yolomann
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First of all, I'm not a good looking guy, I know that because no woman ever said to me that I am good looking or handsome (except my mom, LOL). I am extremely skinny because of a genetic disorder, meaning long limbs, thin wrists, narrow shoulders, I had protruding chest but I got that fixed, and the worst is receding lower jaw which makes me look weak and at least five years younger than my actual age, I'm 24 btw. I'm planning to fix my jaw but they won't perform bimax on me because of ruined orthodontic work. I can't even lift weights because that would potentially make my aorta burst and I would die. The only good thing about this genetic disorder is my height, I'm 6'4 but in my opinion that doesn't really matter as long as my other features are so bad.
Now here comes the interesting part, I'm not trying to be humble bragging BUT, somehow I still manage to pull women. I had 4 GFs, 2 of those were way out of my league (7-8/10), and around 30-40 sexual partners, varying in looks, but most of them were around and above 5/10. I got most of these from clubs and Tinder. Usually I'm invisible to women, as soon as I make eye contact they look away or they don't even look at me at all. However, when I start talking to them or spend some time with them they seem to be more open and willing to consider me as an option. I still get a lot of rejection, like I get rejected 9 times out of 10, but at the end of the day I get pussy.
I was wondering, according to the blackpill and other theories that are being discussed on this forum, I should be an incel, but somehow for me it doesn't apply. Based on my experience I think the following: Looks are the most important, especially when you see someone for the first time, I'm not arguing that, but even if you look like shit you can actually get some results, unless you are seriously disfigured, because if you are, then I guess it's over. When I'm picking up and talking to girls I usually imagine myself as a someone who is good looking and I truly believe it in that moment, so it doesn't feel like I'm faking it. If you are faking it without actually believing it, it will be obvious and that will be a huge turn off for most women. I know this sounds cope and lame but it still works. I think that confidence, having a game, and social skills are way too undervalued in incel communities. I see many guys here with much better aesthetics than I have, still crying about being virgins and how it's over for them. Most of these guys are socially inept, you can even tell that by their writing style and there's nothing worse than people who lack social skills, that's when it is really OVER. I know that this opinion is widely unpopular on these forums but I would still like to hear your opinions. I can post images of myself if requested. Have a nice day.
Now here comes the interesting part, I'm not trying to be humble bragging BUT, somehow I still manage to pull women. I had 4 GFs, 2 of those were way out of my league (7-8/10), and around 30-40 sexual partners, varying in looks, but most of them were around and above 5/10. I got most of these from clubs and Tinder. Usually I'm invisible to women, as soon as I make eye contact they look away or they don't even look at me at all. However, when I start talking to them or spend some time with them they seem to be more open and willing to consider me as an option. I still get a lot of rejection, like I get rejected 9 times out of 10, but at the end of the day I get pussy.
I was wondering, according to the blackpill and other theories that are being discussed on this forum, I should be an incel, but somehow for me it doesn't apply. Based on my experience I think the following: Looks are the most important, especially when you see someone for the first time, I'm not arguing that, but even if you look like shit you can actually get some results, unless you are seriously disfigured, because if you are, then I guess it's over. When I'm picking up and talking to girls I usually imagine myself as a someone who is good looking and I truly believe it in that moment, so it doesn't feel like I'm faking it. If you are faking it without actually believing it, it will be obvious and that will be a huge turn off for most women. I know this sounds cope and lame but it still works. I think that confidence, having a game, and social skills are way too undervalued in incel communities. I see many guys here with much better aesthetics than I have, still crying about being virgins and how it's over for them. Most of these guys are socially inept, you can even tell that by their writing style and there's nothing worse than people who lack social skills, that's when it is really OVER. I know that this opinion is widely unpopular on these forums but I would still like to hear your opinions. I can post images of myself if requested. Have a nice day.