So how to hit on girls in clubs?

[Deleted member 616]

From next week on I’ll probably start my socialmaxxing to test my looksmaxing results. There’s a chubby orbiter who’s willing to take me to local activities so I won’t show up alone like a retard. The problem is that I’ve never hit on a girl in clubs in my life. All my LTRs/ lays started online where my non NTness wasn’t that of a big issue.

NTcels give me some tipps.

 

[Petsmart]

“You have a quite satisfactory gonial angle my dear”

 

[IWantToMax]

From next week on I’ll probably start my socialmaxxing to test my looksmaxing results. There’s a chubby orbiter who’s willing to take me to local activities so I won’t show up alone like a retard. The problem is that I’ve never hit on a girl in clubs in my life. All my LTRs/ lays started online where my non NTness wasn’t that of a big issue.

NTcels give me some tipps.

We need to make a looksmaxing section thread on it.

I'd be down to gather information from here and there.

No bluepill shit cope.
Just actual ways to approach and do shit like that.

I'm the first one in need of that knowledge.

 

[Deleted member 3043]

 

[Deleted member 1212]

Just don’t be autistic

 

[IWantToMax]

Just don’t be autistic

We need to learn socialization. It doesn't come out natural for every one.

 

[Zygos4Life]

Just say hello its not hard
Shell make her impressions on you based on face, not what you say

 

[Petsmart]

 

[Pietrosiek]

Dn rd they will hit on you if you're hot

 

[IWantToMax]

Just say hello its not hard
Shell make her impressions on you based on face, not what you say

If you talk on the dance floor in all honesty you're retarded tbh.
I mean how are you even supposed to be heard

 

[Deleted member 616]

We need to make a looksmaxing section thread on it.

I'd be down to gather information from here and there.

No bluepill shit cope.
Just actual ways to approach and do shit like that.

I'm the first one in need of that knowledge.

My ex and many of her friends got into LTR because guys hit on them in clubs. Most of these guys were literally manlets and subhumans that I mog hard. So I don’t think looks would be a problem for me but I need tipps on approaching (not retarded cold approach but for parties where you’re supposed to get to know new people )

 

[Zygos4Life]

If you talk on the dance floor in all honesty you're retarded tbh.
I mean how are you even supposed to be heard

What else you going to do

 

[Deleted member 616]

Dn rd they will hit on you if you're hot

I’ve been to parties where some foids were looking at me but I was with my ex so...

 

[Deleted member 3043]

Most of these guys were literally manlets and subhumans that I mog hard

gtfih @toolateforme give yours tips.

 

[IWantToMax]

What else you going to do

I mean maybe just fucking dance?

My ex and many of her friends got into LTR because guys hit on them in clubs. Most of these guys were literally manlets and subhumans that I mog hard. So I don’t think looks would be a problem for me but I need tipps on approaching (not retarded cold approach but for parties where you’re supposed to get to know new people )

Yeah. That'd be my goal aswell

 

[Pietrosiek]

I’ve been to parties where some foids were looking at me but I was with my ex so...

Slayer

 

[Deleted member 616]

gtfih @toolateforme give yours tips.

JFL he’s a fakecel who NTmogs the entire forum

 

[Deleted member 3043]

JFL he’s a fakecel who NTmogs the entire forum

mirin his low inhibition tbh, close to st hamidu

 

[6'4 looksmaxxxer]

Chat them up casually tbh and look for ioi if they're absent go to the next girl

 

[Deleted member 616]

mirin his low inhibition tbh, close to st hamidu

But Hamudi is kissless , he isn’t

 

[Butthurt Dweller]

Aim for the chin and dont tuck your thumb

 

[Deleted member 616]

Chat them up casually tbh and look for ioi if they're absent go to the next girl

I suck at talking to a group of people tbh. If it’s one to one it’d be much easier for me

 

[6'4 looksmaxxxer]

“You have a quite satisfactory gonial angle my dear”

"mirin your waist to hip ratio my love"

 

[Deleted member 3043]

But Hamudi is kissless , he isn’t

for real you believe hamudi is an incel ?
i'll bet my 2 cent that he has a wife and all shit

 

[rockndogs]

Just punch their faces

 

[IWantToMax]

I suck at talking to a group of people tbh. If it’s one to one it’d be much easier for me

Unfortunately they're in group generally.
I mean, who would hang out alone.

