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I’m struggling with my relationship and need advice. My girlfriend has been acting in ways that make me seriously question her honesty and loyalty:
1. She deleted all her videos from a recent night out and kept only the ones she sent me. Her friend (who is single) had 25+ videos from the same night, but my girlfriend refused to let me see them, saying it wasn’t my business.
2. She admitted to using a fake name when out, saying it was to stop guys from finding her socials—but her socials clearly show she’s in a relationship with me. It feels like she’s trying to seem single.
3. She has random male contacts she claims “she doesn’t know” and once got a Snapchat message from a guy saying, “F***, I’m so hungover,” which she insists was random.
4. She goes out a lot without inviting me. She sometimes says, “You should come,” but it feels more like an afterthought or to cover herself.
5. She’s always distant or “off” with me the day after her nights out.

She says she’s willing to change and wants me to meet her family, but I feel like the damage is already done. The deleted videos, secrecy, and refusal to share her friend’s videos all make it seem like she’s hiding something—or worse, cheating.


Is it time to walk bros? I’m so upset rn
 
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dont just walk, run
 
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probably reddit copypasta but you’re actually a cuck if you dont dump her
 
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This is so fucking brutal
Your girlfriend should have no reason to go out by herself getting drunk, or even talking to other males
 
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I’m struggling with my relationship and need advice. My girlfriend has been acting in ways that make me seriously question her honesty and loyalty:
1. She deleted all her videos from a recent night out and kept only the ones she sent me. Her friend (who is single) had 25+ videos from the same night, but my girlfriend refused to let me see them, saying it wasn’t my business.
2. She admitted to using a fake name when out, saying it was to stop guys from finding her socials—but her socials clearly show she’s in a relationship with me. It feels like she’s trying to seem single.
3. She has random male contacts she claims “she doesn’t know” and once got a Snapchat message from a guy saying, “F***, I’m so hungover,” which she insists was random.
4. She goes out a lot without inviting me. She sometimes says, “You should come,” but it feels more like an afterthought or to cover herself.
5. She’s always distant or “off” with me the day after her nights out.

She says she’s willing to change and wants me to meet her family, but I feel like the damage is already done. The deleted videos, secrecy, and refusal to share her friend’s videos all make it seem like she’s hiding something—or worse, cheating.


Is it time to walk bros? I’m so upset rn
From what i can gauge she for the streets bro, walk out, and if she ever valued you she would ask you to come back, if not, there are better women out there for you (hopefully)
 
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probably reddit copypasta but you’re actually a cuck if you dont dump her
Explain why bruh? I know you’re right but it sounds cringe but I love this girl man it’s hard when you really like someone
 
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From what i can gauge she for the streets bro, walk out, and if she ever valued you she would ask you to come back, if not, there are better women out there for you (hopefully)
You think she cheated and thanks man I’m so hurt rn
 
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jfl i forgot about this saga
how are you still with her dude
its been like a month
shes probably gotten railed by more than 5 dudes in this timeframe
 
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I’ve dumped my girlfriend for a lot less bro.

This is exactly the type of shit that my girlfriend would find on my phone after i cheated also lol. Like EXACTLY the same.


Dump and move on before it’s too late and others find out and you lose all credibility as a man
 
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jfl i forgot about this saga
how are you still with her dude
its been like a month
shes probably gotten railed by more than 5 dudes in this timeframe
I have her location tho she deffo ain’t getting railed weekly tho
 
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I’ve dumped my girlfriend for a lot less bro.

This is exactly the type of shit that my girlfriend would find on my phone after i cheated also lol. Like EXACTLY the same
Wdym?
 
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like i after i cheated on a night out, I’d go back to see my gf and I’d get snap notifications from the girls i got with saying “you got home safe?” “nice seeing you” etc.

I would always lie about my name to the girls i met so that they coulld never find my insta. Also I’d only ever add them on snap, to ensure my gf would not see me follow them on insta.

Etc etc
 
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is this a troll ?
 
