One day my oneitis treated me like a god today she treated me like trash

[Aesthetic]

She approached me asked me on a date, kept approaching me and from my point of view everything was ok altho i didnt want to have oneitis for this girl

Today she gave me a disgusted look out of nowhere and cringed when i joke around with my friend in private (whore was eavesdreavesdropping me)

Found out she also has a boyfriend, jfl and she knows i know now. Maybe this is why she is act like this so i wouldnt get inbetween the relationship ? Or am i just coping hard?
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[Deleted member 3902]

Tbh jfl u could have been the boyfriend and the other dude would have wrote this essay now

 

[Swolepenisman]

dont talk to her again at all or act friendly at all until they break up let it be obvious you have no use for her as just a friend

 

[Aesthetic]

Tbh jfl u could have been the boyfriend and the other dude would have wrote this essay now

She literally started approaching me while being in a relationship jfl she is dating him for 6 months already

 

[Deleted member 685]

I'll never understand women

 

[verZYownZZun]

Chad is deity 24/7

 

[ZyzzReincarnate]

why tf am i tagge

 

[Aesthetic]

why tf am i tagge

You gave me advice in my previous thread hence why i tagged

 

[Ghostcel]

Fuck her and throw her away

 

[Deleted member 773]

It’s because your collagen was weak that day bro.

if you want my advice, you should kick her face in

 

[TsarTsar444]

She has a bf but wants to go on a date with you?? No waaay

 

[ZyzzReincarnate]

You gave me advice in my previous thread hence why i tagged

jfl i literally forgot

 

[Aesthetic]

She has a bf but wants to go on a date with you?? No waaay

Jfl idk what this girl wants

 

[Bewusst]

she found your looksmax posts about her

 

[TsarTsar444]

Jfl idk what this girl wants

If she has a bf but wants a date with you thats a red flag

 

[Aesthetic]

If she has a bf but wants a date with you thats a red flag

Obviously i just wish this girl to leave me alone at this point tbh, i always treated her like shit but she doesnt seem to leave me to my own devices

 

[Deleted member 3299]

women are fukkin retarded

dont worry about it

 

[Deleted member 4209]

my oneitis always mistreats me

 

[Aesthetic]

my oneitis always mistreats me

How she treated me made me want to beat her stalking ass up, act one way or the other. Dont change on me 24/7

How you can deal with mistreatment is beyond me

 

[bonesoverblood]

She has a bf but wants to go on a date with you?? No waaay

Hypergamy

 

[Deleted member 3583]

she hitting you with the bait and switch. she's been watching alpha male strategies

 

[Aesthetic]

she hitting you with the bait and switch. she's been watching alpha male strategies

if she continues to play these games i shall destroy her ego

 

[2peasinapod]

thought you were 30+ lmao

 

[Aesthetic]

thought you were 30+ lmao

LMao wtf i am literally 16 turning 17

What made you think i am fckn 30+ JFL

 

[2peasinapod]

LMao wtf i am literally 16 turning 17

What made you think i am fckn 30+ JFL

we know who you are mate

 

[Deleted member 4645]

Listen, I've already been there. The girl is crazy and her behavior seems irrational. She has a boyfriend but just wanted you to chase her to inflate her ego or keep you as a back up plan to monkeybranch.

Go no contact. That's why I did, even though the girl is in my class. But I'm glad I did it.

 

[Aesthetic]

Listen, I've already been there. The girl is crazy and her behavior seems irrational. She has a boyfriend but just wanted you to chase her to inflate her ego or keep you as a back up plan to monkeybranch.

Go no contact. That's why I did, even though the girl is in my class. But I'm glad I did it.

How did it end up? did she leave you alone after no contact, or did she still try to string you along? ( i believe she is trying to string me along for validation)

How is your relationship rn with her? Non-existent or just formal talk?

 

[Deleted member 2661]

Didn't read, she is on her period most likely jfl

 

[Deleted member 4645]

How did it end up? did she leave you alone after no contact, or did she still try to string you along? ( i believe she is trying to string me along for validation)

How is your relationship rn with her? Non-existent or just formal talk?

