AlexAP
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Last week, me (M 31) and my wife (F 30) of 9 months recently went to a restaurant and before we left she was wearing a see through dress with no bra on, this did very much piss me off, but instead of saying that, I just told her what she was wearing made me uncomfortable. She told me that she likes to feel sexy when she's out around men, and she likes to feel wanted, and I told her that all that should matter is that I want her. She told me that bored her, instead of making us late to our reservation I just sighed and finished getting dressed. While we we're there the waiter was flirting with her the whole time and she didn't do anything about it, I was going to say something but I wanted to see if she would act like a married woman.
When we got home she was showering and she left her phone on, I looked due to her recently concerning behavior and saw that she has flirtatious conversations, most of them are boys in their 20s, as soon as she finished her shower I demanded to know what was going on. She told me that she likes being sexualized and that it's my fault for not making her feel attractive. It's been a week and she refuses to put on her ring when she goes out now, we haven't had sex since that incident.
I love her more than anything but at this point, I think I should leave her. I don't know what's happening, if this is some mid life crisis she's going through or she's just unloyal, this behavior came out of nowhere, I just need some advice.
When we got home she was showering and she left her phone on, I looked due to her recently concerning behavior and saw that she has flirtatious conversations, most of them are boys in their 20s, as soon as she finished her shower I demanded to know what was going on. She told me that she likes being sexualized and that it's my fault for not making her feel attractive. It's been a week and she refuses to put on her ring when she goes out now, we haven't had sex since that incident.
I love her more than anything but at this point, I think I should leave her. I don't know what's happening, if this is some mid life crisis she's going through or she's just unloyal, this behavior came out of nowhere, I just need some advice.