Talked to my parents at the dinner table about my GF. They gave me some advice.

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My parents told me they heard me sobbing upstairs in my room for a good hour and wanted to talk about it with me at the dinner table as honestly as I could.
  • I told them about my relationship with the girl, what my friends told me, and the sort of activities we did together. These included the following:
    • I told them what my four friends said to me over the phone
    • I told them the emotions that went through me after what they said
  • This included any sexual activity as well as bonding/dating activities.
    • Going on road trips together
    • Playing video games together
    • Playing music together
    • Drawing/painting together
    • Eating out together
    • Cooking together
    • We have sex pretty often, but most of the time she initiates it in the car. The sex style isn't what I like at all (I prefer romantic and sweet, emotional sex, she likes it pretty rough and kinky to the point my genitals and lips bled)
Based on what I told them today plus their own personal assessment, they advised me to do the following:
  • Mum: Talk to her over the phone, or speak to her about her past in person over the weekend and if she's willing to own up and turn over a new leaf, keep her
  • Dad: Send her a text over WhatsApp and break up with her. Do NOT visit her this weekend, and NEVER see her again. Block her on all platforms.
They told me that she was manipulating me into commitment by LARPing as a "nice, good girl" but is, in reality, a raging Marxist with an astonishingly high body count and it would be a bad idea to LTR a girl who is likely a compulsive liar. My dad especially believes she is depraved, sick and just wants to add me as another one of her (likely 100+ bodies according to him) bodies. She sees me as a fetish object because of my prettyboyish looks and to add, she has been caught watching gay porn with a prettyboy bottoming and being spat on while I was taking a dump. He said I should cut off all contact with her because I shouldn't just be taken as some dumb, easy walkover moron and if I LTR her, he thinks the children might be degenerates and not compatible with my faith/upbringing. He said I deserve better than "a rough, promiscuous Western-raised girl from a single-mother council estate" who wants to "manipulate and destroy the soul of someone's son".
I also told him that she tried to coerce me to have sex without a condom, and I refused every single time. He thinks she wants to get a baby out of me, and dump me. So I should dump her before she dumps me out of "boredom". He even believes she could be having sex right at this minute with another man.

Meanwhile, my mum thinks she should be given a chance as I enjoyed being with her emotionally and the bonding activities we had brought us closer together. She also thinks that most Western women have high body counts and I shouldn't just dump a girl because she's "promiscuous".

Maybe I shouldn't have moved in too quickly with her but again I blame this on my loneliness and inexperience.

What do you think?
 
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They also said sex should be an act of love and not torture, and a girl who truly loves me would happily make eye contact with/kiss me while having sex. Not "torturing" someone to the point where they turn red and bleed. They think if I continue to see her, I could end up with depression.

And honestly, all this extreme sex is putting me off even though she's a great person.
 
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  • I told them about my relationship with the girl, what my friends told me, and the sort of activities we did together. These included the following:
    • I told them what my four friends said to me over the phone
    • I told them the emotions that went through me after what they said
  • This included any sexual activity as well as bonding/dating activities.
You told them that she was licking your ass?
 
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You told them that she was rimming your ass?
Yup, I did.
Mum said it was another part of sex life but Dad said "that's literally the place where shit passes out of you"
 
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Yup, I did.
Mum said it was another part of sex life but Dad said "that's literally the place where shit passes out of you"
Damn next time you will show them a video of a session.
 
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@PingPong are you reading this?
 
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Okay, I just sent her a text saying that she seems to be very experienced. I asked her where did she get all those skills from?
This was on WhatsApp
 
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she is crazy bro
I think you'd better leave her
mogger
 
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she is crazy bro
I think you'd better leave her
mogger
Seems like it, crazy in what way though?
And how should I leave her?

I just sent her a text a couple of minutes ago, checked WhatsApp and she left it on read....
 
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bro, you seem like a good person, but you´re a bit too innocent/ naive I guess.

