The most brutal thing of getting blackpilled is realizing how far behind you are

[Uglybrazilian]

One habit I developed after I got blackpilled for real is the habit of stalking the local "chads"(They are not chads by this forum's standards, just normal gl guys who slay)
I just take a look at their social media profiles to see what can I do to compete, and is brutal to perceive how far behind I am:

1 - They have tons of friends/followers on social media due to years of NTness, probably since their teenage years. Most of them dont even need Tinder since they are already socialcirclemaxxed to the bone. Depending on Tinder to actually talk to some girl is a huge sign of autism.

2 - Most of them are picturemaxxed. Since they go out a lot, most of them have travel pictures, beach pictures etc. I almost cage at the huge amounts of non-selfie pictures this guys have, its ridiculous. Even when I go to the beach or travel, Im too high inhib to ask someone to take a picture of me JFL

3 - They are above average lookswise(obviously) and most of them have huge sex appeal and halos, such as many tattoos, beard, or nice smile. Water, I know.



There's simply NO WAY to catch up. No way to build a huge social circle, no way to have so many interesting pictures, no way to become so NT after years of trauma and isolation.

The only thing we can do is get surgery, get roids, tats etc, boost our sex appeal as much as possible and them try to slay on tinder with shitty aspie selfies. We'll never be normal slayers like them.

 

[Uglybrazilian]

@Beetlejuice @Tyronecell brutal

 

[fukmylyf]

how old are you? You just have to get the ball rolling tbh

 

[JosephGarrot123]

That's a negative mindset stop comparing yourself to chads it's not gonna end well. Just soft and hardmaxx to your fullest potential. Comparison creates stress and thats a looksmin too

 

[Uglybrazilian]

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how old are you? You just have to get the ball rolling tbh

im 21
my last try to improve my social circle is running music game since I play guitar and sing, I have a band with my friends, we are waiting for corona to end up so we can search for a place to play

 

[Uglybrazilian]

That's a negative mindset stop comparing yourself to chads it's not gonna end well. Just soft and hardmaxx to your fullest potential. Comparison creates stress and thats a looksmin too

Thanks for the advice nigga
I actually needed an advice like this.

 

[Bitch]

It's insane how no one told us, including me, on how and why we should do that. Imagine not having blackpilled parents, that sucks. I'm so glad I started using Instagram at just the right time, maybe even too late, when I was 15. Your presence on social media is VERY important, especially if you're a teenager. It's all about tactics, what to post, what angle to choose, lightning and so on, maybe photoshop a little. The worst thing you could do is post a selfie with a snapchat filter on Instagram, I mean then just don't post at all.

 

[Bitch]

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im 21
my last try to improve my social circle is running music game since I play guitar and sing, I have a band with my friends, we are waiting for corona to end up so we can search for a place to play

Yeah that's a good tactic. I'm also a musician myself and I post various covers on my main IG too. I just combine my personal IG with covers, so also many people who don't know me in person and don't care about my looks follow me for covers and then people see that I have more followers.

 

[Uglybrazilian]

It's insane how no one told us, including me, on how and why we should do that. Imagine not having blackpilled parents, that sucks. I'm so glad I started using Instagram at just the right time, maybe even too late, when I was 15. Your presence on social media is VERY important, especially if you're a teenager. It's all about tactics, what to post, what angle to choose, lightning and so on, maybe photoshop a little. The worst thing you could do is post a selfie with a snapchat filter on Instagram, I mean then just don't post at all.

Yeah nigga, nobody ever told me what I should do so I ended up literally YEARS BEHIND. Fuckin brutal.

 

[fukmylyf]

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im 21
my last try to improve my social circle is running music game since I play guitar and sing, I have a band with my friends, we are waiting for corona to end up so we can search for a place to play

yeah bro you can easily socialmaxx at your age. I accumulated a lot of experiences/proof in just 2 years.

 

[moggingmachine]

usually when i say didnt read i did read but this time i really didnt read

 

[RAITEIII]

One habit I developed after I got blackpilled for real is the habit of stalking the local "chads"(They are not chads by this forum's standards, just normal gl guys who slay)
I just take a look at their social media profiles to see what can I do to compete, and is brutal to perceive how far behind I am:

1 - They have tons of friends/followers on social media due to years of NTness, probably since their teenage years. Most of them dont even need Tinder since they are already socialcirclemaxxed to the bone. Depending on Tinder to actually talk to some girl is a huge sign of autism.

2 - Most of them are picturemaxxed. Since they go out a lot, most of them have travel pictures, beach pictures etc. I almost cage at the huge amounts of non-selfie pictures this guys have, its ridiculous. Even when I go to the beach or travel, Im too high inhib to ask someone to take a picture of me JFL

3 - They are above average lookswise(obviously) and most of them have huge sex appeal and halos, such as many tattoos, beard, or nice smile. Water, I know.



