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what would jordan do?
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To truly experience love you have to be willing and able to be truly vulnerable. To exist and be within yourself without worry about anything else or how you’ll be received, being you for you and loving outwardly without condition.
This subcommunicates strength and belief in oneself, and a high vibrational attitude.
Someone that knows themselves, knows what they want and is going to not compromise on this vision but also not judge others for not aligning with such vision is a force to be reckoned with.
If you guard yourself for fear of being hurt, you may put those walls up and they might keep you ‘safe’ from ‘heartbreak’, but you also end up not allowing anyone else in, friend or foe. This is not a way to live life as a human being.
Not to mention that the constant fear will reduce the quality of your life in the meantime.
Okay, maybe something bad happens eventually, but being scared of it won’t change that, and will actively lower your enjoyment of the relationship up until that point, restricting you from developing DEEP and true relationships with those that truly resonate with you.
I understand the opposing view. Woman desire masculine, dependant, and dominent men. I have no doubt that being vunerable and can have a negative impact on your relationship. Your girlfriend might show disinterest and lose attraction towards you. If thats the case the thank her for revealing her true nature and move on. Ultimatly even if you pretend and hide your emotions, your character will break eventually. The facade of a dark triad slayer will slowly crumble, and your true nature will be reaveled, you are forced to be vunerable. Then when you are weak, and unable to pretend anymore, that is when they show their true nature. Find out if she is someone worth your love, before loving her.
This may result in your heart being broken, but the alternative is never to truly be loved either. I would say that there’s less chance of having your heart hurt when you are totally within the loving space, as you attract that which you think about - if you are worried about being hurt, always ‘looking round the corner’ for danger, guess what, you’re going to find something scary around the bend.
Within relationships, the quality of the love you feel will result on how willing you are to let go. With reservation, comes problems, lying, dissonance and expectations.
If you love with conditions, then you cannot fall into the beautiful space of loving regardless of all else. Why does a dog’s love feel so beautiful? Because they love without expectation, without condition and no matter what you are doing. The same reason many users here love their mothers unconditionally despite resenting all other females. Loving without reservation will attract others that feel and love similarly.
If the girl you are with doesnt accept your true self, it is not worth dating her. If you are with a girl who you know will leave you if she sees you weak, you are cuckholding the true version of yourself. You are a truly pathetic man, who changes himself for a woman. Not everyone has a privilege to a relationship like this. Looksmax and moneymax until you are considered worthy of sharing your emotions and truly being yourself. Empty and fake relationships are not worth it.
This subcommunicates strength and belief in oneself, and a high vibrational attitude.
Someone that knows themselves, knows what they want and is going to not compromise on this vision but also not judge others for not aligning with such vision is a force to be reckoned with.
If you guard yourself for fear of being hurt, you may put those walls up and they might keep you ‘safe’ from ‘heartbreak’, but you also end up not allowing anyone else in, friend or foe. This is not a way to live life as a human being.
Not to mention that the constant fear will reduce the quality of your life in the meantime.
Okay, maybe something bad happens eventually, but being scared of it won’t change that, and will actively lower your enjoyment of the relationship up until that point, restricting you from developing DEEP and true relationships with those that truly resonate with you.
I understand the opposing view. Woman desire masculine, dependant, and dominent men. I have no doubt that being vunerable and can have a negative impact on your relationship. Your girlfriend might show disinterest and lose attraction towards you. If thats the case the thank her for revealing her true nature and move on. Ultimatly even if you pretend and hide your emotions, your character will break eventually. The facade of a dark triad slayer will slowly crumble, and your true nature will be reaveled, you are forced to be vunerable. Then when you are weak, and unable to pretend anymore, that is when they show their true nature. Find out if she is someone worth your love, before loving her.
This may result in your heart being broken, but the alternative is never to truly be loved either. I would say that there’s less chance of having your heart hurt when you are totally within the loving space, as you attract that which you think about - if you are worried about being hurt, always ‘looking round the corner’ for danger, guess what, you’re going to find something scary around the bend.
Within relationships, the quality of the love you feel will result on how willing you are to let go. With reservation, comes problems, lying, dissonance and expectations.
If you love with conditions, then you cannot fall into the beautiful space of loving regardless of all else. Why does a dog’s love feel so beautiful? Because they love without expectation, without condition and no matter what you are doing. The same reason many users here love their mothers unconditionally despite resenting all other females. Loving without reservation will attract others that feel and love similarly.
If the girl you are with doesnt accept your true self, it is not worth dating her. If you are with a girl who you know will leave you if she sees you weak, you are cuckholding the true version of yourself. You are a truly pathetic man, who changes himself for a woman. Not everyone has a privilege to a relationship like this. Looksmax and moneymax until you are considered worthy of sharing your emotions and truly being yourself. Empty and fake relationships are not worth it.