All of these things you worry about are just speculations. Nothing is actually confirmed to be true. Other people are always qick to recommend drastic measures to other people, because they don´t have to live with the consequences.
This is your life and even if you´re naturally a more shy / submissive person, you have to take charge over your own life.
Do you like the relationship? Is anything going wrong between you two in your opinion, besides what other people say?

And obviously, your strict arab dad won´t be a fan of rimming (like I said, couldn`t imagine talking about this with mine jfl). What I wouldve probably done is to find people who know her and get your friends to ask about your gfs past (casually about her ex bfs).
Don´t get too riled up about the whole situation jfl.
 
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My parents told me they heard me sobbing upstairs in my room for a good hour and wanted to talk about it with me at the dinner table as honestly as I could.
  • I told them about my relationship with the girl, what my friends told me, and the sort of activities we did together. These included the following:
    • I told them what my four friends said to me over the phone
    • I told them the emotions that went through me after what they said
  • This included any sexual activity as well as bonding/dating activities.
    • Going on road trips together
    • Playing video games together
    • Playing music together
    • Drawing/painting together
    • Eating out together
    • Cooking together
    • We have sex pretty often, but most of the time she initiates it in the car. The sex style isn't what I like at all (I prefer romantic and sweet, emotional sex, she likes it pretty rough and kinky to the point my genitals and lips bled)
Based on what I told them today plus their own personal assessment, they advised me to do the following:
  • Mum: Talk to her over the phone, or speak to her about her past in person over the weekend and if she's willing to own up and turn over a new leaf, keep her
  • Dad: Send her a text over WhatsApp and break up with her. Do NOT visit her this weekend, and NEVER see her again. Block her on all platforms.
They told me that she was manipulating me into commitment by LARPing as a "nice, good girl" but is, in reality, a raging Marxist with an astonishingly high body count and it would be a bad idea to LTR a girl who is likely a compulsive liar. My dad especially believes she is depraved, sick and just wants to add me as another one of her (likely 100+ bodies according to him) bodies. She sees me as a fetish object because of my prettyboyish looks and to add, she has been caught watching gay porn with a prettyboy bottoming and being spat on while I was taking a dump. He said I should cut off all contact with her because I shouldn't just be taken as some dumb, easy walkover moron and if I LTR her, he thinks the children might be degenerates and not compatible with my faith/upbringing. He said I deserve better than "a rough, promiscuous Western-raised girl from a single-mother council estate" who wants to "manipulate and destroy the soul of someone's son".
I also told him that she tried to coerce me to have sex without a condom, and I refused every single time. He thinks she wants to get a baby out of me, and dump me. So I should dump her before she dumps me out of "boredom". He even believes she could be having sex right at this minute with another man.

Meanwhile, my mum thinks she should be given a chance as I enjoyed being with her emotionally and the bonding activities we had brought us closer together. She also thinks that most Western women have high body counts and I shouldn't just dump a girl because she's "promiscuous".

Maybe I shouldn't have moved in too quickly with her but again I blame this on my loneliness and inexperience.

What do you think?
Do what your Mom says. If she's uncooperative in any way, or you feel like she's not being forthright, then move on to your father's suggestion.
 
Seeme like it, crazy in what way though?
And how should I leave her?

I just sent her a text a couple of minutes ago, checked WhatsApp and she left it on read....
manipulative evil crazy and up to no good

I'm telling ya you don't want to stick around for too long

You're a soft chad so bitches like her want you to get attatched and will play with you until they get bored
 
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Healthy relationship with parents mogs me.

This is a really tricky situation. Personally, i have never been dominated by a girl, but am very dominant and mildly depraved when it comes to fucking a girl, even ones i love. To me, sex is always emotional, even hookups. The idea of two partners engaging and exposing themselves and being so open and vulnerable is romantic to me, even if im choking the girl while slapping her face and calling her names. Being kinky doesn't necessarily mean that she only sees you as a object of sexual desire, it could be possible she does actually care about you. But the most important thing to me in ANY relationship is honesty. I literally care about honesty above all else, and from my experience, if she is a liar from early on, she will continue to be a liar, not become more honest. Even if she admits it to you what she has or hasnt done, she most likely will continue to be dishonest. It sounds like she knows you are onto her. If she tries and turn this onto you somehow, breakup with her right then. Girls like this always try to blame you for not being comfortable with their past when in reality you are entitled to be with whoever you feel comfortable with as much as she is entitled to be a whore. See what she says tho. <3
 
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bro, you seem like a good person, but you´re a bit too innocent/ naive I guess.