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like i after i cheated on a night out, I’d go back to see my gf and I’d get snap notifications from the girls i got with saying “you got home safe?” “nice seeing you” etc.

I would always lie about my name to the girls i met so that they coulld never find my insta. Also I’d only ever add them on snap, to ensure my gf would not see me follow them on insta.

Etc etc
Would you say you wasn’t cheating even if she called you out?
 
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like i after i cheated on a night out, I’d go back to see my gf and I’d get snap notifications from the girls i got with saying “you got home safe?” “nice seeing you” etc.

I would always lie about my name to the girls i met so that they coulld never find my insta. Also I’d only ever add them on snap, to ensure my gf would not see me follow them on insta.

Etc etc
Youre a horrible person
 
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I wish it was….
IMG 1190
 
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its time to walk. legit no trust and communication in this relationship. which means over
 
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its time to walk. legit no trust and communication in this relationship. which means over
Hey bhai long time no see. You think she’s cheating?
 
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Hey bhai long time no see. You think she’s cheating?
hope u been doing good man. Cant say for certain or not if shes cheating, but the bottom line is there seems to be no trust or communication in this relationship which means u can find urself having deeper issues down the line. This isn't a good foid to date IMO. Fuck her and move on to higher quality women.
 
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Stay single king
 
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Dating a party girl will never work especially if your aren’t with her
 
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Does she at least let you facefuck her?
 
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now you can start using her for sex only while you start to find another gf. but don’t tell her this. Just drop it all on her once and leave for the new gf one day
 
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now you can start using her for sex only while you start to find another gf. but don’t tell her this. Just drop it all on her once and leave for the new gf one day
U gotta realise that once a girl starts cheating, she’s not in love with you and the lust is gone. She won’t fuck u no more
 
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U gotta realise that once a girl starts cheating, she’s not in love with you and the last is gone. She won’t fuck u no more
think it depends if you still have sex appeal tbh. of course if your oofy doofy its over
 
Would you say you wasn’t cheating even if she called you out?
she saw proof of me adding girls, snapping girls and everything, but as long as there was no video proof, i could always find an excuse or deny.

Your gf is 100% cheating and making up excuses.
It’s just a question of time of when she can no longer keep up the impro. Or when she gets relationship with chad, then she’ll leave you.


i know you, and i find it absolutely crazy that you can get cucked in such a way m8. You’re worth so much more than this holy fuck.
Wake up you cuck
 
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think it depends if you still have sex appeal tbh. of course if your oofy doofy its over
Doesn’t matter how hot you are girls fall in and out of love even with Chads. They don’t fuck men they don’t love (for free)
 
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Thank god I didn't ascend with a white girl. I'd rather be incel than deal with this anxiety.
 
I’m struggling with my relationship and need advice. My girlfriend has been acting in ways that make me seriously question her honesty and loyalty:
1. She deleted all her videos from a recent night out and kept only the ones she sent me. Her friend (who is single) had 25+ videos from the same night, but my girlfriend refused to let me see them, saying it wasn’t my business.
2. She admitted to using a fake name when out, saying it was to stop guys from finding her socials—but her socials clearly show she’s in a relationship with me. It feels like she’s trying to seem single.
3. She has random male contacts she claims “she doesn’t know” and once got a Snapchat message from a guy saying, “F***, I’m so hungover,” which she insists was random.
4. She goes out a lot without inviting me. She sometimes says, “You should come,” but it feels more like an afterthought or to cover herself.
5. She’s always distant or “off” with me the day after her nights out.

She says she’s willing to change and wants me to meet her family, but I feel like the damage is already done. The deleted videos, secrecy, and refusal to share her friend’s videos all make it seem like she’s hiding something—or worse, cheating.


Is it time to walk bros? I’m so upset rn
In all seriousness unadd or block her on everything either right now or the next time she does anything similar

Ropefuel, I know, but even if somehow shes not cheating, she doesn't respect you at all and thats a level of humiliation you don't deserve bhai
 
Already over boyo. Time for suregry tbh. This is the sign to change your face.ACT NOW.
 

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