There's simply NO WAY to catch up. No way to build a huge social circle, no way to have so many interesting pictures, no way to become so NT after years of trauma and isolation.

The only thing we can do is get surgery, get roids, tats etc, boost our sex appeal as much as possible and them try to slay on tinder with shitty aspie selfies. We'll never be normal slayers like them.

U only need looks. Don't ivercomplocate things for urself

 

[yunggod]

fuck this hurt badly

 

[Uglybrazilian]

U only need looks. Don't ivercomplocate things for urself

Its not that simple
even if you catch up in looks you'll still need to have a social life so you can meet people
otherwise you'll be limited to dating apps

 

[JosephGarrot123]

Thanks for the advice nigga
I actually needed an advice like this.

Take it from someone who constantly overthinks (Depression,anxiety,BDD) I'm fucked up mentally however one thing I learned is to not think negatively think about what you CAN control and not what you can't control. Comparison is an easy way to get stressed and it's unproductive it won't benefit you. What you can do is obviously looksmaxx(soft,hardmaxx) if you lack the funds then get the money(Job or something) to get surgeries. Time is ticking time moves fast you'll be 25-30 before you know it.

 

[RAITEIII]

Its not that simple
even if you catch up in looks you'll still need to have a social life so you can meet people
otherwise you'll be limited to dating apps

Once u have look then go out socialise if u reckon u don't look good enough to do it now (mistake tho).

Daily reminder that everyone sells the movie of their life on social media jfl.

 

[Deleted member 245]

That's a negative mindset stop comparing yourself to chads it's not gonna end well. Just soft and hardmaxx to your fullest potential. Comparison creates stress and thats a looksmin too

Yeah even if you don't "catch up", it's better to looksmax as opposed to spending the rest of your life being ugly

 

[JosephGarrot123]

Yeah even if you don't "catch up", it's better to looksmax as opposed to spending the rest of your life being ugly

Exactly we can say "oh life isn't fair" or "I regret my decision to not do that" but at the end of the day time is moving and you have to move on and do something about it. If you don't like your looks or situation then do something about it

 

[Uglybrazilian]

Once u have look then go out socialise if u reckon u don't look good enough to do it now (mistake tho).

Daily reminder that everyone sells the movie of their life on social media jfl.

ok but how to socialize nigga? you cant go to a party or something all alone and expect to build a social circle out of this

 

[Deleted member 1100]

"There's literally nothing I can think of that's more cringe than some genetic dead end socially outcasted low status loser trying to "self improve" to fit into society. It's like they're so far off the mark I don't even know where to begin with them. The average person, and even the above average, just exist and the things that you consider "normal" just happen to them. No high schooler ever had to "self improve" to get a girlfriend, he just existed, thought it would be cool and fun to play sports, and a girl was attracted to him and they gravitated towards each other. There's no thought out into any of this, these things just happened through the natural flow of life, no "self-improvement" necessary. That's what happens when you're not a genetic dead end mentally ill freak, you don't ever find yourself one night lying in bed alone wondering why you don't have a single friend or you've never kissed a girl at 23 years old. You don't devise a plan to stop touching your cock for six months in order to look a girl in the eye. You just exist, you go with the societal flow, and you end up with a wife, a nice job, a house, and some kids. If you missed out on this flow, its probably because you're complete genetic shit."

Brutal, it is what it is

 

[JosephGarrot123]

"There's literally nothing I can think of that's more cringe than some genetic dead end socially outcasted low status loser trying to "self improve" to fit into society. It's like they're so far off the mark I don't even know where to begin with them. The average person, and even the above average, just exist and the things that you consider "normal" just happen to them. No high schooler ever had to "self improve" to get a girlfriend, he just existed, thought it would be cool and fun to play sports, and a girl was attracted to him and they gravitated towards each other. There's no thought out into any of this, these things just happened through the natural flow of life, no "self-improvement" necessary. That's what happens when you're not a genetic dead end mentally ill freak, you don't ever find yourself one night lying in bed alone wondering why you don't have a single friend or you've never kissed a girl at 23 years old. You don't devise a plan to stop touching your cock for six months in order to look a girl in the eye. You just exist, you go with the societal flow, and you end up with a wife, a nice job, a house, and some kids. If you missed out on this flow, its probably because you're complete genetic shit."

Brutal, it is what it is

What's the solution or alternative?