All of these things you worry about are just speculations. Nothing is actually confirmed to be true. Other people are always qick to recommend drastic measures to other people, because they don´t have to live with the consequences.
This is your life and even if you´re naturally a more shy / submissive person, you have to take charge over your own life.
Do you like the relationship? Is anything going wrong between you two in your opinion, besides what other people say?

And obviously, your strict arab dad won´t be a fan of rimming (like I said, couldn`t imagine talking about this with mine jfl). What I wouldve probably done is to find people who know her and get your friends to ask about your gfs past (casually about her ex bfs).
Don´t get too riled up about the whole situation jfl.
Thank you; I guess my naivety comes from the fact I'm so inexperienced and highly sensitive at the same time...
I like the relationship and to me, she comes across as a sweet, nice girl but I'm not sure if she's putting up a front to me and is hiding who she really is inside. I'm not a fan of the kind of sex she wants to perform on me either; it's pretty degrading and to me it's like being tortured and humiliated... I heard that girls who don't have anything to hide won't act so "nice" and like a "dream girl" right at the beginning.

That's true; I never performed rimming on her but she did when I was blindfolded... My Nigerian-origin friend knows about her because his white friend (not her previous BF) slept with her once for a ONS and according to him, she's been passed around many times.
 
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Do what your Mom says. If she's uncooperative in any way, or you feel like she's not being forthright, then move on to your father's suggestion.
Thank you for the suggestion.
I actually sent her a text saying that "you're very experimental and adventurous, where or who did you learn all those spicy sex skills from?" but unfortunately she left me on read about 40 minutes ago and did not respond. She was last seen 4 minutes ago.
 
manipulative evil crazy and up to no good

I'm telling ya you don't want to stick around for too long

You're a soft chad so bitches like her want you to get attatched and will play with you until they get bored
I actually sent her a text saying that "you're very experimental and adventurous, where or who did you learn all those spicy sex skills from?" but unfortunately she left me on read about 40 minutes ago and did not respond. She was last seen 4 minutes ago.

What are the reasons that she might be manipulative?
A soft chad? What about soft chads?

And oftentimes she was the one who'd ask to come to my house (and to disguise it as a male-female friendship) and I honestly felt she was rushing into it a bit too quickly...
 
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Healthy relationship with parents mogs me.

This is a really tricky situation. Personally, i have never been dominated by a girl, but am very dominant and mildly depraved when it comes to fucking a girl, even ones i love. To me, sex is always emotional, even hookups. The idea of two partners engaging and exposing themselves and being so open and vulnerable is romantic to me, even if im choking the girl while slapping her face and calling her names. Being kinky doesn't necessarily mean that she only sees you as a object of sexual desire, it could be possible she does actually care about you. But the most important thing to me in ANY relationship is honesty. I literally care about honesty above all else, and from my experience, if she is a liar from early on, she will continue to be a liar, not become more honest. Even if she admits it to you what she has or hasnt done, she most likely will continue to be dishonest. It sounds like she knows you are onto her. If she tries and turn this onto you somehow, breakup with her right then. Girls like this always try to blame you for not being comfortable with their past when in reality you are entitled to be with whoever you feel comfortable with as much as she is entitled to be a whore. See what she says tho. <3
Thank you :owo:

I agree with the bolded part you said but I can't imagine choking or slapping a girl or calling her names, unless if those names were something along with the likes of "darling", "princess" or "honey"

I really hope she does care about me because she comes across as such on the surface but everything about her now seems a bit... off? Like she's too squeaky-clean and shiny on the surface, and putting on a mask?
Honesty is so important in a relationship and an LTR would definitely break down if one party isn't honest and I feel she isn't being honest to me because of what I stated... How could you have a body count of 1 and you're stretching me open, fisting me and spitting inside me? Slapping and making me bleed? This reads like torture.... A guy shouldn't be dominated and abused like that.... She didn't even admit to liking BDSM until after the first time I had sex with her.

