traumas from childhood&teenage years

[randomvanish]

i had so many family related traumas that i don't want to even think about it. i'm an nt, funny guy with a great social circle but i get a feeling sometimes how unlucky i am and those times i cannot even work properly and that makes me look so depressed & boring.

i don't want to talk with a pshyc or a friend because they are just bad incidents happen to me and my family.


what should i do to forget and reset my mind?


ps : i'm talking about real problems like rape, abuse, beating, dark family secrets etc.

 

[Deleted member 13332]

i had so many family related traumas that i don't want to even think about it. i'm an nt guy with a great social circle but i get a feeling sometimes how unlucky i am and those times i cannot even work properly and that makes me look so depressed & boring.

i don't want to talk with a pshyc or a friend because they are just bad incidents happen to me and my family.


what should i do to forget and reset my mind?

nothing like i cant do nothing about my awful teen years

 

[Pythagoras]

Accept it. nothing else will work. no pill, doctor, or a friend. you need to accept what happened and move on.

 

[randomvanish]

Accept it. nothing else will work. no pill, doctor, or a friend. you need to accept what happened and move on.

there is a weird pattern, i get girls who live&sound like my family. i don't know if this is "law of attraction" but i'm getting sick of it.
also thanks to my mom and family, they keep bringing old issues again and again.


btw, while we're fucked, other family members like cousins etc. are great at life. seems like only we, the abused dogs are fucked while people who cause all the pain we have living a great life.

 

[Pythagoras]

there is a weird pattern, i get girls who live&sound like my family. i don't know if this is "law of attraction" but i'm getting sick of it.
also thanks to my mom and family, they keep bringing old issues again and again.


btw, while we're fucked, other family members like cousins etc. are great at life. seems like only we, the abused dogs are fucked while people who cause all the pain we have living a great life.

Accept. embrace the suck.

 

[randomvanish]

Accept. embrace the suck.

cope but nothing to do...

 

[Pythagoras]

cope but nothing to do...

Exactly, nothing to do. accept.

 

[Idontknowlol]

When I was 12 or so, I remember I had a crush on a cute blonde girl. I had a friend who knew her, so the typical autist I was, I told him to go and tell her I like her. The dude goes and talks to her, and he comes back and tells me "she likes you too", I'm like WOW ARE YOU SERIOUS? And he replies "no, joking, she said why would I like that ugly boy, he is so ugly i could never be with him?"

jokes on her, now is she fat while im shredded gym autist who lifts 5 days per week

 

[khvirgin]

I have real traumas and I've only talked to my therapist.
Maybe I could talk to someone I trust one day, but I doubt it, I'm too paranoid.

 

[randomvanish]

When I was 12 or so, I remember I had a crush on a cute blonde girl. I had a friend who knew her, so the typical autist I was, I told him to go and tell her I like her. The dude goes and talks to her, and he comes back and tells me "she likes you too", I'm like WOW ARE YOU SERIOUS? And he replies "no, joking, she said why would I like that ugly boy, he is so ugly i could never be with him?"

jesus i'm not talking about this kind of "trauma"

 

[Pythagoras]

When I was 12 or so, I remember I had a crush on a cute blonde girl. I had a friend who knew her, so the typical autist I was, I told him to go and tell her I like her. The dude goes and talks to her, and he comes back and tells me "she likes you too", I'm like WOW ARE YOU SERIOUS? And he replies "no, joking, she said why would I like that ugly boy, he is so ugly i could never be with him?"

jokes on her, now is she fat while im shredded gym autist who lifts 5 days per week

normiecel

 

[n0rthface]

Tell us ur passed, maybe other users can relate

 

[Deleted member 4430]

i'm an nt, funny guy with a great social circle

 

[randomvanish]

Tell us ur passed, maybe other users can relate

it doesn't matter, imagine a tragedy done by mean people, typical abuse stories.

 

[randomvanish]

well, i am. that's how i got laid in my early teen years.

 

[Deleted member 4430]

ps : i'm talking about real problems like rape, abuse, beating, dark family secrets etc.

@Grimba moment

 

[randomvanish]

@Grimba moment

poor grimba

 

[AlwaysHaveQuestions]

do you like your family?

 

[Dr. Greenberg]

Is that Peter Parker in your profile picture?

From what year and edition is that?
@randomvanish

 

[randomvanish]

Is that Peter Parker in your profile picture?

From what year and edition is that?
@randomvanish

animated series 94

 

[Dr. Greenberg]

animated series 94

Where can I watch it? What episode is that pic from?

 

[randomvanish]

do you like your family?

neutral. they are victim too (except my father, he's evil)

 

[randomvanish]

Where can I watch it? What episode is that pic from?

season 1 , episode 3rd i guess. why?

 

[Deleted member 15406]

i had so many family related traumas that i don't want to even think about it. i'm an nt, funny guy with a great social circle but i get a feeling sometimes how unlucky i am and those times i cannot even work properly and that makes me look so depressed & boring.

i don't want to talk with a pshyc or a friend because they are just bad incidents happen to me and my family.


what should i do to forget and reset my mind?


ps : i'm talking about real problems like rape, abuse, beating, dark family secrets etc.

I could relate I only remember happiness when I was a kid put when I became a teenager I learned the truth about who my family was put tbh I could give anything for the feeling I had as a kid