 

[RAITEIII]

ok but how to socialize nigga? you cant go to a party or something all alone and expect to build a social circle out of this

I'm not the person to ask. Personally looking decent makes me more charismatic low inhib

 

[Beetlejuice]

Its not that simple
even if you catch up in looks you'll still need to have a social life so you can meet people
otherwise you'll be limited to dating apps

Straight from Amnesia:
"but but but u u u only need looks bro"

 

[Beetlejuice]

 

[Uglybrazilian]

Straight from Amnesia:
"but but but u u u only need looks bro"
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Brutal
aspies here cope with "just get looks bro" cause they are too scared to face the fact that you actually NEED to go out or else you simply wont be exposed to women

 

[Chadlitecel]

you are still young, you have a lot of time to improve.

 

[Deleted member 1100]

What's the solution or alternative?

Stopping overthinking. Unironically, just be yourself

And while you're being yourself make money, quick money. Just make it, ewhore, stocks, day trading, crypto, selling online infro product or dropshipping, I don't care, make money FAST! The reason why majority of people here haven't looksmaxed yet is money, that should be the primal focus of anyone here. JFL @ you if you can't turn 1k into 100k in one year, 1 year to make that, than another year for all the surgeries you need + skin and hairmax. Over if you don't finish your shit in less than 2 years of looksmaxing/blackpill

 

[JosephGarrot123]

Stopping overthinking. Unironically, just be yourself

And while you're being yourself make money, quick money. Just make it, ewhore, stocks, day trading, crypto, selling online infro product or dropshipping, I don't care, make money FAST! The reason why majority of people here haven't looksmaxed yet is money, that should be the primal focus of anyone here. JFL @ you if you can't turn 1k into 100k in one year, 1 year to make that, than another year for all the surgeries you need + skin and hairmax. Over if you don't finish your shit in less than 2 years of looksmaxing/blackpill

Exactly people don't realize that the reason why you're ugly/rotting is money. You need money in order to get those expensive surgeries. Softmaxxing is important also, Skin/Hair/Gym

 

[EdwardCullen]

It's insane how no one told us, including me, on how and why we should do that. Imagine not having blackpilled parents, that sucks. I'm so glad I started using Instagram at just the right time, maybe even too late, when I was 15. Your presence on social media is VERY important, especially if you're a teenager. It's all about tactics, what to post, what angle to choose, lightning and so on, maybe photoshop a little. The worst thing you could do is post a selfie with a snapchat filter on Instagram, I mean then just don't post at all.

Jfl and lmao at what u wrote, real life matters the most not some fake online chat bullshit. all foids know u can fraud online and every one has a filter on that makes them chad Nowadays

 

[EdwardCullen]

That's a negative mindset stop comparing yourself to chads it's not gonna end well. Just soft and hardmaxx to your fullest potential. Comparison creates stress and thats a looksmin too

I 100% agree, dont focus on others and comparing is a death sentence for ur mental health. Be competitive but be healthy competitive not hypercompetitive ur life will be fking miserable.

 

[Bitch]

Jfl and lmao at what u wrote, real life matters the most not some fake online chat bullshit. all foids know u can fraud online and every one has a filter on that makes them chad Nowadays

Imagine being a "Chad" irl and not having an Instagram account, already makes you a social outcast. People will think you're weird.

 

[EdwardCullen]

Imagine being a "Chad" irl and not having an Instagram account, already makes you a social outcast. People will think you're weird.

do u really think a girl cares about ur instagram account or ur social media presence if ur a chad? U sound retarded u aspie. A large social media following is just a plus like having a nice car or nice watch or nice clothes. This is the same thing as saying chad needs a personality, chad doesnt need shit, he just needs to exist, look at meeks he went to fucking jail for assaulting women and his picture went online and BOOM next thing u know hes a superstar.

am i rite or am i rite my niggas @GigaMogger @Short Ugly and Brown @JosephGarrot123

 

[JosephGarrot123]

do u really think a girl cares about ur instagram account or ur social media presence if ur a chad? U sound retarded u aspie. A large social media following is just a plus like having a nice car or nice watch or nice clothes. This is the same thing as saying chad needs a personality, chad doesnt need shit, he just needs to exist, look at meeks he went to fucking jail for assaulting women and his picture went online and BOOM next thing u know hes a superstar.

am i rite or am i rite my niggas @GigaMogger @Short Ugly and Brown @JosephGarrot123

You're right chad is chad.

 

[Entschuldigung]

That's a negative mindset stop comparing yourself to chads it's not gonna end well. Just soft and hardmaxx to your fullest potential. Comparison creates stress and thats a looksmin too

Yes the only truth in bluepill is stop comparing yourself to others tbh

 

[JosephGarrot123]

Yes the only truth in bluepill is stop comparing yourself to others tbh

It's not productive at all just creates unnecessary stress

 

[Entschuldigung]

I Was so NT on internet on the times of orkut (op knows) i had so much friends, and when facebook went huge i was popular too but i got bored of everything, i stopped posting since then.