Sent her a text (read above posts) but sadly I was left on read. I have just double texted her right now.
 
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Thank you :owo:

I agree with the bolded part you said but I can't imagine choking or slapping a girl or calling her names, unless if those names were something along with the likes of "darling", "princess" or "honey"

I really hope she does care about me because she comes across as such on the surface but everything about her now seems a bit... off? Like she's too squeaky-clean and shiny on the surface, and putting on a mask?
Honesty is so important in a relationship and an LTR would definitely break down if one party isn't honest and I feel she isn't being honest to me because of what I stated... How could you have a body count of 1 and you're stretching me open, fisting me and spitting inside me? Slapping and making me bleed? This reads like torture.... A guy shouldn't be dominated and abused like that.... She didn't even admit to liking BDSM until after the first time I had sex with her.

Sent her a text (read above posts) but sadly I was left on read. I have just double texted her right now.
@ me when she responds, if it doesnt work out it doesnt work out. Lots of girls try to be sqeuaky clean which is normal enough, everyone trys to present themself in a good light, but doing that by lieing is never ok
 
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@ me when she responds, if it doesnt work out it doesnt work out. Lots of girls try to be sqeuaky clean which is normal enough, everyone trys to present themself in a good light, but doing that by lieing is never ok
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Listen to your dad, hes completely right. Also as a muslim you should know that anal sex is completely, and i mean completely impermissible. So dont do that kind of stuff again. Someone else said it too, you deserve so much better, bro.
 
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Listen to your dad, hes completely right. Also as a muslim you should know that anal sex is completely, and i mean completely impermissible. So dont do that kind of stuff again. Someone else said it too, you deserve so much better, bro.
That's true. She was the one who asked me to give her anal sex and how could I respond when my hormones were all over the place?
I admitted to having anal sex with her and he told me to block her, dump her and move on because of this. Already from this she knew that either she's very liberal, or she only lives with the white parent (my Nigerian friend says this)
 
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@ me when she responds, if it doesnt work out it doesnt work out. Lots of girls try to be sqeuaky clean which is normal enough, everyone trys to present themself in a good light, but doing that by lieing is never ok
She responded "what makes you think I'm so experimental with sex? My ex-boyfriend and I practiced this together so many times and I miss it so much"
 
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That's true. She was the one who asked me to give her anal sex and how could I respond when my hormones were all over the place?
I admitted to having anal sex with her and he told me to block her, dump her and move on because of this. Already from this she knew that either she's very liberal, or she only lives with the white parent (my Nigerian friend says this)
Shes clearly very liberal based on everything ive read, and i made sure to read everything from the start. I honestly think meeting her was a big mistake since your first sexual experience was so degenerate. It shouldve been exactly the way you wanted it; soft and sweet. Not that rough shit and never anal. I dont think shes a good person at all and definitely not the right fit for you. She larped because she cant afford to lose you since youre a 6/8 mogger and shes 4.5/8. Shes dating up, youre dating down. Nothing wrong with dating down UNLESS that person is not the right one.
 
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She responded "what makes you think I'm so experimental with sex? My ex-boyfriend and I practiced this together so many times and I miss it so much"
It took her more than 40 minutes to write this response and left you on seen too? :unsure:
 
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Shes clearly very liberal based on everything ive read, and i made sure to read everything from the start. I honestly think meeting her was a big mistake since your first sexual experience was so degenerate. It shouldve been exactly the way you wanted it; soft and sweet. Not that rough shit and never anal. I dont think shes a good person at all and definitely not the right fit for you. She larped because she cant afford to lose you since youre a 6/8 mogger and shes 4.5/8. Shes dating up, youre dating down. Nothing wrong with dating down UNLESS that person is not the right one.
Liberal in terms of politics or lifestyle?
My friend told me that she was a Marxist at uni and is LARPing as a Tory to me (I'm centrist)
Thank you so much for taking the time to read my threads. I honestly thought it was a bit bold for a woman to be doing the cold approaching but I was so taken aback by her confidence I decided to go for it. And she lied to me about "living with strict Muslim parents" when I found out that she only lives with her white parent??? The only one I saw (in public)??? And she's always hesitant to take me to her house? And she was way too good to be true when I met her but now the picture is getting clearer and she's most likely LARPing as a good girl to get my commitment... and I'm not sure if I can carry on with a girl who's gonna emotionally abuse me...