 

[6'4 looksmaxxxer]

I suck at talking to a group of people tbh. If it’s one to one it’d be much easier for me

Go for chicks who are alone or go with a friend to help with the anxiety if it's a group of chicks alcohol helps a lot too"

 

[IronMike]

in clubs, your height and face mean the most. you could literally walk up to them and say, "I shit myself" and as long as she approves of these factors, she will react positively.

 

[Deleted member 616]

in clubs, your height and face mean the most. you could literally walk up to them and say, "I shit myself" and as long as she approves of these factors, she will react positively.

Based

 

[IWantToMax]

in clubs, your height and face mean the most. you could literally walk up to them and say, "I shit myself" and as long as she approves of these factors, she will react positively.

Imagine being capable of walking up to them

 

[Deleted member 3328]

eye contact, smile, dance, hold her hand, hopefully a loud club so you don't have to talk much

 

[TsarTsar444]

You don't, just ldar on looksmax.me 8 horus a day bro

 

[autistic_tendencies]

If you’re gl you just need to be present

 

[toolateforme]

Just ask her name and say some funny shit.
If shes not interested it's over. It's all about looks anyway.

 

[Deleted member 616]

If you’re gl you just need to be present

Be chad or death theory is always legit

say some funny shit.

“Good evening buddy boyo your gonial angle is crazy” “Mirin’ your boobs ngl”

 

[Deleted member 2854]

Just ask her name and say some funny shit.
If shes not interested it's over. It's all about looks anyway.

‘Just say some funny shit’ as if this is easy to do for any posters here. Such vague and shitty advice

 

[Deleted member 2581]

Sneak up next her And say aye little mama lemme whisper in ya ear

No but seirously I want all you guys to watch this documentary on Netflix it will open your eyes.

getting sex is ridiculously easy if your not high inhibition and autistic

 

[LemmeRope]

Ugh

 

[Pietrosiek]

Girls that are still in education will only hit on the best looking and socializing guys.

I'm 21, at least 5.5psl and I got hit on 3 times.

fuck you

 

[LowTierNormie]

I feel like I'm one of the most "normal" users on here, so I can speak a bit about that.

1.- A lot of normies go clubbing with their homework already done. That means they have already talked with a few girls through Insta or some shit before going to that club. That way they can physically reach to them to greet them, because they already knew each other through Insta

2.-Don't expect to get girls every single night. Most normies get laid maybe once a month at most. And even them, most of the time you'll only manage to make out with some random foid, and things won't get past that level.

3.- Don't feel attached to any foid you manage to fuck/maje out/whatever with. Most of the time they are just using you the same way you should do with them. A lot of girls barely remember the names of a lot of guys they banged in a club. You'll just be random dude number 27 on their list.

 

[Deleted member 616]

I feel like I'm one of the most "normal" users on here, so I can speak a bit about that.

1.- A lot of normies go clubbing with their homework already done. That means they have already talked with a few girls through Insta or some shit before going to that club. That way they can physically reach to them to greet them, because they already knew each other through Insta

2.-Don't expect to get girls every single night. Most normies get laid maybe once a month at most. And even them, most of the time you'll only manage to make out with some random foid, and things won't get past that level.

3.- Don't feel attached to any foid you manage to fuck/maje out/whatever with. Most of the time they are just using you the same way you should do with them. A lot of girls barely remember the names of a lot of guys they banged in a club. You'll just be random dude number 27 on their list.

Thx for the information. My primary goal is to test my looksmaxing results so I care more about validation than actually getting laid because as you said most of the time you don't get a quality one.

 

[DoctorPMA]

Just LOL to people telling you to strike a conversation. Have you guys even been to clubs? Clubs are loud af, good luck having a good convo when ur both drunk. You exchange a few sentences MAX, dance together and see where it goes from there. If she is not interested stop trying right away. Also, don't be a loser and buy her or her friends bunch of drinks at the club. Sometimes I see dudes doing it to get in with a girl and its beta cringe shit

1.- A lot of normies go clubbing with their homework already done. That means they have already talked with a few girls through Insta or some shit before going to that club. That way they can physically reach to them to greet them, because they already knew each other through Insta

2.-Don't expect to get girls every single night. Most normies get laid maybe once a month at most. And even them, most of the time you'll only manage to make out with some random foid, and things won't get past that level.

3.- Don't feel attached to any foid you manage to fuck/maje out/whatever with. Most of the time they are just using you the same way you should do with them. A lot of girls barely remember the names of a lot of guys they banged in a club. You'll just be random dude number 27 on their list.

Good advice.