 

[Deleted member 7560]

Chad has been Mewing since birth

Honestly we should get a bunch of Chads and study how they grew up to advance looksmaxxing

 

[Bitch]

do u really think a girl cares about ur instagram account or ur social media presence if ur a chad? U sound retarded u aspie. A large social media following is just a plus like having a nice car or nice watch or nice clothes. This is the same thing as saying chad needs a personality, chad doesnt need shit, he just needs to exist, look at meeks he went to fucking jail for assaulting women and his picture went online and BOOM next thing u know hes a superstar.

am i rite or am i rite my niggas @GigaMogger @Short Ugly and Brown @JosephGarrot123

So by your theory every chad = supermodel? The competition is tough for chads too, they can easily get some slays through Instagram, which is why they don't need to use shitty apps like Tinder. It's a very important factor, also statusmaxx and makes you look NT. Sure, you can be a chad without ig, but the ones who have it are miles ahead of you.

 

[EdwardCullen]

So by your theory every chad = supermodel? The competition is tough for chads too, they can easily get some slays through Instagram, which is why they don't need to use shitty apps like Tinder. It's a very important factor, also statusmaxx and makes you look NT. Sure, you can be a chad without ig, but the ones who have it are miles ahead of you.

so how tf did meeks get so famous

 

[Bitch]

so how tf did meeks get so famous

Jfl greycel. He was a genetic miracle with very rare phenotype, features and coloring. Your typical high school chad isn't one.

 

[Deleted member 7776]

True tbh, I'm 24 and feel like time's already running out BUT before I kms I'll at least try to become 6PSL so if I do end up offing myself I'll off myself knowing I'll have tried.

 

[EdwardCullen]

Jfl greycel. He was a genetic miracle with very rare phenotype, features and coloring. Your typical high school chad isn't one.

Like i said before and ima say again, chads are automatically statusmaxxed for their looks alone. You could go to highschool college whatever and someone could take a pic of u and u will be the talk of the town. ur not a true chad if u rely on social media and status to get laid

 

[EdwardCullen]

True tbh, I'm 24 and feel like time's already running out BUT before I kms I'll at least try to become 6PSL so if I do end up offing myself I'll off myself knowing I'll have tried.

bro seriously speaking, dont let the blackpill consume you. I have Let it consume me a few times but it gets dangerous and u realize there is no hope sometimes. Enjoy life and make the best of it and dont compare ur self to chads and other people daily it will eat u alive this mentality. Be healthy with the looksmaxxing and be realistic with ur self Cuz at the end of the day you need to realize everything happens by chance and there are people who are chads and in far worse situations than you are and people who are ugly af and are in way better situations than u.

 

[Slayer]

Your only option, assuming you don't want to rely on tinder, is looksmax as much as you can and put yourself in public places where a girl might approach you. Then pray she's non-NT and won't mind too much if you're socially behind (very low chance).

 

[Bitch]

Like i said before and ima say again, chads are automatically statusmaxxed for their looks alone. You could go to highschool college whatever and someone could take a pic of u and u will be the talk of the town. ur not a true chad if u rely on social media and status to get laid

It does help a lot as I said before, your audience automatically becomes bigger. Sure, a scenario like this could happen too. But I know people would just get this weird feeling about this chad, like why is he so good looking and doesn't use Instagram, like the rest 99% of us in the class? Like, I know for myself, if I saw some stacy and I found out she doesn't use ig and snapchat, I'd be shocked and this would trigger a reaction in my brain, like, what is her real value, do only I perceive her the way I do and her smv isn't as high, what the fuck is the matter with her, is she autistic? Normally it's always been that only the weirdest kids and biggest nerds in my class didn't use these types of social medias, so that would seem weird. I don't know how old you are, but for almost all teenagers that would sound insane.

 

[Uglybrazilian]

Your only option, assuming you don't want to rely on tinder, is looksmax as much as you can and put yourself in public places where a girl might approach you. Then pray she's non-NT and won't mind too much if you're socially behind (very low chance).

its not that I dont want to rely on Tinder, but tbh Tinder is not ideal
its a very hard place to find a good girl and having only dating apps to rely is limiting cause there are many more girls out there who are not on Tinder, and there's also the fact that finding a LTR with a girl from tinder is also very hard.

Of course im planning to run tinder game after my looksmaxing, cause its pretty much my only option, but having an actual social circle is way better.

 

[CursedOne]

are you the guy in your avi?

 

[Uglybrazilian]

are you the guy in your avi?

Nigga thats Tyler The Creator