BeautifulBones
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I was reading some old arguments between Crisick and @Dude420 , and they're were quite good talking about the primary modality of attraction whether it be subjective or objective. @Dude420 also did a good job with his analysis of Kant I was pleasantly surprised at the IQ I was seeing display after all the low IQ post I read through on a daily. (P.S @Dude420 you also have to read Nietzche, Buber, Heidegger and Dostoevesky, as you have not assimilated the objective and subjective modalities into one beautiful philosophy, but your probably young)
However on to what I truly want to talk about
On the lookist scene we tend to primarily talk about facial looks for getting girls , and although it's one of the most efficient ways to get girls per SD it's not the only way. There are a lot of members that are blessed in other ways let's examine some other ways. These all have genetic components to it , but you might be genetically blessed enough to make it where your looks fell short
Personality - A personality that's a good friend is not the same as an attractive personality. An attractive personality to a woman is basically grounded in someone who can take a lot of mental punishment, and is very aware. This served a evolutionary purpose, so that if someone died they could keep pushing on and take care of children and the tribe. Being very aware to see opportunities like food, and avoiding predators. This is first second is being a genuinely fun person to be around. Think like a popular talk show host , or some masculine comedians like Dave Chapelle, Bill Burr and Russell Brand. Third is being caring and compassionate , and being in tuned to the girls subjective experience.
I can speak on this one extensively , as I live in NYC , and it attracts all the big personalities like Donald Trump and Jay Leno, as well as all the other talk show hosts. I see average guys that have all these 3 personality traits , and they slay like a chad lite. I've also given examples here and here
Money - While there are some gold diggers, and you want to avoid these girls as much as possible, and this stradegy gets a bad rap as betabuxxing. Most girls aren't attracted to the money itself , of course the better lifestyle and the fact you can provide more for her children , but the primary factor in this mode of attraction is your a guy that can make a lot of money. Why else are med school students and law students so attractive. They're potential to make a lot of money. This too is genetically determined by 4 factors primarily IQ, Conscientiousness, Low Neuroticism and High Openness to Experience (look up Hexaco). Girls want to literally birth more people like this into society , but the only drawback of this strategy is that woman work now, so your potential to make money has to be higher than it would've been in a time like the 1950's. If your IQ is high like mine or @Dude420 , @bain or the @theropeking you can do this strategy and slay
Status - You don't have to actually be famous for this to work. You could just be locally famous with a few 1000 followers on social media. The primary thing that girls are attracted to out of this one is social skills and social awareness. Girl's have no problem dating a guy that's more socially apt then them. Not only does this cause deep attraction , but girls will try harder to keep you. Since they know you have the social skills to easily meet another woman. People like this know some of the best club promoters, and social media famous people. This one is kind of hard to separate from personality, but think of this once as kind of personality + extroversion.
Body - I wrote a whole thread on the ideal male body here, but if your over 6ft + have a good body. It can halo any face. I think girls like good bodies because from an evolutionary perspective it meant a lot of good things like :
> This man could afford enough food to grow muscle
> He'll survive long enough to take care of children
> He can take pain over a long period of time
> There's research that says being in shape favorably effects your epigenetics, and therefore giving your children better genetics that you would've given if you were out of shape
> Muscles make woman feel safe
So if you have an ugly face don't worry you might not ever be a slayer, but you can statistically speaking be at least average
However on to what I truly want to talk about
On the lookist scene we tend to primarily talk about facial looks for getting girls , and although it's one of the most efficient ways to get girls per SD it's not the only way. There are a lot of members that are blessed in other ways let's examine some other ways. These all have genetic components to it , but you might be genetically blessed enough to make it where your looks fell short
Personality - A personality that's a good friend is not the same as an attractive personality. An attractive personality to a woman is basically grounded in someone who can take a lot of mental punishment, and is very aware. This served a evolutionary purpose, so that if someone died they could keep pushing on and take care of children and the tribe. Being very aware to see opportunities like food, and avoiding predators. This is first second is being a genuinely fun person to be around. Think like a popular talk show host , or some masculine comedians like Dave Chapelle, Bill Burr and Russell Brand. Third is being caring and compassionate , and being in tuned to the girls subjective experience.
I can speak on this one extensively , as I live in NYC , and it attracts all the big personalities like Donald Trump and Jay Leno, as well as all the other talk show hosts. I see average guys that have all these 3 personality traits , and they slay like a chad lite. I've also given examples here and here
Money - While there are some gold diggers, and you want to avoid these girls as much as possible, and this stradegy gets a bad rap as betabuxxing. Most girls aren't attracted to the money itself , of course the better lifestyle and the fact you can provide more for her children , but the primary factor in this mode of attraction is your a guy that can make a lot of money. Why else are med school students and law students so attractive. They're potential to make a lot of money. This too is genetically determined by 4 factors primarily IQ, Conscientiousness, Low Neuroticism and High Openness to Experience (look up Hexaco). Girls want to literally birth more people like this into society , but the only drawback of this strategy is that woman work now, so your potential to make money has to be higher than it would've been in a time like the 1950's. If your IQ is high like mine or @Dude420 , @bain or the @theropeking you can do this strategy and slay
Status - You don't have to actually be famous for this to work. You could just be locally famous with a few 1000 followers on social media. The primary thing that girls are attracted to out of this one is social skills and social awareness. Girl's have no problem dating a guy that's more socially apt then them. Not only does this cause deep attraction , but girls will try harder to keep you. Since they know you have the social skills to easily meet another woman. People like this know some of the best club promoters, and social media famous people. This one is kind of hard to separate from personality, but think of this once as kind of personality + extroversion.
Body - I wrote a whole thread on the ideal male body here, but if your over 6ft + have a good body. It can halo any face. I think girls like good bodies because from an evolutionary perspective it meant a lot of good things like :
> This man could afford enough food to grow muscle
> He'll survive long enough to take care of children
> He can take pain over a long period of time
> There's research that says being in shape favorably effects your epigenetics, and therefore giving your children better genetics that you would've given if you were out of shape
> Muscles make woman feel safe
So if you have an ugly face don't worry you might not ever be a slayer, but you can statistically speaking be at least average