True; in fact I'm happy to date MTBs if she's the right girl.
 
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It took her more than 40 minutes to write this response and left you on seen too? :unsure:
Her responses so far are pretty sketchy and vague.
I sent her another text and she was last seen 5 minutes ago, left on read 15 minutes ago.
She often responds to my texts very quickly unless if it's an evening on Friday or Saturday. She claims to have very few friends and no social media. I found out she has a Snapchat with a Snap score of 563,943 (it came up on my suggestions on Snapchat, I have a very low Snap score, of around 1,829)

Its so over
What makes you think it's over?

I know it's a giga blackpill....

^^^^^^ MASSIVE red flag
True. Also see what I wrote to true_cel.

Nah.
 
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Liberal in terms of politics or lifestyle?
My friend told me that she was a Marxist at uni and is LARPing as a Tory to me (I'm centrist)
Thank you so much for taking the time to read my threads. I honestly thought it was a bit bold for a woman to be doing the cold approaching but I was so taken aback by her confidence I decided to go for it. And she lied to me about "living with strict Muslim parents" when I found out that she only lives with her white parent??? The only one I saw (in public)??? And she's always hesitant to take me to her house? And she was way too good to be true when I met her but now the picture is getting clearer and she's most likely LARPing as a good girl to get my commitment... and I'm not sure if I can carry on with a girl who's gonna emotionally abuse me...

True; in fact I'm happy to date MTBs if she's the right girl.
In terms of lifestyle but definitely politics as well as shes engaged in feminist debates and stuff like that. And youre welcome, you put a lot of heart into your threads and its bad people were mocking you here and there. You are just a highly sensitive person and people can take advantage of that, like your girlfriend whos taking advantage of you. The fact she lied about her home situation also goes to show shes not someone to be trusted. I dont think you should stay with her, i think you should stay single for a while and find the right person. It will take some time though but thats better than being in an emotionally abusive relationship. Also if you want, i see you say you use whatsapp, we can talk on there if youd like, i can pm you my number.
 
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Her responses so far are pretty sketchy and vague.
I sent her another text and she was last seen 5 minutes ago, left on read 15 minutes ago.
She often responds to my texts very quickly unless if it's an evening on Friday or Saturday. She claims to have very few friends and no social media. I found out she has a Snapchat with a Snap score of 563,943 (it came up on my suggestions on Snapchat, I have a very low Snap score, of around 1,829)


What makes you think it's over?


I know it's a giga blackpill....


True. Also see what I wrote to true_cel.


Nah.
How tf can you have very few friends and have a snap score that high? Thats really high, you cant have that with a small social circle. And her leaving you on seen is another red flag, just like the answer she gave you, esp since it took 40 minutes to come up with that AFTER leaving you on seen too. Ffs.. shes not as invested in you as you are in her and that sucks.
 
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Her responses so far are pretty sketchy and vague.
I sent her another text and she was last seen 5 minutes ago, left on read 15 minutes ago.
She often responds to my texts very quickly unless if it's an evening on Friday or Saturday. She claims to have very few friends and no social media. I found out she has a Snapchat with a Snap score of 563,943 (it came up on my suggestions on Snapchat, I have a very low Snap score, of around 1,829)


What makes you think it's over?


I know it's a giga blackpill....


True. Also see what I wrote to true_cel.


Nah.
She claimed to have like no social media, and she hid her snapchat from you? AND it has over 500,000 score???? Bruh if she hides that she has snapchat from you its bad. Does she try and not let you see her phone or notifications when shes around you? Also check if her snap score changes and by how much if you want to get an idea how much she uses it.
 