Basically, she was flirting with me for a while, even asked for my phone number. We got really close, but she seemed to play hot and cold. And everytime I tried to distance myself, she'd get mad and try to get my attention back in any way possible, even by blocking me out of nowhere just so I ask her what's up.

Eventually I got tried of us playing games, so I straight up told her that I liked her, and knew she did too. For some reason she took it as an offense and said she already had a BF. I was confused, but assumed she was just mad, so I tried to be understanding for a couple weeks, but she kept acting cold.

I was full of resentment. So I decided to go no contact. I didn't say a word to her or even looked at her anymore. Suddenly, she tried to talk to me again, dressed suggestively, bumped into me "randomly", tried to make me jealous, told classmates we were together, and even sent friends of her to try to reconciliate us. But I kept ignoring them. To this day, she still glances at me and "follows me around", but I just act as if she's non-existant.

Either she genuinely liked me and was really clingy, or she was just a narcy who saw me as a validation giving machine. In both cases, she's just not who I thought she was, and I inevitably lost my oneitis for her.

 

[Aesthetic]

Basically, she was flirting with me for a while, even asked for my phone number. We got really close, but she seemed to play hot and cold. And everytime I tried to distance myself, she'd get mad and try to get my attention back in any way possible, even by blocking me out of nowhere just so I ask her what's up.

Eventually I got tried of us playing games, so I straight up told her that I liked her, and knew she did too. For some reason she took it as an offense and said she already had a BF. I was confused, but assumed she was just mad, so I tried to be understanding for a couple weeks, but she kept acting cold.

I was full of resentment. So I decided to go no contact. I didn't say a word to her or even looked at her anymore. Suddenly, she tried to talk to me again, dressed suggestively, bumped into me "randomly", tried to make me jealous, told classmates we were together, and even sent friends of her to try to reconciliate us. But I kept ignoring them. To this day, she still glances at me and "follows me around", but I just act as if she's non-existant.

Either she genuinely liked me and was really clingy, or she was just a narcy who saw me as a validation giving machine. In both cases, she's just not who I thought she was, and I inevitably lost my onetisis for her.

Dude this sounds exactly like something I went through a couple of years ago with a friend of mine. We dont speak anymore now tho and i ruined alot of my friendships bcs of that girl

Can i ask if you life in the Netherlands? Jfl if i know you IRL tbh.

 

[AutisticBeaner]

dont talk to her again at all or act friendly at all until they break up let it be obvious you have no use for her as just a friend

thats the treatment im giving to my former oneitis right now lol

 

[Swolepenisman]

thats the treatment im giving to my former oneitis right now lol

same not gonna contct her agai untill shes single we kissed like 4 days befroe she got a bf i friendzoned her cause i was dumb regret tht so much

 

[Deleted member 4645]

Dude this sounds exactly like something I went through a couple of years ago with a friend of mine. We dont speak anymore now tho and i ruined alot of my friendships bcs of that girl

Can i ask if you life in the Netherlands? Jfl if i know you IRL tbh.

Oh nah, would have been a crazy coincidence tho

 

[Slayer]

You have to act on IOIs immediately otherwise the girl will lose interest extremely fast

 

[Aesthetic]

You have to act on IOIs immediately otherwise the girl will lose interest extremely fast

just 2 days have passed lmao

 

[Slayer]

just 2 days have passed lmao

indeed son. bitches got so many options (and in your case a boyfriend lmao) and act almost purely on instinct. if she was horny for you in that moment you had to capitalize before the instinct passed

 

[Aesthetic]

indeed son. bitches got so many options (and in your case a boyfriend lmao) and act almost purely on instinct. if she was horny for you in that moment you had to capitalize before the instinct passed

Fuck this hoe i aint taking no sloppy seconds

 

[Slayer]

Fuck this hoe i aint taking no sloppy seconds

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