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Or People forced By Cuck society and there parents. I got Detained So I was Forced to go initially. Now i'm just going for the Mew Vector
yeah i was talking about the ppl who go willingly
same bro, fuckk. Get out the system while you can
Have you Even Had therapy these days. It is dominated by male Feminists and Dykes. Stay away
I had twice, and it was utterly useless ngl (my main problem was apnea in the end which made it complicated for them I must say). But I did my psychoanalysis on my own by reading books by the best authors and couple of content creators I liked and managed to substantially heal my attachment wounds, identify degrees of psychopathologies in my parents and self, I changed a lot for the better, which makes me convince that improving through psychotherapy is possible if you get a good one, but imo it is like the most complex job to do well, human beings are extensively complex and you need to work with the limited information that is often skew you get from the patient, the patients also need to be open and have some level of trust in the therapist for the therapy to work.
how do people get forced to go? not even kidding i have no idea
I got legally Detained and Put in a Ward And the Only way I could get discharged was if I blue pilled Them that I stopped believing In my delusion(Lookism and Mewing+Corrupt Orthodentic society) and that I would have to go to Bullshit therapy.
holy shit more details man? holy fucking shit this must be larp
> big if true
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like you told your parents you didnt want braces and they put u in ward?
yes bro
Got it, man. What type of shit did they tell you?
,,its all in ur head''
I see your point.
No doubt, people have issues here. But how exactly would a psychologist help? As someone who's been in and out the system for almost 10 years, I can say they're completely fucking useless.
Except therapists are trying to make incels more high inhibition. That's all they've done with me.
That's the sad part. I absolutely need psychological help. But, the current system can't help me at all, I know it and they know it, but the charade needs to continue for the almighty shekel.
Curious to know in what ways/how (not for the sake of arguing, just curiosity in your experience)
therapy made all my issues worse tbh. The only time my mood improves is when I'm missing appointments.
Just by reading the literature of attachment styles most can already make small improvements by identifying and understanding their attachment style.
My experience was that my female therapist became my oneitis, she led me on to the point where she could press harassment charges on me, and try leading me to suicide.
If a trained psychotherapist was blackpill would you be interested in working with him?
No. The last counselor I had was sort of blackpill as he was an uglier old dude, and numerous times he'd say like "we're not this top 20% of these handsome guys.... so we just have to keep trying more!". I can't see a scenario where a therapist would actually give good advice and work with an incel, because all of them are working with a majority of females, and whatever they learned is based from feminists that hate ugly males and have no idea what they're suffering.
I think most are intelligent enough to understand their issues. It doesn't really make a difference.
Well, I can say from my experience I didn't, human psychological development is the most intricate subject I ever explored, I taught I had good healthy parents, never lived traumas, after investigation I realized they weren't as healthy as I think and live countless minor forms of trauma throughout my youth by their seemingly normal way of parenting, I believe most people would make similar realizations if they were to do the same exercise.
This is one of the few subjects where therapy actually did help me. I didn't realize how much dumb shit my family drilled in my head. That's a common thing for everyone in therapy though, I heard it all the time in group therapy.
Yeah, solving inceldom and everything that relates to it for an ugly man is trying to fix the unfixable I must say.
But how does that make a difference?
The literature on the subject shows it is fixable to a certain extent, a therapist can offer a new secure attachment base in which you can learn to create new healthy forms of attachment. In a way to maximize your survival, you have adapted yourself to the parenting style of your parents which formed your inner working models of self and others, assuming your parents didn't offer you secure based of attachment, you had to develop insecure attachment in order to survive (like being emotionally unresponsive, cutting off your emotions, to the presence/treatment of your parent in a way to limit the damage done to you), by understanding how this came to be and dedicated learning of healthier interpretations of the self/others, you can overtime rewrite the way you interpret self/others through neuroplasticity, the sooner the better.
But... I can't bro. This is like telling a blind person to start seeing. FFS I feel like I'm at an appointment now
Well, I have AvPD as well, I honestly operate much more within a secure attachment style after following what just has been mentioned.
elab cuck. Give me examples
Previous self -> always try to read other people, how they are perceiving you, adjust the way you speak/act to gain their respect/love/affection/admiration/etc, try to be the best at everything / try to act cool, this is how I maximize my interactions with others and through the process my representation of self, so I can come to accept and love myself fully. Avoid being vulnerable it might show flaws of your imperfect self to others.
Curious what normal parenting behaviors do you mean?
Parents need to constantly help you express and reflect your inner experience as a child so you can come to understand your inner experience, they must be very curious and connected with that inner experience, they are emotionally attuned with you, they must show to be accepting of your inner world, they don't interpret with a certain bias, show that the emotions you experience are normal, bad emotions aren't to be rejected, they are to be understood, no matter what they display unconditional love and affection to you, if they aren't doing this well, they aren't doing good parenting.
