WishIwasChico
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I’m struggling with my relationship and need advice. My girlfriend has been acting in ways that make me seriously question her honesty and loyalty:
1. She deleted all her videos from a recent night out and kept only the ones she sent me. Her friend (who is single) had 25+ videos from the same night, but my girlfriend refused to let me see them, saying it wasn’t my business.
2. She admitted to using a fake name when out, saying it was to stop guys from finding her socials—but her socials clearly show she’s in a relationship with me. It feels like she’s trying to seem single.
3. She has random male contacts she claims “she doesn’t know” and once got a Snapchat message from a guy saying, “F***, I’m so hungover,” which she insists was random.
4. She goes out a lot without inviting me. She sometimes says, “You should come,” but it feels more like an afterthought or to cover herself.
5. She’s always distant or “off” with me the day after her nights out.
She says she’s willing to change and wants me to meet her family, but I feel like the damage is already done. The deleted videos, secrecy, and refusal to share her friend’s videos all make it seem like she’s hiding something—or worse, cheating.
Is it time to walk bros? I’m so upset rn
1. She deleted all her videos from a recent night out and kept only the ones she sent me. Her friend (who is single) had 25+ videos from the same night, but my girlfriend refused to let me see them, saying it wasn’t my business.
2. She admitted to using a fake name when out, saying it was to stop guys from finding her socials—but her socials clearly show she’s in a relationship with me. It feels like she’s trying to seem single.
3. She has random male contacts she claims “she doesn’t know” and once got a Snapchat message from a guy saying, “F***, I’m so hungover,” which she insists was random.
4. She goes out a lot without inviting me. She sometimes says, “You should come,” but it feels more like an afterthought or to cover herself.
5. She’s always distant or “off” with me the day after her nights out.
She says she’s willing to change and wants me to meet her family, but I feel like the damage is already done. The deleted videos, secrecy, and refusal to share her friend’s videos all make it seem like she’s hiding something—or worse, cheating.
Is it time to walk bros? I’m so upset rn