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She claimed to have like no social media, and she hid her snapchat from you? AND it has over 500,000 score???? Bruh if she hides that she has snapchat from you its bad. Does she try and not let you see her phone or notifications when shes around you? Also check if her snap score changes and by how much if you want to get an idea how much she uses it.
HER SNAP SCORE JUST WENT UP BY 30. I'M GONNA GIVE HER A PHONE CALL RIGHT NOW :feelswhy::feelswhy::feelswhy:
 
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She claimed to have like no social media, and she hid her snapchat from you? AND it has over 500,000 score???? Bruh if she hides that she has snapchat from you its bad. Does she try and not let you see her phone or notifications when shes around you? Also check if her snap score changes and by how much if you want to get an idea how much she uses it.
She does try to hide her phone and notifications when she's around me...

How tf can you have very few friends and have a snap score that high? Thats really high, you cant have that with a small social circle. And her leaving you on seen is another red flag, just like the answer she gave you, esp since it took 40 minutes to come up with that AFTER leaving you on seen too. Ffs.. shes not as invested in you as you are in her and that sucks.
I know. She claimed not to have a FB or Tiktok and only a small Instagram following. After some digging that Insta account she gave me (I only have 3 followers and only snoop about it for meme accounts) was a Finsta and her actual Insta account has 6.2K followers. It's currently on private with a linktree link but nope, I'm not gonna request to follow it.

In terms of lifestyle but definitely politics as well as shes engaged in feminist debates and stuff like that. And youre welcome, you put a lot of heart into your threads and its bad people were mocking you here and there. You are just a highly sensitive person and people can take advantage of that, like your girlfriend whos taking advantage of you. The fact she lied about her home situation also goes to show shes not someone to be trusted. I dont think you should stay with her, i think you should stay single for a while and find the right person. It will take some time though but thats better than being in an emotionally abusive relationship. Also if you want, i see you say you use whatsapp, we can talk on there if youd like, i can pm you my number.
That's true. When I write something especially for issues close to me I write them from the heart
sometimes it baffles people IRL that I'm highly sensitive even though I don't look it at all
I agree with what you said and I'm really on the fence with the situation right now... Everyone on Lookism is saying that it's an emotionally abusive relationship and one user even said she could force me to bottom for a guy to satisfy her sexual fantasies...
I think it's okay. I'd prefer my identity remain anonymous on here. We can talk in DMs/Disc (if you have it) if things go sour though?
 
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I'm gonna give her a phone call right now. this can't be happening
and her snap score went up by 23, added on to the 30 from a few minutes ago
 
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She ignored me, I'm calling her back again
 
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I'm gonna give her a phone call right now. this can't be happening
and her snap score went up by 23, added on to the 30 from a few minutes ago
Good luck bro
 
She does try to hide her phone and notifications when she's around me...


I know. She claimed not to have a FB or Tiktok and only a small Instagram following. After some digging that Insta account she gave me (I only have 3 followers and only snoop about it for meme accounts) was a Finsta and her actual Insta account has 6.2K followers. It's currently on private with a linktree link but nope, I'm not gonna request to follow it.


That's true. When I write something especially for issues close to me I write them from the heart
sometimes it baffles people IRL that I'm highly sensitive even though I don't look it at all
I agree with what you said and I'm really on the fence with the situation right now... Everyone on Lookism is saying that it's an emotionally abusive relationship and one user even said she could force me to bottom for a guy to satisfy her sexual fantasies...
I think it's okay. I'd prefer my identity remain anonymous on here. We can talk in DMs/Disc (if you have it) if things go sour though?
Shes clearly been lying to you a lot in the short time youve been together..thats someone to be avoided. 6,2k followers is a loooot. Dont request for a follow though. And i think it baffles people because they think good looking guys arent sensitive so thats why theyre taken aback, anyway thats what i would assume. I guess they expect you to be rougher. Idk. And wtf if that lookism theory turns out to be correct thats frickin scary. And no problem, i thought you maybe wanted to someone to talk to. As long as you stay here we can talk on here, otherwise if you leave the forum you can pm me your discord.
 