 

[LowTierNormie]

Thx for the information. My primary goal is to test my looksmaxing results so I care more about validation than actually getting laid because as you said most of the time you don't get a quality one.

You will feel validated as fuck. Two days ago I went clubbing for the first time after losing weight and I managed to make out with a foid. And now I feel like a god. I feel good when looking at myself in the mirror, and I feel confident in myself again. It is probably cope and placebo effect, but it feels great to feel like a men once again, and not some subhuman

Just LOL to people telling you to strike a conversation. Have you guys even been to clubs? Clubs are loud af, good luck having a good convo when ur both drunk. You exchange a few sentences MAX, dance together and see where it goes from there. If she is not interested stop trying right away. Also, don't be a loser and buy her or her friends bunch of drinks at the club. Sometimes I see dudes doing it to get in with a girl and its beta cringe shit

Good advice.

This. You'll probably notice really fast if she is not interested, unless you are literally autistic.
Talking is imposible inside the club, just go outside to the parking or the smokers zone if you feel like talking with a foid, but you'll probably manage to make a fool out of yourself by approaching randomly

 

[reptiles]

From next week on I’ll probably start my socialmaxxing to test my looksmaxing results. There’s a chubby orbiter who’s willing to take me to local activities so I won’t show up alone like a retard. The problem is that I’ve never hit on a girl in clubs in my life. All my LTRs/ lays started online where my non NTness wasn’t that of a big issue.

NTcels give me some tipps.

Best of luck to you brother

 

[Deleted member 275]

I have approached drunk girls with the line: "Hey, I saw you standing there and I thought you were really attractive. Wanna kiss?"
and we would end up making out

Other times you get rejected instantly without them even allowing you to finish your sentence lmao. It's a fucking numbers game and the better you look, the higher the chance is she likes you.

 

[IWantToMax]

I have approached drunk girls with the line: "Hey, I saw you standing there and I just thought you were really attractive. Wanna kiss?"
and we would end up making out

Other times you get rejected instantly without them even allowing you to finish your sentence lmao. It's a fucking numbers game and the better you look, the higher the chance is she likes you.

I need to find the confidence to approach.
How did you do it the first time?

I seem not to get open even with alcohol and weed tbh.

 

[Deleted member 616]

I have approached drunk girls with the line: "Hey, I saw you standing there and I just thought you were really attractive. Wanna kiss?"
and we would end up making out

Other times you get rejected instantly without them even allowing you to finish your sentence lmao. It's a fucking numbers game and the better you look, the higher the chance is she likes you.

Be chad or death

 

[Deleted member 275]

I need to find the confidence to approach.
How did you do it the first time?

I seem not to get open even with alcohol and weed tbh.

Depends.
(20%)Sometimes I feel confident, happy and social due to it being a chilled night with friends and it goes automatically, no inhibition.
(70%)Other times I force myself to do it after hesitating for 15 mins and telling myself to stop being a pussy lol.
(10%)Very few times, I go to the toilet for a moment for myself in which I really start asking myself what the fuck I am doing and that I should stop being a high inhib guy that's not enjoying his life. I bang on the toilet door a few times, give a small scream, and go out hyped asf ready to approach.

Even after a few succesfull aproaches it's no different. Most nights I don't approach at all and the nights that I do I approach 5-10 girls in the same evening.

Key is to just escalate and not talk too much. Most slays I have had in clubs were with less than 5 sentences spoken in total before making out. I am too autistic to hold NT conversations so it works perfectly.

 

[IWantToMax]

Depends.
(20%)Sometimes I feel confident, happy and social due to it being a chilled night with friends and it goes automatically, no inhibition.
(70%)Other times I force myself to do it after hesitating for 15 mins and telling myself to stop being a pussy lol.
(10%)Very few times, I go to the toilet for a moment for myself in which I really start asking myself what the fuck I am doing and that I should stop being a high inhib guy that's not enjoying his life. I bang on the toilet door a few times, give a small scream, and go out hyped asf ready to approach.

Even after a few succesfull aproaches it's no different tbh. Most nights I don't approach at all and the nights that I do I approach 5-10 girls in the same evening.

Key is to just escalate and not talk too much tbh. Most slays I have had in clubs were with less than 5 sentences spoken in total before making out. I am too autistic to hold NT conversations so it works perfectly.

Fuck. Next time I'm going I will make it.

I need to stop being a pussy tbh.

Never ever approached.

But not for long.

 

[Catawampus]

In for the replies, I need to nt max as well.