were reversed, wouldn't you have watched?

 

[Deleted member 4645]

You've only dated her for a few months. You barely know this girl. Of course she's gonna have feelings for her ex still. There's history there.

Don't be so naive with all that soulmate shit.

 

[Deleted member 4645]

You've only dated her for a few months. You barely know this girl. Of course she's gonna have feelings for her ex still. There's history there.

Don't be so naive with all that soulmate shit.

You’re right. Ever since we met, we basically hit it off great and spent almost everyday together since we’re both a bit on the clingy side. Felt very different, but I guess it’s hard to find a genuine person nowadays.

 

[Deleted member 6723]

stop it ur manipulating her. It is her body her choice.

 

[Marsiere214]

No bro it’s not cheating

Didn’t you know?

women can’t cheat.

boom reported, straight to misogynist watch

 

[Deleted member 4645]

No bro it’s not cheating

Didn’t you know?

women can’t cheat

You are probably right but it hurts so much. This is my first time i'm ever feling so much for someone and i feel so much pain. i'm so scared of losing her

 

[Deleted member 8576]

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[Deleted member 9699]

Brother she is just exploring. You shouldn't be entitled to what she does on her free time. You should be grateful she even glances at your subhuman face!

Fucking ungrateful cuck. Be a good soyboy or die.

 

[Deleted member 4410]

Women are wonderful man. She's just very thoughtful of her ex.

 

[Deleted member 6723]

No bro it’s not cheating

Didn’t you know?

women can’t cheat

She's not cheating on you; she's just been watching porn that happens to include someone that she's been with. She probably masturbates whilst thinking about ex partners anyway (don't you?) - don't make this into a big thing when it doesn't need to be.

Also, you're not fooling anyone by saying that you "accidentally saw this on her phone", and you won't fool her with that either, so if you do bring it up you're not going to get far playing the injured party.

I know this sounds harsh, and that most people will probably respond telling you to break up with her etc., but ask yourself honestly, if the roles were reversed, wouldn't you have watched?

jfl

 

[Deleted member 4645]

Any update?

 

[Deleted member 6723]

Tell her you’ve watched it. As she mentioned it and you were interested. Then point out how lucky her ex is to have found such a sexy girlfriend and you can see why they want to ‘put it out there’ for everyone to see.

 

[Marsiere214]

You are probably right but it hurts so much. This is my first time i'm ever feling so much for someone and i feel so much pain. i'm so scared of losing her

Its okay bro.
Try inviting a Black therapist over.
Just eat soy while he fixes her bro
I tried it last year and now she loves. Me. Hell, I’m even taking care of their kid rn.

 

[Deleted member 4645]

Tell her you’ve watched it. As she mentioned it and you were interested. Then point out how lucky her ex is to have found such a sexy girlfriend and you can see why they want to ‘put it out there’ for everyone to see.

That’s good and what you’re saying is true. I’ll find a way to catch her off guard. Idk why she’d do something like that. The guy cheated on her and she claims to have a strong hate for him. I appreciate the input.

 

[Deleted member 6723]

You've only dated her for a few months. You barely know this girl. Of course she's gonna have feelings for her ex still. There's history there.

Don't be so naive with all that soulmate shit.

 

[Deleted member 6723]

You've only dated her for a few months. You barely know this girl. Of course she's gonna have feelings for her ex still. There's history there.

Don't be so naive with all that soulmate shit.

You’re right. Ever since we met, we basically hit it off great and spent almost everyday together since we’re both a bit on the clingy side. Felt very different, but I guess it’s hard to find a genuine person nowadays.

 

[Marsiere214]

You've only dated her for a few months. You barely know this girl. Of course she's gonna have feelings for her ex still. There's history there.

Don't be so naive with all that soulmate shit.

Yeah don’t be a misogynist.

 

[Deleted member 6723]

thread was suifuel tbh I want to kill his gf

 

[Marsiere214]

thread was suifuel tbh I want to kill his gf

Eat some soy

 

[Marsiere214]

 

[Deleted member 6723]

hope he killed that stupid fucking whore

 

[Deleted member 8576]

long thread moment

 

[turkproducer]

She's not cheating on you; she's just been watching porn that happens to include someone that she's been with. She probably masturbates whilst thinking about ex partners anyway (don't you?) - don't make this into a big thing when it doesn't need to be.

Also, you're not fooling anyone by saying that you "accidentally saw this on her phone", and you won't fool her with that either, so if you do bring it up you're not going to get far playing the injured party.

I know this sounds harsh, and that most people will probably respond telling you to break up with her etc., but ask yourself honestly, if the roles were reversed, wouldn't you have watched?

clown world

 

[Deleted member 8576]

me trying to decipher the meaning of this thread tbh

 

[Deleted member 4645]

me trying to decipher the meaning of this thread tbh
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[turkproducer]

me trying to decipher the meaning of this thread tbh
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it’s just showing how hypocritical everything is, men are shamed for anything even suspecting that their other is cucking them

 

[Deleted member 7747]

You definitely have the right to feel some type of way, that's quite dubious of her. Did she do it out of curiosity and intrigue? Or is it something more? Only she knows that. Just ask her in-person. You'll immediately be able to gauge what her intentions are by how she reacts...

PS. Who in the actual fuck has an OnlyFans page? What the fuck is wrong with this generation? I can't I'm going home...