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Your dad is fucking based and you sound like a little beta cuck
 
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From everything im hearing it sounds like shes a compulsive liar. I hate to get involved in peoples buisness but theres endless red flags. I would side with your dad on this one if i were you. Sucks you are being taken advantage of
 
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Good luck bro
Thank you. I just had a phone call with her and it lasted for quite a while; she was outside when she was taking the call at first and I could hear a few (mostly female) voices in the background. I'm assuming she was out but she sounded a little slurred/light on the line, and low inhib. So she hung up, waited about 10 minutes to go to a quiet area, and started talking to me. She sounded all good-girl, sweet and innocent at first when I tried to talk about nice and casual things to make her happy. Then, I brought up the fact I didn't like the sex she was having with me; then I proceeded to ask her about her sexual fantasies and if she'd ever considered a threesome.

She said she'd never considered having a threesome (my friend said she's been in a few threesomes already)

I asked her about the time when I caught her watching gay porn...

She was pretty sketchy and not giving detailed answers this time, but she admitted she always wanted to have sex with men that "look like sweet, innocent angels" and to watch them get dominated

I laughed at this response (I don't think this at all tbh) but I asked her to elab. She said one of her biggest turn-ons is to have sex with "angelic, innocent-looking men with nice, smooth bodies and big butts" and because I looked like "boyfriend material", "stable" and "a keeper" she really wanted to be my girlfriend

I also asked her if we see each other with children and married and she said "yes, I'd do anything for you"

I also asked her about what she's looking for and she really wants a boyfriend to settle down with, and he must be good-looking and educated.

Then I asked her about her Instagram account, her Onlyfans (that was on her Linktree) and her Snapchat score that was rising. She became so defensive about it and said "I'm broke and I really need to get money" and that "women shouldn't be shamed for posting thirst traps and nudes on the internet"

Then it broke out into a HUGE argument about sex work and the hatred of "men", the fact she's fetishizing me and taking me for granted, and the fact she's a compulsive liar (I brought up EVERY point)... And that I've spent so much money on her, making sure she's happy and taking care of her.... and yet she throws it back in my face (why would her Snap score be going up?)

I asked her about having sex outside of a relationship (my Nigerian friend's white friend) and she denies this... she says she doesn't know who this guy is or his friend.

I asked her about her parental status and she said both of her parents were living together (which is a lie)...

Man there's too much things to take in right now. My head hurts right now and I can't believe this happened to me...


Shes clearly been lying to you a lot in the short time youve been together..thats someone to be avoided. 6,2k followers is a loooot. Dont request for a follow though. And i think it baffles people because they think good looking guys arent sensitive so thats why theyre taken aback, anyway thats what i would assume. I guess they expect you to be rougher. Idk. And wtf if that lookism theory turns out to be correct thats frickin scary. And no problem, i thought you maybe wanted to someone to talk to. As long as you stay here we can talk on here, otherwise if you leave the forum you can pm me your discord.
I won't follow, nope. But I can definitely imagine who are the followers...
Yup that, plus I'm quite muscular already, so they'd assume I'm some brute. But nope. Probably it's because that I look more "boyish" and "clean" and she could sense my inexperience..... that's why she probably took advantage of me. And thank you, I'm gonna stay on here for the time being

I brought up the time when she tried to change her bold image when she perceived me as white to a "good girl" image after finding out my ethnic background and religion and she denies this

Your dad is fucking based and you sound like a little beta cuck
Thank you but I don't want to be seen as a little beta cuck

From everything im hearing it sounds like shes a compulsive liar. I hate to get involved in peoples buisness but theres endless red flags. I would side with your dad on this one if i were you. Sucks you are being taken advantage of
The worst thing is that it's a woman taking advantage of a man. What red flags would you say are the worst?
 
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dude this girl is so weird, you should really just listen to ur parents and stop while ur ahead tbh
 
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